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    Default Learning to lap dance

    Hello gorgeous girls, Happy New Year!
    This is my first post on SW so hope I've put it in the right place.

    I wondered whether any of you could recommend any videos which I could learn to lap dance from. I've decided to take the plunge and arrange an audition at a club. I'm pretty confident about my pole dancing but have never lap danced before.

    Would be grateful for any suggestions so I can make a fool of myself at home before inflicting it on the public!

    Lou x

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    There's kind of a shortage of realistic videos on the art of lapdancing. Also, the style of dance you give is largely based on the rules of the club you're working at--some have restrictions on the dancer, e.g. must keep one foot on the ground, can/can't straddle the customer, or even must be a complete air dance. Have you scouted your club already to find out what they expect?

    Honestly, the best advice I have is to go in as a customer and get a couple of dances from a girl who looks like she knows what she's doing. Once you see what sorts of moves she does, you can see how to adapt it to fit your own personality while adhering to the club rules. You can continue learning while you're at the club by peeking at other girls who are dancing for their customers and studying their moves. Perks to this is that you're getting paid to learn OTJ!

    The most effective dance, regardless of what style it is, is intimate and sensual. The customer should believe you genuinely love dancing for him and aren't aware of anyone else in the room. You'll learn the moves in no time, but go in with the attitude of "I'm all yours and you won't ever want to be with anyone else" and you'll have the opportunity to practice over and over again (and get paid for it!).

    Good luck!


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    You could also ask to watch a couple girls do a lap dance for a customer. Stand off to the side of the room if it is separate. Aks your managers and the girls first, and explain your case that you don't know how to do one and would just like to get the idea. It is what I did. I've also had new girls ask me to 'give' them a 'lapdance' to see how I do it for a small fee early in the night.

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    Best way to do it is to do what SS said, or go to a club and get some lap dances and ask the girl to talk you through it. Or just watch the other girls, or ask if you can give your manager a lap dance, if he seems normal. Or is cute
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    Just search lapdance on youtube.com
    Maybe it will give you some ideas??
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    Meh. Lapdance on Youtube turns up hoochies club dancing over their best girl friend for comments from the penis gallery.

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    Oh boy when i had to start giving ld's i freaked! I sucked at it, watching was not enough for me. I came home and practiced on pillows in front of a mirror (never told how corny), then asked my roomate if i could practice on him. A friend is a good bet to learn on.

    Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrawberrySwitchblade View Post
    Meh. Lapdance on Youtube turns up hoochies club dancing over their best girl friend for comments from the penis gallery.

    Gives some ideas
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    Default Re: Learning to lap dance

    Thanks for the advice, I know which club I want to work at so will pay a visit and maybe get a lapdance myself, just need to convince someone to come with me (I'm sure there will be a lot of offers)!

    Will also have a practice on a friend and see what they think.

    Will let you all know how I get on!

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    Yha I watched another girl and then danced for the same guy and she gave me pointers. It was really fun. She's awesome and even after I'd been there a few nights would run up to me and tell me that she remembered something else that the guys really like and show me. What a sweetheart! I think doing something along those lines is the easiest way to go, besides just doing it of coarse.

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    i used to be bad too... until my boyfriend showed me what to do... he used to be a strip club junkie.

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    Default Re: Learning to lap dance

    Two words: Eye Contact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    Two words: Eye Contact.
    HELL YES! Even if you're completely klutzy, stage or couch room, if you maintain eye contact they don't notice anything else and they still love it ten times more.

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    Not only eye contact, but smile sexy, too.

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