I hear many dancers either at the club or girls on here talk about their regulars. My "friends" at work, especially this one girl who I really like and who is really a friend always has customers coming in to see her and taking her for a couple hours. The other night one of her customers gave her a $1,000 gift card to Bloomingdales on top of her doing 2 hours. Now, she is good at working them, giving them her number, talking to them on the phone sporadically and occasionally having a cocktail with them OTC for cash but them still come back even with her seeing them OTC.
Since I've been dancing a yr and a half, I've had 1 customer who came to see me twice and stopped because I wasn't naughty enough (found out from another dancer who he sees who's open about being naughty there) and this other guy came to see me 3 times but then it became the "I'm in love with you, I want to take you out......". The girls told me to string him along with the "I'm not comfortable going out with you yet, come in a few more times......" but I just couldn't do that, I felt bad leading someone on. I did even have lunch with him just to see what it was like and realized how much of a fantasy land the SC is and knew I couldn't go out with him again cuz I just didn't like him "that way". He continued to call me but I never accepted or returned his calls again. The girls told him to have him come in and see me again but I just didn't feel right about it for some reason, I felt wrong about leading him on and am afraid if I lead someone on like that, that eventually one of them will become angry and become psycho on me and become a crazy stalker.
So, this is my dilemma, I just don't/can't get regulars for some reason like other girls do. I still do very well at the club and for the most part don't have too many bad nights, I always target new customers, however, it would be nice to have some regulars that would come in to bring me presents and have a guaranteed vip time.
Any thoughts or suggestions? Thank you.




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) helps tremendously when it comes to building up a clientele. And if you can call and talk to them once in a while on the phone, that's even better!


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