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    Im doing all our financial stuff. I go to my guys Cap1 account and see its overdrawn. So I look and see a charge from VOD. Hmmm... so I call and am thinking its one of those bs things and we need to dispute it. Hes like uhm, ok, uh, and I said whats this?! And he was like its a real charge.

    Umh. ok. So your charge overdrew your account which means I hope it was worth the $32 overlimit fee that were going to have to pay.

    And Im thinking what the hell is this? So I go to VODhelp.com and log in (because he uses the same usrmane and password for EVERYTHING) and its pay per minute something. And Im thinking hmmm.... and he has 113min and 39 seconds left on his account.

    And all I can think is porn. And for some reason its pissing me off. I dont know if im mad that hes looking at porn when I WANT SEX and its not MY fault we cant have it. Or if its because I feel lied to?! Or am I mad over the damn $32 overlimit fee thats coming from more important things... and then I look at the date and it was SATURDAY so it was when I was HOME SUPER FUCKING SICK and feel like Im going to die and doped up on vicodin and hes over there looking at porn and jacking off in the spare room.

    Im so goddamn mad and Im not sure what to blame it on. But its kinda funny but then its not so I had to rant... but damn...

    So now I want to know exactly which site he was looking at and *hope* it was at least MY porn. Ya know?! Because id be pissed if he was looking at porn of someone else when theres TONS of me on there... damnit. But I cant find out which site it is through the VOD site so now Im on a damn mission...

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    Sorry I just had to

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    ok so Im at VODafterdark.com

    lol... and im searching his history and maybe he was smart enough to erase it after i called him?! because theres NOTHING there... but then wouldnt he have changed the password.

    AND I KNOW there should be a history because he was just there Saturday...

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    My boyfriend hasn't looked at porn in months (that I know of). When we first started living together, I didn't usually mind, but once, he called in sick to work, and I came home and saw porn in the computer history and I got PISSED OFF. I don't know why it bugged me so much, he never lied about it or hid it or anything, it just bugged me when I found it when I think he's home sleeping and being innocent. And sometimes for no reason finding it on the computer made me mad. Especially because we were having so much sex, I tried to satisfy him, and I felt like I wasn't. It's really weird, and makes me feel like the biggest hypocrite. I go to work and get naked for money, and I get mad that he's looking at other women? Whatever. I don't know. But anyways, I understand that you're pissed off. Been there.

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    Well, did some research. Seems he was watching my porn... so I guess its not SOOO bad.... but still... im kinda mad. I want sex too... Im doing all I can.

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    I don't mind so much if my bf watches porn when I'm not there but it really pisses me off when he watches it when I'm in the house> If you're horny just come and get me and we can enjoy some porn toghether. When he does it without me it feels like hes deliberately excluding me.



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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    Well, did some research. Seems he was watching my porn... so I guess its not SOOO bad.... but still... im kinda mad. I want sex too... Im doing all I can.

    that is actually kind of sweet. i dont mean to make light of it or anything, but it is kind of cute that even when he is watching porn it is you.

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    ^^ yea, that did make me feel better.... one good thing about having done porn in the past...

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    ^^Agreed with Brendita!! How adorable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    It's really weird, and makes me feel like the biggest hypocrite. I go to work and get naked for money, and I get mad that he's looking at other women? Whatever. I don't know.


    That's the general area my first thought went to. Anyway, judge not lest ye get the first stone tossed at ye.

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    lol, I've seen that same VOD charge on my b/f's account too. As long as he's not cheating on me, I don't give a f.

    I do make my own videos sometimes for him to watch instead of other girls.

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    I HAD to ask him about it. Then make him feel bad. I was like oh, that was the day I was in immense pain laid up in bed not able to move and youre in there wacking it. I also told him that he needs to change some of his usernames and passwords.

    He said "Im weird, even when I masturbate I think of you, If I try to think about someone else it always turns back to you."

    hehehe...

    We cant have sex until February. It will have been almost 3 months. So I told him next time to use the check card so he doesnt go overlimit on his CC again.

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    wait, why can't you have sex til feb? (sorry if i'm prying, just trying to understand)

    and my opinoin on the subject is that if he (my bf) wants to look at porn, i'm ok with that, so long as he doesn't cheat emotionally or physically. i look at porn when i masturbate and it's not porn of him, so i think imposing a standard of no porn will help no one!

    Love it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    Or am I mad over the damn $32 overlimit fee thats coming from more important things...
    Audrey, if you call CrapitalOne and ask to speak to a manager, you can try to ask them to waive the overlimit fee. This mostly only works if your account has been kept in good standing for the duration that you've had the credit card...or if you've never had an overlimit fee in the last year or so. Sometimes threatening to close your account can motivate them to waive the fee as an enticement, too. Good luck and I hope they can waive the fee for you. But beyond the overlimit fee, I'd see how you'd be concerned and annoyed about the porn thing.

