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    Default Help me hustle him back toward the light!

    I work at a small club where most of our money is made off of stage. There was a "new" customer in particular who tipped me a good amount each time I did my set. I gave him a hug, had a beer with him, said thank you, and went on with my night.

    The same customer came into my club a week later and tipped me very well again, plus bought a couple dances from me. He was very nice, easy going and I actually had a good time while he was there. Towards the end of the night, he asked me when I was working again. I said "tomorrow." He said "Sweet. I'll see you then!"

    Custie came back a third time, but this time he hardly tipped me. He hung out for a bit and left shortly after that.

    I saw him again a few days ago, and the same thing happened. He tipped me a total of $5. I went outside for smoke, and he joined me for one. He kept complimenting me the entire time and said he can't wait to see me again. As he was about to leave, he asked me when I was working again. I told him that I'll be back on Fri. night. He said "okay, I'll see you then!"

    Good grief! If I'm so "hot, fun, nice, blah blah blah", give me money!

    I've been racking my brain as to what I should do or how I should act with him, if he shows up tonight.

    I don't get it. Why was he so generous the first couple visits, but hardly tipped me anything the last couple times?

    A friend of mine said it might be because the customer thinks that we're friends now and that he probably feels that he doesn't have to tip.

    Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Custie with a change of heart?

    I say let him give you what he gives you on stage, talk to him a bit, and ask for dances. If he says no, say you have to go make some money now. Then go away and don't hang out with him. He'll probably get the point and either pay up or not.

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    Default Re: Help me hustle him back toward the light!

    Tell him the best way to get to know him is to talk in while you are giving dances or in the VIP




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    Default Re: Help me hustle him back toward the light!

    you cant give him your time for free. until he wants to do dances, you cant sit and talk, plain and simple. tell him that you've gotten yelled at for sitting and talking and not doing dances, so you cant just sit and talk.
    also throw in there that spending time with him is great, but you can't just sit and talk anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pookie View Post
    Tell him the best way to get to know him is to talk in while you are giving dances or in the VIP
    ^^^Yep. If he doesn't bite, then clip him. He might not have been good regular-material anyway then and if anything will continue to waste your time and weigh you down.

    Yeah... don't hustle him toward the light. You're a stripper. The money is YOUR light. So follow the light. Not the dead-beat customer. Heh.
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    Default Re: Help me hustle him back toward the light!

    Perhaps he wants to talk with you about the upcoming tax season?

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    Default Re: Help me hustle him back toward the light!

    In my experiance, when guys do that, they think they've gotten an "in" with you by spending money and now you two are "cool" and you can chat like the good buddies that you are. Soon, he'll ask to see you OTC... For free, of course.

    If he declines the dances, move on. He's not regular material.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    tell him that you've gotten yelled at for sitting and talking and not doing dances.
    Apparently, sometimes that even actually happens.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Noneya View Post
    ...There was a "new" customer in particular who tipped me a good amount each time I did my set....The same customer came into my club a week later and tipped me very well again, plus bought a couple dances from me...Custie came back a third time, but this time he hardly tipped me. He hung out for a bit and left shortly after that.

    I don't get it. Why was he so generous the first couple visits, but hardly tipped me anything the last couple times?
    Sounds like he's looking for a gf rather than dances. Dancers are a bit of a male fantasy figure and many guys nurse thoughts about getting to know you OTC.

    There are websites that give "advice" on how to chat up dancers, and maybe this guy was following the gamebook from one of these. (They all tend to advise against becoming regularly paying for dances as this makes you a 'customer' rather than a 'friend').

    Bit of a blow to the male ego to realise that the attractive girl who you think you're getting on fine with rather loses interest when you stop spending money.

    Phil.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phil-W View Post
    Bit of a blow to the male ego to realise that the attractive girl who you think you're getting on fine with rather loses interest when you stop spending money.
    I don't know why people think that's unique to strippers.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phil-W View Post
    Bit of a blow to the male ego to realise that the attractive girl who you think you're getting on fine with rather loses interest when you stop spending money.
    ^^and all good strippers will (lose interest).
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    Strippers are like ninjas. You never know how many there are or if the person next to you is one.
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    ...I assume you probably don't want to deal with pervs, and the guys that just don't give a fuck about money are like unicorns...
    Quote Originally Posted by Sinder View Post
    I know I have said it before, and I'll say it again.... THE VAGINA IS NOT A CLOWN CAR!


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    Default Re: Help me hustle him back toward the light!

    ...imo, strippers who understand their "sure thing regular" spending habits will keep interested if they know the money will flow again. Such as if his spending goes in cycles with payday. (Although its too early to tell with the OP's guy).
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Default Re: Help me hustle him back toward the light!

    He doesn't sound like he is worth the hustle IMO. Doesn't sound like good regular material considering after such a short time he has already gone cheap.

    See my siggy.
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    You're still a vagina.
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