Hi everyone and thanks in advance for any replies.
I have gone to a club a few times with my wife and my experience has been disappointing. It seems when it’s just the two of us; we have a hard time getting any attention at all. I am one of the lucky ones that has an attractive wife who enjoys the club quite a bit. We make a game of tipping each and every girl on stage by taking turns (not all girls are equal… so sometimes you get lucky and sometimes you don’t), and if we both like the girl we both get to tip ;-). We drink and smile and laugh. We are never rude or make disparaging comments. Sometimes, we are the only ones who tip at all (because not all dancers are created equal I guess).
And now the problem…. We get avoided like we have the plague. We are both attractive (her more so than me!), so it isn’t that we repulse any dancers. Last week, my wife actually went off and ASKED several girls if they would come to our table and dance, and each said yes and never showed. The place was not busy. After about 1.5 hours, someone did show (a girl we tipped well when she was on stage) and we simply asked her if girls were avoiding us because of her, and she replied honestly…. Yes.
I realize that many would say try a different club, but this one (Oasis in Atlanta) is one of the better clubs and close to our home (makes a big difference when you have a few drinks)
I have read the threads and understand that sometimes the girl customers get a bad rap, but that stereotypical behavior is the exception, not the rule. So, how do we get any attention at all? How crazy is that to even ask? The wife generally wears jeans and a blouse that shows off her girls, but I have been advising her against wearing skirts or anything. The odd time we do get dances, mine is usually so tame that it’s almost an air dance (not a high contact club, but a far way from air dance… maybe medium contact?). We do our best to reassure the dancers that she isn’t the jealous type and we are here because we ENJOY it… but to no avail.
So, please heap your wisdom on me so that we can enjoy our next visit. If the wife feels it’s a waste of time, it may end up our last visit for a while. That would be a bummer ;-)



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. Where we go I guess thats table and VIP, but thats very different?



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