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    sup bro
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    Quote Originally Posted by James Bond View Post
    Man, you guys must have a very different idea of "troll" from me... afaik a troll is someone who purposefully posts inflammatory/insulting stuff to get a rise out of people. I might be asking a dumb question that gets asked a lot, but I'm going out of my way to be responsive and not a huge dick about it lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    i'm 22 and i play men really well all the time.
    Do you play on their organs?

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    The reason this thread went to 4 pages is the fact that the usual 'does she really like me?' question got diverted into philosophical matters in a rather amusing way.

    MollyZMoon, I read most of Nietzsche while taking a class devoted to his works. It was taught by a Jewish professor who was quite brilliant and imaginative, and most definitely not anti-Semitic. While Neitzsche is admittedly a bit out there, so are 98% of philosophers, lol. But his work was twisted in a very nasty way by Hitler, et al, in order to promote something he never would have condoned.


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    Also if I do end up taking her out / whatever there will be some serious bragging going on ITT lol

    Please, if you do take her out, no bragging. Unless you want to take it to the blue side, where you can regale the fiction writers (not that all of them are lying about the free lap dances and extras, mind you) with your success. Bragging about dating strippers is extremely boring when your audience is strippers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tripwire View Post
    sup bro.
    They're baaaaaaaaaaack!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    They're baaaaaaaaaaack!

    Who's back? AFAIK "sup bro" is a fairly cross-forum gimmick/troll account, but "sup bro" has also become the greeting of choice for 2+2 posters... I assumed this guy was the latter...
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    What's AFAIK, and 2+2 posters?

    Oh, and Odysseus, I agree Kafka is great fun.
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    afaik = as far as i know, 2+2 is http://forums.twoplustwo.com/ , a huge online gambling forum server basically, but tons of subforums.
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    Just to answer your question. A 22 year old dancer should not be underestimated. She can be a big time player !I think this girl was just having fun partying at work. We've all been there.She likes you as a custy and you should continue to spend money on her with reckless abandon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mbillie1 View Post
    2+2 is http://forums.twoplustwo.com/ , a huge online gambling forum server basically, but tons of subforums.
    They've been here. Pretty much every heavily male oriented and populated forum has come into our "club" to fuck with the ladies. Its quite amusing really, and often happens late in the night when I'm not around. But I've gotten a few glimpses of our troll wars and they are fun. A pain for the mods though.........

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    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    Well, I'm not here to troll, don't ban me!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    They've been here. Pretty much every heavily male oriented and populated forum has come into our "club" to fuck with the ladies. Its quite amusing really, and often happens late in the night when I'm not around. But I've gotten a few glimpses of our troll wars and they are fun. A pain for the mods though.........
    I would never fuck with the ladies... except in the good way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ
    ...you should continue to spend money on her with reckless abandon.
    That's good, lol!
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    WORST THREAD EVER.Yawn.
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    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    i dont know. i think this thread is entertaining. i dont think the OP is a troll.
    i guess we will find out soon enough.
    to the op, we actually had a troll called sup bro.
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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    i dont know. i think this thread is entertaining. i dont think the OP is a troll.
    i guess we will find out soon enough.
    to the op, we actually had a troll called sup bro.

    we had that same troll lol, he made some funny threads though

    Apologies for the played out thread topic, it occurs to me that this is kind of like asking "CAN I GET OUT OF A SPEEDING TICKET LOLZ" on a cop forum or something... I'm sure you get it a lot though

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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ View Post
    A 22 year old dancer should not be underestimated. She can be a big time player !

    "Play on, play on playette..."

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    This is what we guys go thru with a lot of women. Just let it play out slowly and see what happens, if it's all worth it anyhow.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    results/variance:

    she calls me last night, just to shoot the shit for about a half an hour. this is cool, i am pleased. i end up drunk at the bars, get in a fight with my friend, we're both covered in snow, it's cold as hell. i go there and visit her anyway (since i know she's working til 4... i get there at like 3:30 lol) and we chill briefly, dance, etc. she says she's going to call me today now. alrighty.

    probabilities*:
    she has a nice hustle / is working this angle to get more $$: 87%
    she is crazy/emotionally wounded/unstable and feels like i understand her: 7%
    she's uncontrollably in love with me: 6%

    (* - all probabilities fabricated)

    bullet points:

    she didn't ask me to come visit her at the SC, but she also didn't ask me to meet her anywhere outside of the SC. i didn't ask her out anyplace though, as i was mostly just caught off guard and i am a huge pussy

    she apparently wasn't lying about most of the stuff she told me before, including not having a cell phone, since when i called her to tell her i was at the club it went to her voicemail which was "not set up yet" confirming her claim of having just purchased a gophone (also possible hustle/game, but that seems like a lot of effort to go through...)

