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    I just have to get this out, it's eating me up.

    My BF just confessed to me today that the Burlington Northern called a couple weeks ago and said that they denied his application for employment based on his background (the charge was a misdemeanor, but he is a registered sex offender). He was so upset, because Union Pacific won't hire him for the same reason. The BN was his only other option at being an ACTUAL employee for the railroad, which is his dream. He'll have to go back to working for a contracter company, which he enjoyed somewhat, but they don't take care of you or your family like the railroad does.

    Now here's where I am a bad girlfriend. I was so sad that he was going to work for the BN, because they were going to move him out of state, and since we're not married, they wouldn't provide for me or my son to come with him. I told him that if it's his dream then he should do it, and I would wait for him, but I was still very upset. So since he's told me this tonight, I've actually felt a little relieved...

    I know that's terribly selfish, and I feel so bad. I really do feel awful that he didn't get the job because it is what he wants to do, and I wanted that for him, but I'm just being a little selfish in enjoying that we'll actually be able to move in together now and stay in Denver.

    i'm going to hell.

    the end.
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    Sike! I thought you were going to say that you purposely sabotaged him!

    Don't worry, sweetie, u didn't do anything wrong! And besides, anyone would be relieved knowing that they can stay with their loved ones!

    and while you may be going to hell, it's defenetly not for this!

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    That is totally understandable, you want to support him but it's only natural that you dont want him to go away.
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    I also thought you were going to say you did XYZ to ensure he did not get it. There is nothing wrong with being happy about how a situation works itself out. we gotta make the best in life. =o)

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    I thought the same! Don't feel bad, its natural that you feel that way, anyone would feel the same in your shoes.



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    I also thought you were gonna say you sabotaged his chances. There is nothing wrong with you being happy he is staying!!
    I'm happy for you too, Long distance relationships suck ASS



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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessShea View Post
    I just have to get this out, it's eating me up.

    My BF just confessed to me today that the Burlington Northern called a couple weeks ago and said that they denied his application for employment based on his background (the charge was a misdemeanor, but he is a registered sex offender). He was so upset, because Union Pacific won't hire him for the same reason. The BN was his only other option at being an ACTUAL employee for the railroad, which is his dream. He'll have to go back to working for a contracter company, which he enjoyed somewhat, but they don't take care of you or your family like the railroad does.

    Now here's where I am a bad girlfriend. I was so sad that he was going to work for the BN, because they were going to move him out of state, and since we're not married, they wouldn't provide for me or my son to come with him. I told him that if it's his dream then he should do it, and I would wait for him, but I was still very upset. So since he's told me this tonight, I've actually felt a little relieved...

    I know that's terribly selfish, and I feel so bad. I really do feel awful that he didn't get the job because it is what he wants to do, and I wanted that for him, but I'm just being a little selfish in enjoying that we'll actually be able to move in together now and stay in Denver.

    i'm going to hell.

    the end.
    I don't think that's so bad. I mean, you guys have a kid together so you need to keep the family together and make sure that everyone is financially taken care of. Since when is trying to keep the parents together a BAD thing?

    If anything, the fact that you are humble enough to consider yourself "selfish" for something that isn't all that selfish, shows just how UNselfish you actually are.

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    Oh, honey if you're going to hell just for wanting health care and benefits... I don't even want to think about what the devils gonna do when he getsa holda me for all the naughty things I've done! Don't sweat it sweetie!

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    What?!? No sordid tales of cheating?!?! I WUZ ROBBED!!!








    (Honestly, you're not a bad GF. A bad GF wouldn't care one way or another.)

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    ^ lolz.

    and no, don't feel bad. you're so not going to hell. you're totally within the range of normalcy for these feelings!

    Love it!

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    I could see where he'd be crestfallen though- BNSF workers are a happy bunch (my step-cousin works for them) so don't rub salt in the wound.

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    can he get it expunged? depending on the offense, especially a misdemeanor, usually you can get it expunged after a few years. but I don't know if you can ever get off the sex offender list.
    I agree with all the girls, you are not selfish at all for wanting him to stay.
    I hope everything works out for all of you.

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    This is definitely understandable on your part and in no way makes you a bad girlfriend imo

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