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    So what makes stripping worth it to you emotionally? I mean, I think we'd all agree that the money on a good night makes it worth all the sleazy custies and crazy bitches, but I hope I'm not the only one in here who's had a really pleasant defining moment on an otherwi$e crappy night.

    - Like the first time I ever got tipped the full price of a lapdance for my conversation. The club was dead, so I mostly sat around talking to this one guy about music for a really long time. I got up multiple times to give other girls chances at him, but he kept calling me over to talk after a while. He got a couple of dances with another girl eventually, and at the end of the night, I got called out of the dressing room with my pants already on, to find him standing there handing me a $20, "for being the only real chick in here," he said, "these other girls are only about the money; I get the idea that even with bank, you wouldn't be in here if you didn't enjoy it."

    - Or that moment when you realize that this kid on his 18th birthday that's getting his first ever lapdance from you is putting you right up on the pedestal next to the girl he lost his virginity to.

    Those are moments where I really feel like I'm doing something right in there, even on the dead nights.

    Or maybe I'm just a naive n00b, even after a year of dancing, and someday I'll learn to even view the non-creepy custies just as marks. But I hope not. If this stops being fun, I'll hang up my heels.
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    Thats what did it for me last night. @21st b-day he was with his cheap ass friend(who wouldnt even buy him ONE dance or ONE drink...on his TWENTY FIRST BIRTHDAY) ..complete bullshit. Who doens tbuy drinks at LEAST for their friend on their 21st birthday????

    He spent a decent amount of money on me. Made my night. AND was totally sweet and respectful every time...like he would run his hands down my legs and back and say " are you SURE you dont mind me touching you like this"

    SO cute.

    And told me umpteen times how I am the hottest girl he's eveer seen in his life and I've turned him onto older women FOREVER. So yeah...HUGE ego boost that I REALLY needed the way its been...

    I gave him signed copies of my magazines to take home. Then at the end of the night..we get done dancing..we are closing in lie 15 minutes...his BUDDY knocks over and spills his whole drink(hadnt even taken a sip yet...he was at the ATM getting the money for the dances we had just done,) onto the floor. then tried to pin it on some invisible person that had wandered by and knocked into the table(yeah..nobody wandered by..it was him)

    So my guy walks back. gives me my money and sees his drink on the floor(douch friend wont even pick up the glass) MY sweetheart picks up the glass...moves the ice so nobody trips on it and was like "whatever...no big deal" SO fucking nice guy!!!!

    I said no..it IS a BIG deal. It's your TWENTY FIRST BIRTHDAY and your "friend" wont even buy you a drink to cover the one he spilled?Fucking shenanigans. I called the waitress over and I bought him a drink. he was all blushing "you dont have to do that" ...I know I dont HAVE to(and I VERY rarely do) ....but you have been really sweet to me all night, you've spent a bunch of money on me AND its your 21st birthday...(and I say this loud so his friend can hear) SOMEBODY should buy you a drink for your birthday...this one is on me..Happy BIrthday Sweetie!!!

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    the money. and working less than i used to. and looking at hot chicks all day.

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    The freedom, the money, and getting paid to do what it is I love.



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    Last time I was in Vegas, I only had a $100 so far one night and really wanted to leave. My last stage, some dude throws $600+ in rain on me. To go from having $100 to $700 in the 6 minutes I was on stage, yeah that makes it worth it.

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    -Boobies. lol
    -When I meet a nice guy that just wants to spend money on me to have a good time and thats all.
    -Freedom to not work the night before a test if I need to. Which that really helped me this semester.
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    the time i get to spend with my husband

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    I also love popping their lapdance cherry. Its so funny to see the guys mouths drop (especially when I worked nude in 18+) and you realize you are the first live naked girl they have ever seen.

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    having the time and flexible schedule i need to go to school

    money (when its there)

    and that's about it.

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    ^^ yep. The money's the only thing that matters. I couldn't care less about the customers. (Of course, I do a good job pretending that I care...so I can get the money. )

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    Having guys gush on and on about how hot you are. I don't walk around in life thinking I'm the hottest thing on the planet, but these guys get my ego going. (I don't even care if they're exaggerating, I'll take it!)