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    FWIW, I have for about 5 years now seen three dancers outside of work as friends. Not exactly common, but it suits all of us.

    Highest probability is that you're a good source of income (player) but there is a small but finite probability that she would like to meet you OTC. (Friendship/love).

    In two of three cases it was the dancers who asked for my number. In the third, I hadn't realised the dancer was really shy IRL, and it was only when we bumped into each other unexpectedly and she gave me a huge hug and a kiss that I realised she was waiting for me to ask for hers.

    One thing I will say - dancers either view you as a friend or as a customer. If they view you as a customer they will behave very differently towards you than if they regard you as a friend.

    You can get a fairly good clue as to how this dancer thinks of you by how she behaves when she dances for you. If she's thinking of you as a friend, she'll be a little uncomfortable. If she's thinking of you as a customer, she'll have no problem dancing for you.

    If she's after friendship and/or love, odds are she'll take a little bit of time to make up her mind. Seeing someone OTC is a significant psychological step for a dancer. It means you see the real her, not the fantasy version in the smoke and mirrors that is a strip club. Also means she'll start to allow you into her private life, and many dancers keep a rigid distinction between work and private life.

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    Holy shit, a Pie Chart!

    A new level has been achieved in 'Does she really like me' thread history.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Phil-W View Post
    You can get a fairly good clue as to how this dancer thinks of you by how she behaves when she dances for you. If she's thinking of you as a friend, she'll be a little uncomfortable. If she's thinking of you as a customer, she'll have no problem dancing for you.

    If she's after friendship and/or love, odds are she'll take a little bit of time to make up her mind. Seeing someone OTC is a significant psychological step for a dancer. It means you see the real her, not the fantasy version in the smoke and mirrors that is a strip club. Also means she'll start to allow you into her private life, and many dancers keep a rigid distinction between work and private life.
    On these two points, she definitely seems comfortable dancing for me, but it's also not particularly sexual (at least compared to what my general expectation of a strip club is) and is a lot more like... cuddling? lol I dunno what to call it. She may just be reading my reactions to her though and changing how she dances to what I appear to respond best to.

    I've sort of got a little bit into her private life I guess. At least in terms of knowing things about her. She claims to be an amazing cook (claims to have gone to a culinary program iirc) so maybe I can convince her to cook for me... I dunno.

    Either way, I'm relatively pleased with the outcome so far... I'll try not to fuck it up, lol
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    Holy shit, a Pie Chart!

    A new level has been achieved in 'Does she really like me' thread history.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mbillie1 View Post
    ...she definitely seems comfortable dancing for me, but it's also not particularly sexual (at least compared to what my general expectation of a strip club is) and is a lot more like... cuddling?
    I'd noticed some time ago that most dancers who talk to me on a genuinely personal level (not just the three I mentioned) started to get uncomfortable dancing in front of me. (Body language has been an interest of mine for many years). And ditto, I started to feel uncomfortable taking any notice.

    I eventually found what I believe to be the explanation in a book on psychology (another interest). We tend to adjust our behaviour to suit the person we are with and, within reason, act in a way we feel will gain their approval.

    Accordingly, if a dancer sees you as a customer, they'll behave as they think that customer wants them to behave in their stripper persona. And because they're playing a role (stripper) there's no inhibition against getting naked in front of the customer.

    Most dancers however don't get naked in front of their male friends, so accordingly, feel uncomfortable being naked in front of me if they start to regard me as a friend - even a very casual one. And I pick that up from the body language and feel uncomfortable looking at them - "acting in a way to gain their approval".

    Quote Originally Posted by mbillie1 View Post
    I've sort of got a little bit into her private life I guess. At least in terms of knowing things about her. She claims to be an amazing cook (claims to have gone to a culinary program iirc) so maybe I can convince her to cook for me... I dunno.
    Outside of work one of the dancers I know is a superlative cook. The other has trouble getting boiled new potatoes right. Law of averages I guess.

    Phil.

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