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    ^^^I know N's sister was the anti-semite. But he *did* promote genocide, so that's why I have a hard time taking his 'will to power' stuff very seriously. The dude was a total misogynist. He was an excellent writer, and I like his take-down of the Christian rule...but he was an extremist, and I think his ideas need to be taken with a grain of salt.

    I don't think Heidegger is the best of Continental...My favourite of those is actually Gadamer. And Kierkegaard always seemed very interesting. I'm just saying that it really does get a bit sticky, that stuff. Heidegger just seems like a good example of everything I hate about Continental philosophy. A thousand densely worded paragraphs discussing the nature of 'being', based on the word "dasein" itself. Bah. Give me pragmatism any day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mbillie1 View Post
    Well, all the drinks were these mini bottles of wine that come individually sealed, plus tequila shots. I'm sure she can hold her liquor, but I can drink like a fish (and do) and I was feeling pretty drunk. It's possible it's a well-scripted routine, but it seems unlikely considering she had at least 5 or 6 shots of tequila, 7 or 8 glasses of wine, pills (lol) and some redbull/vodkas, and she weighs mebbe a hundred pounds soaking wet.
    OMG that's waaaay too much alcohol to be healthy! I cannot honestly imagine drinking all that much in one night(although I'm sure a lot of dancers do it though). Hearing that long list of drinks makes me feel sick to my stomach...or maybe I just feel sick because I drank a little too much on an empty stomach last night? (but nowhere near 6 shots + 8 wines + pills + redbull/vodkas though) LOL

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    PhillyDancer,

    It was definitely a lot, which was what made me think it'd be hard/unpleasant/impossible to convincingly and effortlessly lie through that much booze, but you never know obviously as I have accepted lol.

    mollyzmoon,

    Where does Nietzsche promote genocide?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mbillie1 View Post
    She seemed to talk a lot and went out of her way to try to describe herself as contrary to the typical stereotypes of strippers imo, like "I didn't do this because I had a bad relationship with my father or anything" and such, lots of fairly personal (if true, of course) and unprovoked stuff, she definitely had a good hustle though. And she definitely got a lot of $ out of me, so you never know.

    It's definitely a case of "my new favorite dancer ever" though
    This might sound a wee bit bitchy but if I were drunk off my ass with a customer, kissing him and giving him my phone number, popping pills and shooting tequila...I wouldn't waste time talking about how I was different than stripper stereotypes.

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    ...I know this is way nothing to do with the thread, but my final thoughts on Nietzsche

    In "The Will to Power" he said (I'm paraphrasing) "the weak and suffering should be allowed to die, and maybe they should be helped (to die)".

    His whole "the strong barbarians prevail!! Rah rah rah!!", and virtuous weaklings ought to be 'helped to shut up and die off'. I mean, uhm? What? Sounds quite a bit like what every psychotic power-maniac says when he justifies killing bazillions of 'lesser people'.

    I mean, people can downplay his craziness all they want, but he's the one who wrote that stuff. I won't deny there's some interesting ideas...And yet, he wrote all about his love for "the blond barbarians" who pillaged and rampaged, killing and stuff just because they could. He said "blond barbarians" are oh so awsome, and yet we're supposed to believe he was an equal-opportunity tyrant lover? Whatever. I just never bought into that whole idealism of tyranny thing.

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    I had pretty good game when I was 22.

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    i just want to say that i'm a little amused that yet another "does she like me? does she really like me?!" thread has gotten to 3 pages.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i just want to say that i'm a little amused that yet another "does she like me? does she really like me?!" thread has gotten to 3 pages.
    must be a sign imo
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    Quote Originally Posted by mbillie1 View Post
    must be a sign imo
    Yeah, a sign that we're all bored and have nothing better to do. And that troll-baiting is fun for the entire family!

