Ok here goes I have a few questions and some background info. I know I
need to speak to an attorney, but I have some burning questions that
are
preventing me from sleeping well at night.
Will I lose out by filing first? It will be a fault divorce due to
reasons of adultery and abandonment. I was told the person filing has
to
pay the fees. I have no money for this. I am not in a rush to get the
papers signed, I just want some spousal support.
He is military and he is obligated to take care of his family (for
anyone reading who has issue with me asking for support). I had no job
when he moved out, basically getting me and our kid evicted while he
moved in with his bitch.
I am not in a hurry for divorce because I don't want to lose my medical
insurance. I have a medical issue that is getting taken care of, but
needs some more time.
I didn't press the money issue in the past because he had the power of
taking away my insurance. I am not afraid anymore and will risk it.
While I was barely getting by he is enjoying $30,000 bonuses....and at
the same time calling me to tell me I need to pay for the vehicle I am
driving that is his.![]()
Also is it true adultery will only fly in a divorce case if the person admits to it? He has admitted to me, but I doubt he will if asked by a judge.



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