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    Default Not so great friend.

    First of all, I'm a guy. Anyway...

    What do you guys think about this.

    Here is the situation. My friend, his girlfriend of three years, and I go out drinking last night. His girlfriend has a hot friend that meets up with us and she starts conversation with me. I introduce myself and we start talking, etc. Tell my friend something like "she is gorgeous," and he tells me she has a boyfriend and I shouldn't bother. Later on, I notice the hot chick and my buddy talking and him shaking his head "no" while she was glancing at me. I'm assuming they were talking about me, and he was telling her I wasn't interested. Well as the night progresses I find out this girl hasn't had a boyfriend for six months and she was interested in me, but at that point it was already too late. So my question is why did my friend cock block me from hooking up with this chick. This also isn't the first time he has done this. A few other occasions he has cock blocked me from hooking up with girls. The only conclusion I can come up with is the girls that I was "gaming" on are a lot hotter than his girlfriend and he is jealous? I've known the kid for over ten years and I don't really want to ruin our friendship, and his girlfriend has unlimited supply of hot friends. So, how should I handle this situation without losing a friend and at the same time preventing him from cock blocking me.

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    A.) Curious why this is your first post on a stripper forum.
    B.) How the hell should we know what motivates your friend to act the way he does? Why don't you ask him what the deal is?
    C.) Still curious why you're asking this question here.


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    Default Re: Not so great friend.

    I've actually had an account here for a while, and just never bothered to post. The reason I'm posting here is because I want a female's opinion regarding this situation and I know this forum is full of women.


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    Default Re: Not so great friend.

    maybe his girlfriend has told him she doesnt want her friends involved with you?
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    Default Re: Not so great friend.

    Quote Originally Posted by Flick6 View Post
    maybe his girlfriend has told him she doesnt want her friends involved with you?
    That is a possibility, but I doubt it. His girlfriend has introduced me to a lot of her friends before.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SundayMorning View Post
    A.) Curious why this is your first post on a stripper forum.
    B.) How the hell should we know what motivates your friend to act the way he does? Why don't you ask him what the deal is?
    C.) Still curious why you're asking this question here.
    ^I second Sunday's questions... If you aren't man enough to talk to your friend, maybe you should write to an advice column or go to for help.

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    I think your instincts are probably right and you should confront your friend, get that hot chicks number, and call her.
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    next time just be more straightforward with the girl; let her know that you're interested. Hell, slip her your phone number or something. Ooooh here's an idea: ask your friends g/f to pass along your number to the girl.


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    Sounds like the gf is cool. Talk to her directly if you have her number and try to get the number that way or ask her the next time you see them both. Your friend is an ass. A true friend would never cock block. Confont him about it, but only after you get the number. Make sense?

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveSexMoney View Post
    next time just be more straightforward with the girl; let her know that you're interested. Hell, slip her your phone number or something. Ooooh here's an idea: ask your friends g/f to pass along your number to the girl.
    Agreed. Maybe you ain't gettin' the chick because you're not talking TO the chick. Hullo.


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    Your friend is straight up lying to you, that is not cool. I think that's the main issue. Like, what sort of game is he playing and why? Maybe you need some non drama-llama friends.

    And yes, if you communicate to a girl that you are interested that should work. I mean, I think any girl that's really interested will go by how you respond to her and not gossip a friend says.

    Like, if a guy was charming and wonderful to me, but someone said "Oh no, he's so not into you" I'd be like "right, uh-huh..." and then see about a cup of coffee or more talking, you know?

    So, it is up to you to talk to the girl, but you need to go out with friends that won't starkly lie and manipulative you weirdly like this.

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    Stop hanging out with that friend, he is jealous by the sounds of it. Hang out with other people and meet girls on your own, dont be lazy and try to meet them thru your friends g/f's.
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    Tell your "friend" to stop being a jerk. It is as simple as that. If that does not work, then I hear that "waterboarding" is the latest fad and quite effective.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SundayMorning View Post
    A.) Curious why this is your first post on a stripper forum.
    B.) How the hell should we know what motivates your friend to act the way he does? Why don't you ask him what the deal is?
    C.) Still curious why you're asking this question here.
    D) How many times can a person write "cock block" in one thread...
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    Will...three...the answer is three...do I get a prize?

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    Keep your kool with your friend and his gf, obviously that have much better looking friends than you do and you need them so you can meet their friends. DUDE! Find yourself a hot babe on your own and bust your friend in the mouth.
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    Quote Originally Posted by crizgolfer View Post
    Will...three...the answer is three...do I get a prize?
    No, no you don't. Personally, I would ask my friend "what the fu#$ dude?" if it were me. Any friend who goes out of his way to cock block me (there, I said it too!) is no friend to me. I have hooked my friends up in the past and will when ever possible, and I expect the same from them. Why did he do that? How should I/we know? Ask him.

    Seems to me there are only a few possible answers:

    He’s jealous and does not want you to hook up

    His chick does not like you

    He wants to hook up with the chick himself at a later date

    He does not think you are very good with women and he does not want it to come back to him via his own chick.
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    Or he's clueless and doesn't actually know the relationship status of these women. It didn't have to be deliberate sabotage, maybe he's just dumb.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SundayMorning View Post
    Or he's clueless and doesn't actually know the relationship status of these women. It didn't have to be deliberate sabotage, maybe he's just dumb.
    Guys are funny like that. From the way he describes it, sounds like a cock block...
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    *eye twitches every time someone says "cock block"*


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    Quote Originally Posted by GentlemanX View Post
    Sounds like the gf is cool. Talk to her directly if you have her number and try to get the number that way or ask her the next time you see them both. Your friend is an ass. A true friend would never cock block. Confont him about it, but only after you get the number. Make sense?

    I agree with Gentleman X. Or he proubarly want her for himself, maybe he might want the friend more than his girlfriend. Yep he is not a friend. Wacth that one!
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    i think your friend wanted her too dude.

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    Maybe your friend has a plan to leave his current g/f for her friend and if you get in the mix youll screw up all his plans...

    Guess I shoulda read the posts - agree about your friend wanting the other chick...

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    Maybe the chick is completely mean and crazy and would destroy your life the way she has the lives of so many men before. And, your friend is looking out for your best interest, oh, I don't know, the way a friend might.

    Ya know, maybe?

    It's as good a conclusion as any, given what we know.
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    Oooo... thats a good one ^^^

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