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    aww I'm not trolling, I'm just insecure
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    i'm 22 and i play men really well all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    i'm 22 and i play men really well all the time.
    but for 8 hours of constant drunkery? I'm also not gonna act like I'm immune to being hit on... but I'm pretty generally paranoid / convinced people are using me, ahh whatever I guess

    Probably she's just really good at her hustle and that's that, either way it was fun and I'll go back but it's nice to mentally entertain the thought of leaving my boring life to run off with some gorgeous stripper lol

    Also if I do end up taking her out / whatever there will be some serious bragging going on ITT lol

    ps: Amy Sedaris is awesome, do you like David Sedaris at all? I just recently read "Me Talk Pretty One Day", it's fucking hysterically funny
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    Welcome to the madhouse.....

    If you've searched Customer Conversation (aka CC) you'll find innumerable threads from newbies asking: "how to I get to meet this dancer outside of work?" And the answer (in most cases) is that you don't - holding out the hope of an "outside the club" (OTC) meeting is standard dancer technique to keep the $$$'s flowing towards her garter.

    (Though I must say you're taking things very well - normally half the fun of these threads is seeing the originator throwing their toys out the pram when they don't get the answers they want).

    Some dancers will see customers outside of work, although there's two distinct ways it can happen. First way is that the customer pays the dancer for her time - essentially a commercial arrangement. Second way is that a dancer takes a genuine liking to a customer and decides to see them outside of work. That's much rarer than a dancer being paid for her time.

    In the event of her seing you outside for the fun of it, don't expect her to be too much like the person you met at work. Many dancers put on a fake personality when they walk into the dressing room at their club (and leave it behind when they stop work for the night).

    That said, there's no harm is exploring the possibilities - just don't get your hopes too high.

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    HUGE.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mbillie1 View Post
    I ended up spending like, 8 hours straight with this girl (at the club obviously, some of the time paying for dances/etc) and we drank a lot. And I can hold my liquor, she must've been drunk. She asked for my number, told me all about her family life and stuff, what she wants to do with her life, and a ton of stuff that I think she must have been too drunk to effectively make up completely. Plus she kissed me (zomg) and was otherwise cuddly/affectionate for the duration of this time, yeah yeah I know she's just trying to get some $ outta me (which she did, a lot) but I ask you...

    ...any remote snowball's chance in hell that this girl is interested in me at all? I mean if she was completely acting the entire time, she could be a CIA spy for all I know because she was good at it...

    Also I'm new here, hi guys
    I guess you will know if the phone rings. Note she asked for your number vs giving you hers...good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    I guess you will know if the phone rings. Note she asked for your number vs giving you hers...good luck.
    yeah yeah I know lol... I already got punked today when some unknown # called me, a pretty-sounding girl's voice asked for me, and it turns out it was my bank wondering if I wanted to reorder checks... d'oh!
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    yeah yeah I know lol... I already got punked today when some unknown # called me, a pretty-sounding girl's voice asked for me, and it turns out it was my bank wondering if I wanted to reorder checks... d'oh!
    My experience has been this: if they asked for a number outside work (like at the gym in my case) they usually called and were interested. If they asked for a number at work (and it is work!), they usually didn't call, but some times they did. If they gave their number, then they were interested. I would say you have a 10-20% chance she will call, but that's a total WAG on my part of course, but that's been my experience there.

    You can play it a few ways. Forget about it and smile that you had a fun night with a pretty girl, spent too much $$$, and got worked like a red headed step child. Hey, that is their job after all and some of them do it damn well!

    You could also go back there and see if she remembers you, see how she responds to you, and have some fun, without acting like a stalker or what ever. Problem is, it is their job and they are at work, so even if interested, they are working (very hard for men to keep that in mind with all that girl flesh in front of your testosterone filled male brain) and even if interested, work generally comes first. Some have a "no dating guys I meet at the club" policy and some don't as well.
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    She remembered me the 2nd time I went in there, she came up to my when I was at the bar and just started hanging out so, I hope she'd remember me if I went back but you never know lol

    I'll just relax I guess, if she calls, AWESOME and if not, fuck it I'll still go back and spend oodles of $ on her, she'll just hafta dance for it instead of ask hahaha

    If I won the lotto I'd be the best SC customer of all time lol - edit - and I mean that because I'm a huge sucker for a pretty girl
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    Quote Originally Posted by mbillie1 View Post
    fuck it I'll still go back and spend oodles of $ on her,
    That will show her!