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    Sounds like perfect masturbation time to me. Can't have sex and you're doped up in bed. So it's not like he's taking away from "together" time. Still, what guy hasn't learned to hide his porn? Sheesh; mine is password-protected hidden from Windows.
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    Agreed. Only letting a man watch porn when you are there, or porn with you in it, somewhat defeats the purpose of porn. They are going to look at it, restricting their access, or choosing it for them is just going to cause resentment.

    Unless you've got a smart guy like Audrey's man who know exactly what to say.

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    I had this exact situation happen to me like 2 weeks ago! I got my cable bill and there was $300 worth of porn on the bill. $300!!! This was when we were beyond broke. I was livid. I threw the bill in his face and screamed at him. He didn't even have an excuse, nothing. We have like a bin full of porn. Why can't he watch that??? You probably handled it better than I did!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    wait, why can't you have sex til feb? (sorry if i'm prying, just trying to understand)

    and my opinoin on the subject is that if he (my bf) wants to look at porn, i'm ok with that, so long as he doesn't cheat emotionally or physically. i look at porn when i masturbate and it's not porn of him, so i think imposing a standard of no porn will help no one!
    The sex thing is from the ectopic pregnancy. First we couldnt have sex because they were afraid it would make the ectopic rupture (this is when I had the methotrexate shot thats supposed to dissolve the ectopic)

    Now we cant have sex for another 6 weeks because of the surgery to remove the fallopian tube. Its a whole mess.

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    When I found out my husband had ordered some ppv porn a month or so ago, I had a really strange reaction (for me...)...I got really turned on. I asked him what he ordered. I asked him who was in it, what it was like, and I went down on him cause I got all horny from hearing about it. Wha?

    I used to be so jealous and would cry if he watched porn, even though I have a collection of dvds and magazines of my own...but something happened in me and now I want to hear about what he likes to watch and think about him jacking off to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    Sounds like perfect masturbation time to me. Can't have sex and you're doped up in bed. So it's not like he's taking away from "together" time. Still, what guy hasn't learned to hide his porn? Sheesh; mine is password-protected hidden from Windows.
    Dude, all I did was see his Cap1 bill and the charge to it. Go to the website. Log in with his known info and then go into his history on the site (they save watched movies) and see what hes been watching. God Im horrible... such a snoop. But he *claims* to be watching MY porn when he does watch it and I just HAD to see and sure enough... it was mine.... lol

    Where theres a will theres a way. Gotta remember I went to computer school so Im pretty smart when it comes to finding hidden shit too. Fortunately he wasnt hiding it... so it was easy to find....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Agreed. Only letting a man watch porn when you are there, or porn with you in it, somewhat defeats the purpose of porn. They are going to look at it, restricting their access, or choosing it for them is just going to cause resentment.

    Unless you've got a smart guy like Audrey's man who know exactly what to say.
    Yea, I dont mind him watching porn - esp since its MINE! I think it weirds me out because hes watching some other guy have sex with me. Ya know?! But then again its that or him watching another girl?! I dont know which is better. I think I was just most pissed at the overlimit fee! I mean damn hun, if you want to watch my porn Ill make a couple calls and have some free DVDs sent here!

    My mans a quick one... he doesnt even stumble... he always knows the perfect answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zxcire View Post
    ...I used to be so jealous and would cry if he watched porn, even though I have a collection of dvds and magazines of my own....
    Glad I'm not the only one who went through that phase..

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    Glad I'm not the only one who went through that phase..
    God I was psycho.

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    Been there, honey. Like threatening to break up psycho, wtf. When I have no problem reading erotica or looking at porn while masturbating.
    My current boyfriend is lucky because I've only been curious about his porn. Way nosy and judgemental about what he's watching and how much and how often. But not mad that he does it in general, like I was with my ex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zxcire View Post
    When I found out my husband had ordered some ppv porn a month or so ago, I had a really strange reaction (for me...)...I got really turned on. I asked him what he ordered. I asked him who was in it, what it was like, and I went down on him cause I got all horny from hearing about it. Wha?

    I used to be so jealous and would cry if he watched porn, even though I have a collection of dvds and magazines of my own...but something happened in me and now I want to hear about what he likes to watch and think about him jacking off to it.
    Everyone needs their "me" time. Plus I'm with zxcire... I love just the thought of whoever my SO is whacking off... oh.. um... gotta go now..

    The only time porn becomes a problem for me is:
    * If money that could be used productively elsewhere is being used for it when there is so much free porn widely available on and off the internet
    * If he is looking at porn every damn day
    * If he seems to use it a little too often (every day for extended periods of time)

    Otherwise, bring it on!


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