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    A friend of mine recently had a miscarriage (2nd trimester) and she has totally shut me out. She has been confiding in one of our other friends and the only way I even found out that she miscarried (I knew there were problems with the pregnancy) is through the other friend.

    I'm really hurt. I know she is going thru a terrible time but she has time to send text messages and emails to the other friend and she doesn't tell me anything.

    I don't know what to think of this.
    Anyone experienced similar?
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    Dont take it too badly - youve been known to say that you dont like children or want them on here anyway, maybe she just thought you wouldnt relate. Give her a bit of time and then you can have a good catch up chat and work the rest out.

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    Default Re: hurt that friend confided in someone else

    ^^
    I was excited for her tho as I knew it was something that she really wanted. I am not sure if I want kids, due to many things but I can empathise with her situation.

    The other friend is alsosomeone who says she doesn't know if she would ever have kids too. I keep thinking have I done something but I cant think of anything I have done to upset her.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Default Re: hurt that friend confided in someone else

    Its possible she only told a few people because she needed someone to talk to. Otherwise, perhaps she didn't want to burden you.

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