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    If I won the lotto I'd be the best SC customer of all time lol - edit - and I mean that because I'm a huge sucker for a pretty girl
    Me too, which is one of many reasons I generally stay out of such places
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    PhillyDancer,

    It was definitely a lot, which was what made me think it'd be hard/unpleasant/impossible to convincingly and effortlessly lie through that much booze

    You have much to learn young padawan!!

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    Sorry to whoever's getting bored with philosophy but it's way more entertaining than the whole does she like me nonsense...

    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon View Post
    Heidegger just seems like a good example of everything I hate about Continental philosophy. A thousand densely worded paragraphs discussing the nature of 'being', based on the word "dasein" itself. Bah. Give me pragmatism any day.
    I could not agree more with this. Even without his nazism Heidegger kind of makes me want to gag, or at least nap. To me the best aspect of continental philosophy isn't all the overblown essay text but instead the literature associated with it, particularly Kafka, Camus, some Sartre and De Beauvoir, as well as Nietzsche (more of a predecessor really).




    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon View Post
    ...I know this is way nothing to do with the thread, but my final thoughts on Nietzsche

    In "The Will to Power" he said (I'm paraphrasing) "the weak and suffering should be allowed to die, and maybe they should be helped (to die)".

    His whole "the strong barbarians prevail!! Rah rah rah!!", and virtuous weaklings ought to be 'helped to shut up and die off'. I mean, uhm? What? Sounds quite a bit like what every psychotic power-maniac says when he justifies killing bazillions of 'lesser people'.

    I mean, people can downplay his craziness all they want, but he's the one who wrote that stuff. I won't deny there's some interesting ideas...And yet, he wrote all about his love for "the blond barbarians" who pillaged and rampaged, killing and stuff just because they could. He said "blond barbarians" are oh so awsome, and yet we're supposed to believe he was an equal-opportunity tyrant lover? Whatever. I just never bought into that whole idealism of tyranny thing.
    Some of the social commentary is wild but I haven't really found many philosophical concepts that I'm more enamoured with than amor fati and eternal recurrence. And *for the time* his break with Wagner over anti-semitism and other fairly strong criticism of anti-semites was rather liberated. Yes the overly idealized polemic can get old. Actually I couldn't stand Nietzsche the first time I read him, largely for that reason, but now I'm a big fan.

    OK I think I've nerded out this thread enough.

    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i just want to say that i'm a little amused that yet another "does she like me? does she really like me?!" thread has gotten to 3 pages.
    That's probably mostly my fault, sorry. I think I kept it towards the top of "new posts" when it might have otherwise died. At least we got a nice do not feed the trolls pic out of it though!

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    Every time I see this thread title I laugh my ass off.

    When I was 21 I met a customer and lead him on for almost a year.... umm I had this guy buying me tons of shit, giving me lots of money for no reason. I talked to him about my personal life... I would have nights where I told him not to give me money because I just enjoy his company...

    Yea I played this guy HARD CORE.

    So ummm.... yea uh... yea im leaving it at that.

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    Well, all the drinks were these mini bottles of wine that come individually sealed, plus tequila shots. I'm sure she can hold her liquor, but I can drink like a fish (and do) and I was feeling pretty drunk. It's possible it's a well-scripted routine, but it seems unlikely considering she had at least 5 or 6 shots of tequila, 7 or 8 glasses of wine, pills (lol) and some redbull/vodkas, and she weighs mebbe a hundred pounds soaking wet.

    I mean I'm a great lying drunk too... but this would have been an oscar worthy performance from me... I dunno.
    Beer goggles can also be worn by strippers. You can find plenty of threads from girls based on "What was I thinking?!" when it comes to their own behavior with customers.

    But...you just might be that one in a million.


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    sup bro.
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