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    Can anyone help me think of a good excuse that will get me out of seeing my out-of-state BF for about 30 days?

    Yes I am a bad GF and the reason Im avoiding him is coz Im involved with another here in my hometown sooo...

    He isnt into Xmas but he wanted me to come see him (or visa versa) around new years but I need to stall him for atl east a month....

    Anthing believeable will help coz Im drawing a blank here!

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    uhhhmmm

    your cheating on him, and you want us to come up with an excuse?

    grow some balls, and be fucking honest

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    Nope. Not going to help you. Realise what you are doing and be bloody honest with him. If the relationship was "all roses" then why the hell are you even BOTHERING with the other person.

    I agree with mermaidnz, grow some balls.


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    Umm what mermaidnz said.

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    ^^yeah-huh, because absolutely none of us have ever lied to a guy.

    Why can't you break it off with him? Is there a reason you will want to see him in a month?

    Excuses are easy. Money or health issues, whatever.

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    LoL im not saying I havn't lied to a guy before. Nor am I denying i've ever cheated. At the same time though obviously the long distance thing isn't working for her so she should just break it off.

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    Ehrm... I think you're on your own on this one. I'm sure you can come up with something.



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    As someone who did the LDR thing for about 6 months [before moving to be with him], I can tell you that honesty is the best policy. You never know, you might find that he's actually relieved of the "responsibility" of your relationship.

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    Well, as bad as I hate cheating. I wasn't exactly always honest with guys when I was younger. I can tell you from experience if you just make a believable story and stick with it, nothing to dramatic though, it may work. Probably something about a family emergency around the Holidays.

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    Why not just break up with him? You might find yourself a lot more relieved. Yeah, you cheated, that doesn't necessarily make you a horrible person....why don't you view it as an eye-opener: Do you REALLY love this guy? Think carefully about your answer, since you say you are now involved with someone else in your town. Why don't you free yourself up for that guy instead? It sounds like hes more than a booty call. And do you really want a future together with LDR-bf.....think about the hell you will go through covering your tracks, guilt you will feel, and paranoia that someone will tell him. Imagine living the rest of your life like that (god forbid)!!!! Is it worth it?!?!???

    I was in an LDR for a year and cheated for about a month with someone I really liked before I got the balls to dump my LDR-bf (who sucked and treated me like shit anyways). It was one of the best things I ever did. It was more of a 2-year cockblock than a relationship. Yeah, you might hurt his feelings now, but you'll only hurt them more if you continue to cheat and lie to him.

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    Just break up with him. If you're not going to remian faitful to him while you guys are seperated he at least deserves to try and get some nookie for himself!


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    Right now me and my boyfriend are doing the long distance relationship thing and it's very hard. I'm going back up north for like a week in January to take a test and spend time with him. I would be crushed if he made an excuse not to see me and to be with someone else and eventually I would find out. I think you should make up your mind who you want to be with and if it's not your boyfriend, don't lead him on. It'll only hurt him more in the long run.

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    "I'm really not able to fly out to see you this year...or next. I've decided to start seeing other people. Actually, I'm already seeing other people. I think you should do the same. Oh, yeah, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!"

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    ^ Ouch. Haha. You should probably be honest with him about what's going on but maybe wait until after Christmas at least. Poor kid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tasteebars View Post
    Yes I am a bad GF and the reason Im avoiding him is coz Im involved with another here in my hometown sooo...He isnt into Xmas but he wanted me to come see him (or visa versa) around new years but I need to stall him for atl east a month....
    tasteebars:

    I assume that "another here in my hometown" is unaware of "out-of-state BF." If so, you're deceiving both of them...

    Which one of them would be more comfortable with you telling them the truth? Wait, let me rephrase that: Are you comfortable with telling either one of them the truth?

    IMO, you're trying to stack dicks. If so, you should get up your nerve--and step up your game. Tell both of them where they stand. Otherwise, you may be working on a line of bullshit for "another here in my hometown" a month or so from now, when you decide it's time to give "out-of-state BF" some of that ill na na...

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    Come clean.
    Last edited by sun child; 12-23-2007 at 12:12 AM.

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    I guess i was the only one who thought "troll" when i read the OP.



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