if so, what did they do to you?
and what happened to the dancer?

if so, what did they do to you?
and what happened to the dancer?





This wasn't really an extra I asked for....
She was sucking at my dick thru my pants for just a couple of seconds (unusual that it was hard). She got called out by the manager and summarily fired. Nothing happened to me, except that she told me about it when she got back downstairs without anger. I talked to the mgr, trying to help, and he said she'd been called for it a few times before; I was more angry than she was.
I saw her a few more times at another nearby club, but she didn't try that again. i bought her a couple of inexpensive presents she had mentioned. She did say she would meet me for coffee OTC (she volunteered and I didn't ask), but somehow we never worked out a schedule. I liked the gal. Very nice figure and fairly nice face; I would have felt privileged to fuck her at the time had things worked out, but I wasn't pushing it. I'm sure it would have been very nice. She's now married, I believe.
I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.



nothing. mexican clubs doesn't really care. it's up to the dancer if she wants to be an extras girl or not.
Last edited by missfOxxy; 12-29-2007 at 03:13 AM.
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hmm, i always thought the bouncer's job would be to throw the customer out of the club if his dancer was caught doing extras or something.
sorry to but in, but any time I've seen a girl giving extras, the club looks the other way and the bouncer expects a big tip/
in the few cases the dancer got called out, the custy was usually made to leave.


Couple of years back, before I had ever gotten to know my current dancer "Creampie", I was in VIP with my favorite dancer at the time and we were getting pretty "comfortable" with each other. Creampie happened to be in there at the same time and when I went back out to the main floor she came to sit with me and told me she was watching us while giving another customer a dance. I asked what she thought she had seen and she said it looked like we were having a lot of fun and she wanted to take me back to VIP and have some fun also. I think it was that night that she decided that I was going to be her next boyfriend and started telling other dancers to stay away from me.
What happened to me? Well this particular lady and I have a little history since I was her very first custy on the very first day she came to work as a freshy, and we have been friends ever since. So when she got a little fresh the other day in the couch dance area, the bouncer saw her and gave me a very stren talking to. "You know the club rules and no touching is allowed, but you've been a good custy. so I'll overlook it this time. " Basically putting ME on probation of sorts. I was flabergasted, cuz I've known this bouncer since HE started and he's always treated me very well. Then I find out from some of the others working there that A) he's been a real drama magnet since moving over to this club. He must miss all the drama over at the sister club. He's creating drama in a club reknown for it's low drama quotient. B) he's banging this particular dancer on his off hours!! Whoops!! Sorry dude, I didn't realize she was your love interest when she put my hand on her breasts, OK? Sheesh! Isn't this why there are "no bouncer/dancer relationship" rules at strip clubs? Same reason clubs don't like to see their ladies bring their SO's into the club??? Now I don't even want to go in the club any longer- talk about chasing business a way. The ladies NEVER complain about my conduct, but he seems to go out of his way to find something to bitch slap me about. If I were a dancer there, I'd give him an earful..........(
I've heard this same bouncer tougue-lash ladies for their behavior in this regard in the past, but whether the lady in question here got talking to, I have no idea.
the 801 in PDX





That is F'd up, and one of those great scenarios that show what an awesome idea it is to date people you work with in a strip club. As far as I know w/my limited exposure, your behavior is exemplary. I'm not sure if you are referring to the club I am thinking of, but if you are, I wonder if this is a part of the general drama-rific trend I have been hearing of.





rules? LOL...you think sc are picky enough to hire the kind of people who would obey those kind of rules?
well, he's just being a gentleman by helping the girls to shoot themselves in the foot. it seems they need all the help they can get these days.
Is it not a problem that the woman have a smaller brain than a man? The government scientist Dr. Yamuka has proved it is size of squirrel. - Borat
Alan Marciano: Oh, man...(to himself) Why did I get mixed up with that bitch?
Lt. Vincent Hanna: Cause she's got a great ass and you got your head all the way up it! - from the movie "Heat".
Yeah, it prolly is!!I just simply will not go in there since this has happened.......Then last week I see him at the sister club and he's in my face again!! (he's in civillian clothes this time) So, it's just not worth it. Well, my behavior is pretty freaking exemplary, dammit! Only one complaint in the last ummmmm 12 years of being a good customer, and she had stolen my wallet- thought it would be funny to watch me search madly for it, I guess!
Grrrrr.
the 801 in PDX
the 801 in PDX
I get that she put your hands on her, but you have to understand that if he witnesses any kind of touching and doesn't say anything he could potentially lose his job. Perhaps he does have a propensity for drama but it doesn't sound as if he was being too unreasonable. (We all know that contact does occur even in no-contact clubs BUT) Technically that IS what the bouncers are there for. . . to enforce the policy and protect the dancers. and it isn't as if you guys were in a private VIP room.





