You know what REALLY pisses me off? My BILs lack of respect for his father.
He must have had McDonalds last night, as he has just dropped his rubbish on the ground out side of his car. Today when his father said "well are you going to pick up your rubbish?" He totally ignored him and just got in the car and drove away.
I don't believe in smacking children, but that 'boy' needs a good belting. (hes the same age as me, but fully supported by his parents to sleep all day and watch porn and game all night)
His mother is dying, and hes too self absorbed to even drive her to the cancer treatment half the time, claiming that hes 'too tired' (he works 12 hours a week now, for a friend, at nights, and this is his first job in over a year, since he quit the last one cos he didnt like it) meaning that either we take her or she catches a taxi.
And worst of all she makes excuses for him saying how 'sick' he is.
(this is stemming from HER mental illness, about how 'sick' she has been forever, since HER mum started telling her how 'sick' she was since she had bronchitis at aged 12)
And my FIL has always put up with her abuse, and let her abuse my husband as a child, cos hes too weak to stop her. I mean she had cancer suspected 5 years ago and DIDNT GO FOR ANY CHECKUPS, so now she is terminal.
My FIL keeps saying how hes giving up hope of ever changing her, and is basically waiting for her to die.
He is a doctor, works long hours, and then she expects him to cook and clean for her when he gets home. this woman sits on her arse all day, shes actually vitamin D deficient, since she never goes outside, due to her weight.
My BIL is suffering from severe depression, which he isn't getting any treatment for, and she just enables his self-destructive behaviour.
Yes I knew about the family before we married, but things never used to be this bad. We moved next door to help out as she dies (plus they own the house so we pay cheap rent) so we get to see it all the time. The whole family is messed up, and worst of all I cant really talk about this with my hubbie, as we have enough to worry about, with out this extra crap.
I wish Dr Phil would make a house call.



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