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    Lately sometimes when my I have sex if he goes too deep (and he says its not even that deep) it hurts. I also noticed some pain before we had sex today kinda above my pubic area and to the side (where my ovaries are I think) and it hurt more when we have sex.
    Has anybody experienced anything like this before? I don't know if maybe its a sign of a cyst or something? I'm going to try to get an appointment at planned parenthood I think and check it out, but of course its Sat. and then sunday and then new years so they'll be closed for a few days.


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    I would get it checked out because it could be a couple of things.

    Does this happen ALL the time? Or just certain times?

    One could be that your choochie canal is short, and he is hitting the cervix.
    Another could very well be cysts. I had ovarian cysts for a while and I dont know why but it DID make sex painful. (Not like he was hitting my ovaries)

    OR could you be ovulating? I get some serious pains when I ovulate... it feels like your ovariesare going to bust.

    Hope you can get some help for whatever it is!!!

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    It could potentially be a lot of things...No harm in going to your doctor and getting an exam.

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    This used to happen to me before I had a baby. I think it was because my cervix was so low. My bf used to hit that spot too, and I'd be keeled over in pain afterwards It helps if you switch positions. Usually it was doogie style pos. when it hurt me.

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    Go to a good doctor, and make sure they give you and internal ultrasound. Its going to cost you some money if you don't have health insurance. However, I went to free clinics, urgent care, etc, for SIX MONTHS and was misdiagnosed repeatedly after having the same pains.

    In the end I had to have emergency surgery and can probably never bear kids. Get it checked out, it may be nothing, but it may be the same thing as I had.

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    I get serious pain if anyone goes too deep(and not even that deep...) I have a shallow canal and my cervix is easily hit.(I can grab the end of my cervix if I put two fingers in side me...thats how low it is)

    Some positions hurt more....as much as I love doggie...it's the most painful because it's easier for the guy to go deeper. Missionary I can take more...

    I wish there was a way to numb your cervix or something...would make my shoots much easier and less painful!

    My gyno at one point told me I had basically callouses on my cervix from it being hit during sex so much.

    If it happens in every position...go get checked. Actually...painful sex(esp if it wasnt painful before) warrents a Dr's visit anyway. Could be something else. When I have a yeast or Bacterial infection..even if the other symptoms arent present..sometimes I'll know I have it because sex becomes painful.

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    Are you on the pill? If not, do you know where you are at in your cycle? If you are midway through your cycle meaning the first day of your last period was roughly 14 days ago then you are ovulating. I have the same issue. If I am ovulating from my left ovary that month then my left lower side will hurt. Then during sex if he goes a little deep then it makes me cramp more. I have had issues with endometriosis so I think it makes me experience actual pain as opposed to tenderness that some women may feel. Also when you are ovulating your discharge will be more like an egg white in consistancy, white and sticky. Be careful, if you keep experiencing pain it is possible you could have a cyst and you should get it checked out just to be sure that is the case. Even if it is a cyst there isn't a hell of a lot they can do unless it's compromising your tube or ovaries. Most docs will opt for you to wait and see if it goes away on it's on. I waited but the cyst I had got to be the size of a grapefruit and there was a risk of me losing my right ovary so they removed it. Also if you are constipated that can put more pressure on your organs causing more pain.

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    ^^^

    I am ovulating so that might have something to do with it.

    And it's not all the time, just some times, so it could just be when I'm ovulating. I'll have to keep track of when it happens.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    ^^^

    I am ovulating so that might have something to do with it.

    And it's not all the time, just some times, so it could just be when I'm ovulating. I'll have to keep track of when it happens.

    Yup. It happens to me when I ovulate. Does your butt hurt too? lol Almost like a shooting pain?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi View Post
    Yup. It happens to me when I ovulate. Does your butt hurt too? lol Almost like a shooting pain?
    yes! I am thinking that is what it was because I'm not having it anymore. Seems pretty likely since its something that only happens sometimes, and I've just never put 2 and 2 together.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi View Post
    Yup. It happens to me when I ovulate. Does your butt hurt too? lol Almost like a shooting pain?
    Whoa whoa whoa--are sharp shooting anal pains related to ovulation?

    Seriously cause I get those and they're really fucking weird and awful.

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