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    Taking a sweet older man up for a private dance. He only wanted to cuddle/hug and then told me it was the most human contact he had had in years since he had no wife or children.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zxcire View Post
    the money. and working less than i used to. and looking at hot chicks all day.
    Yep....
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    ^What Sophia said.
    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    I've definitely had guys who made it worth it by spending a lot, too. I remember one time, I was having a terrible night, on a Saturday when everyone else was rocking. For my last set, right before close, I got off stage, in that dejected frame of mind where all you want is a candy bar and to get dressed. That candy bar saved my night; as I walked up to the bar to get it, I saw a guy staring at me from the bar, and walked up to him instead. I asked him his name, told him mine, and literally said to him, "*sigh* So I don't suppose you'd like a dance?" He ended up spending a few hundred dollars on me, for a bunch of lapdances that were really nothing more than me straddling him nude while we talked about our cats.

    I definitely agree with the looking at hot chicks part, too. I remember when I used to bartend, I would list that as one of the things I liked about that job.

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    the money. and working less than i used to. and looking at hot chicks all day

    Not sure if I did that right^^^. But what she said^ and the nice people. When you get someone that is just truly nice it makes all the difference in the world. Plus being able to be nice to someone that needed it. Very few and far between in this business but besides the obvious reasons this is what does it for me.

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    Early on in my shift last night...gave a guy one dance on the floor (10$), he then asked me to go to the champagne room...so we went but not even half way through the first song, his friend came in and said they had to go (something about being late for a dinner reservation) He just smiled, pulled a 100$ bill out of his pocket, and said keep it, that I was the coolest chick and I was worth it. It made me feel so good, I was in an awesome mood for the remainder of my shift and ended up making alot of money. I won't say the exact amount but, let's say it was astonishing.
    I have had almost two months of BAD nights in a row......
    For all the f**ed up comments that have been made to me by customers, hurt my feelings, made me cry, made me feel like a piece of shit, last night totally boosted my moral and made up for every a**hole that has treated me like crap the past two months.
    Not to mention with the amount of money I made last night I was able to pay off every bill I was behind on and worried about. That can also have an emotional effect.....less stress....more smiles~

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    Other than the money and scheduling freedom, I really, really like to dance. Just in general. It helps me destress, and since there's really no way to get tipped on two of the stages, I can just sorta get into it, stretch my body out, and feel the groove. I sound like a hippy. But it's true.

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    There's just no money like titty bar money.

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    Looking at hot women and seeing them in the nude for free every time I work!

    Knowing I have the potential to earn in one night what some people earn in one week (or even a fortnight if they are on The Dole)!

    All the experiences, memories and moments I've had that have helped me in my life: good, bad and the ugly.

    Knowing that I am a business-woman thus working for myself (even tho' it seems at times we are employees)

    All the travel I have done and will do whilst doing this line of work.

    What the money doing this type of work has afforded me both in tangible and intangible 'things' ...

    How "the customer is not always right" in my line of work nor do I have to put up with their bullshit !!! I can walk away, I can be a smart ass/bitch back to them without being fired (as long as I don't get physical with them I'm okay).

    For me the good still outnumbers the bad overall. I may bitch, whinge, moan about certain little bits and/or nights etc... yet... overall... I stay because overall it is still good to and for me.


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    i love stripping because: any bill due is just an ass shake away, and my fav type of night is when a guy takes me in the cr, says " lest stay til close" and we spend the rest of the night just hanging out , sipping champagne and ballroom dancing around the cr
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    The nights I find a guy who just wants to pay me to hang out and talk, and who I am able to be me with. It actually has happened a couple times, and they have always been my best nights.

    It feels great when I get to make money for being 'me' rather than 'stripper me'.

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    The Chinese guy who sat there, search hard for the word in English, then blurts out, very very loudly "Beautifl!"

    The eighteen year old kid who sat at the satge with his jaw in his lap holding a fan of ones, then giving them ALL to me when I came to him.

    being able to make a man bump into a wall by eye-fucking him. I took the inspirition from Memoirs of a Geisha. "Make him drop those trays."

    Getting tips to debate politics.

    Being top earner on some nights.

    getting a dollar shower for as long as I took to pull off my thong.

    Regulars= ego stroke

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Having guys gush on and on about how hot you are. I don't walk around in life thinking I'm the hottest thing on the planet, but these guys get my ego going. (I don't even care if they're exaggerating, I'll take it!)

    L0l same here.. And I don't get much attention outside of work anyways.. so.. I'll definitly take it!

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    The schedule felxibility.
    Playing with my best friend all day and looking at boobs for free.

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    For me, the best part of dancing are the good female custies. I love doing crazy pole tricks and watching their jaws drop, and love it when they cheer me on. They make me feel like a rockstar! Also, nothing beats the feeling of rolling around naked in a pile of money and knowing that I get to take it all home with me at the end of the night!
    "Some people say what I do isn't very liberating. I say it's pretty liberating to get $20,000 for 10 minutes of work." - Dita Von Teese

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