I've been on both ends of this equation. The bouncer and the customer.
As the bouncer, unless it was something directly effecting the clubs licensing a simple "presence" resolved the problem. By that I mean politely making it known I was in the immediate area. The dancer let me know during that time if it was an actual problem which required more direct attention than that.
If it was something, read that an extra, that represented potential threat to the club's license I would, after the "presence" bit above, speak to the dancer about it. Since it is the dancer who is the professional and needs to keep a professional demeanor in the LD room.
As the customer I'm just that: the idiot customer. I'm going to try and get away with, without causing any harm or foul if I'm not too big an idiot [meaning no form of force or coercion - other than money], what the dancer lets me get away with.
If caught in the process I accept the "presence" of the bouncer as just a guy doing his job and accept the boundaries as presented ending the matter at that moment. Thus causing no need for further "intrusion".
BTW, as a former bouncer I will say that bouncers that have to resolve anything but the smallest amount of such issues with something other than simple "presence" either don't have all the required skills or get off on jumping into things that don't require jumping into.
Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.
BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?
Certainly! I get it. It's a balancing act. But what I didn't expect was him getting in MY face about it! I did not instigate the contact!! He chose to ignore that due to his other relationship with this particular lady, or couldn't bring himself to ball her out for the same reason. The sequal to this is that he ran me off before I got to pay her!! WTF? So I got a hold of her right away and arranged to meet later to get her the $$ I owed her- sheesh! Well, just yesterday I found out they're not an item any longer and that several other girls were complaining about his behavior. I hope he doesn't screw himself, but he's gotta understand that he's bringing it on himself. Chasing away bizniz for the ladies is not the way.
the 801 in PDX





^^ Inform management clearly of the deed; then tell them you are no longer a customer at either club. Don't argue or explain; don't even comment further; just leave. your absense wont affect anything, but added to that of others (if any) will cause them to reconsider bouncer behavior. Anyhow if she stole your wallet, she does not deserve any more of your business. Look for another club.
This was a simple thing to figure .
I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

Got caught in the act of receiving fs from one of my regulars by a new bouncer—one that I hadn't developed a tipping relationship with because it was his first day. He didn't say anything at the time, but, when I left the VIP, he accosted the dancer and made her give him a bj to keep his silence. My dancer told me about it the next day. I told the manager, with whom I have a good relationship and who knows that I'm doing his dancers, and the bouncer was fired that day.
The bouncers always look at my ATF weirdly when she wears my Tom Brady jersey for me. She's done it for so long, though, that a few of the bouncers know me by face when I hit the door with it on.
(I consider the jersey wearing to be an extra, but I've never been caught with a dancer giving sexual extras.)
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Wearing a Tom Brady jersey is an "extra"?
Well, it certainly is perverse. At least have the good taste to buy the little lady a Brett Favre jersey......





I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

What else is the blue side for if not to discuss these subjects?
My rule is simple: The dancer is in charge of extras, if any. I don't expect the dancer to do anything other than dance. The fact that she does more than that, says more about her than me.
Since the dancer is the traffic cop if anything other than dancing occurs, whatever happens is by the dancer's invitation only.
The dancer is in charge of any activity that happens in the VIP—good or bad. This is your job, your office, your place of business, your domain. Be a professional and control it and don't blame others if something unfortunate happens. I wouldn't allow you to come to my office and act inappropriately, so...be in charge.
Having said that, the dancers I'm intimate with have all initiated the contact themselves. Enough said.





I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

Yeah, that's for sure. I learned that the hard way.This guy had better stay on the BLUE side. He won't last a week on the other side.
I have never got caught, but thrice have I, quote, been given implicit messages that they did not want me there. The last time is probably the closest I've ever been thrown out, but considering the circumstances, he was pretty cool in telling me to leave. In fact, I would probably call these guys the type of security people an SC should want -- if I wasn't the person being told to leave.

I wasn't caught by bouncer per se (he actually called me a lucky mother fucker while I was eating her out.) But supposedly another dancer snitched on us while I was having sex with this one dancer in the VIP room. What started out as just a run of the mill, normal dance turned into a full on fuck session. Nothing was said to me but the club manager asked her about it and the bouncer on shift about it and they both said nothing happened. (well the bouncer said he "didn't see anything.") The 1st time I did her in the VIP nothing happened. The 2nd time we got snitched on.
Another occasion this girl who really wasn't an ATF but another girl I was just on friendly terms with who normally works nights decided to switch over to days. I was talking to one of the new girls working there (it was her 1st day dancing anywhere) and she came up and this little exchange happened.
Dancer:Hey wanna dance?
Me:No. Besides I tried talking to you earlier and you just flat out ignored me.
Dancer: Ohh I'm sorry c'mon I'll make it up to you upstairs.
Me: I would but I'm talking to my new friend here.
Dancer: Well..has anyone unzipped your pants before?
Me:?!?!?! huh?!?
Dancer: C'mon lets go upstairs so I can suck you off.
Me: (at this point I'm thinking this is just stripper shit and she's just bullshitting.)Ya know...that sounds tempting.
Dancer:It is. Lets go.
Well needless to say she kept her word and I bought 5 dances off of her that very instant. At 1st it was just me fingering her, sucking her nipples and eating her out and deep, French kissing but in the middle of this another one of my atfs comes upstairs with a customer. After assuring her that my other atf wasn't going to snitch on us (considering I've broken a few rules with her myself) she decides to start going at it. Again nothing was said to me but this is the last time I saw this girl and I haven't seen her since.



what kind of a strip club to get laid /blowjobs/ eat girls out? chrissakes id be so fucking ashamed of myself if i did any of this. seriously, does anyone even care about their health? eating some girls ass that has probably been licked 5 times that same day by 5 different men isnt exactly something to brag about
^^ Did you here about the businessman who screwed the hooker and didn't wear a condom? A few weeks later, his business fell off.
I agree with you, though. If I even saw this in a club, I would leave and never go back again.
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