Do you guys ever get tired of having to be someone completely different at work? I mean I'm very good at my job, I have a nice number of regulars, I rarely have trouble at my club.... I hate being fake whether it be to myself or other people. I feel like I'm almost leading a double life. At work, I'm A****, and at home I'm Lucki. The two are so different. I used to have no problem separating the two, but now I'm just getting so tired of having to put on a "persona" at the club. I can't make real friends at work because I'm not my real self at work, so they get to know my "stripper self".
I guess I'm not really asking for much advice really, it's just a rant. I wanted to see if any of you could relate. This job is getting to be a royal pain in the ass. I'm 22 and I want to be DONE by 25. I want to get in school so bad in 2008....That's my New Years resolution.



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Look at the long term goals you have. Just put your mind to that and smile all the way to the bank.


Britt!)...on one hand, yeah it's kind of like being an actress at work. But on the other hand, the best actors are those who channel their own personality into their character. It's me when I'm "on," and I like that me. So it doesn't get me down. Maybe re-examine why you feel uncomfortable with your stage personality--is it someone you really don't like? Or do you not like feeling "obligated" to pretend to be someone else? If that's the case, think about what we're saying--it's NOT necessary to make up a whole new personality to be a happy successful dancer.
Lysondra its rather funny how alike we are.


all accents and the way my friends speak.. it is what makes me like you as such (if that makes sense). 
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