**caution - venting**
So last night I decide to try a new club. My evening started off really badly. I waited 45 minutes for the bus in a horrible Canadian winter night. When I got there I was rejected for ID reasons. Apparently a driver's license, health card, SIN card and student card are not enough to prove I am over age 19. So I decided to go to my regular club.
It's only my sixth night dancing and I've never made less than $180 so I figured I could make some money again. I won't get into all the details but after 2.5 or so hours of hustling hard, I only had one dance ($20) and then I started having an upset stomach and had to go home early. The other girls were also saying they made very very little. Most of them got their dances in the earlier part of the evening when I wasn't there.
I'm so discouraged because I need money to buy Christmas presents and pay January rent. To get through the month I need to make about $500 dancing. I'm really scared this isn't going to happen.
Also, the entire night I felt so unsexy and I think that had a huge impact on my sales. When I first started, it was rare I got dressed up in lingerie, heels, makeup, hair, ect. and so I felt instantly sexual. Now that it was my 6th night, it just felt normal to me.
I don't know if I should go in tonight or take a break and go Thursday, Friday, Saturday. I'm REALLY REALLY scared I'm not going to make enough money this month. Even just making $100 a night would be wonderful to me.
If anyone has any advice or encouragement I would really appreciate it.



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yes, yes and YES. I cannot stress enough how much your thoughts, outlook and mindset affect your earnings. I know there have been threads about the Secret and some people were quick to dismiss it all...but really...how can a negative, pessimistic mindset do anyone ANY good? You've got nothing to lose by turning your outlook and expectations around. Instead of "I hope I make $500 by the end of the year", try "I KNOW I will earn all the money that I need by the end of the year." A bad night (or even a bad week) is a fluke, not a new norm or a prediction of future shifts' earnings.

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