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    Just wanted to get you girls' opinions as to why these men who come in the club feel so damn comfortable saying the creepiest things within the first five minutes of verbal contact with a stripper? Don't get me wrong, I am under no illusions about my job, and am quite aware of how society, and even our own customers view us. But supposedly, many of them "respect" the choice we made to become a dancer, yet they say things that they would never, in a million years walk up to a girl on the street and say. ..and to top that off...MANY honestly believe that they will have a chance to sleep with us after coming off as such a creep. We aren't dumb, we know exactly what these guys are think...they don't need to verbalize it. What I don't get is how could they possibly say this crap, and follow it up with, "So, what are you doing later?"

    Just wanted a different perspective on this.

    Also, so I can be assured that I'm not the only creep-magnet in the club...What is the rudest (sleaziest) comment a customer has made to you within the first five minutes of convo?

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    Ha!! Oh geez....my all time favorite had to be the jackass who asked me if I was ok in participating in a godawful sexually deviant practice know as ass to mouth. That's right ladies....not only did I get propositioned by this jerk, he wanted to go straight to the nasty stuff. You know what I told him? "You.never.go.ass.to.mouth.Randall."

    Coming in a close second was the guy who immediately offered to pay me to f*** him with the biggest, blackest strap-on I could find. I was so flabergasted I didn't know what to say...I mean, he was actually pretty polite otherwise....strange.
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    How about the guy who told me that he could tell the club was just full of horny girls because all of our nipples were hard....hmm. Guess he wasn't feeling the air-conditioning...

    OR the dude who asked me if I enjoyed eating shit (was rendered speechless on that one) then told me he was an S&M Master looking for a stripper to be his pig and eat his shit?!?!

    The pilot who randomly asked if he could perform "reverse fellatio" on my toes...So that I would know how to better take care of him when we went to the VIP suite...WTF?

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    Some customers firmly believe that paying an entrance fee at the club permits them to say and do the most rude, demeaning, cruel things to dancers.

    They are fucking whacked. I'd never be able to change it, so I just avoid them.

    Here is a spiffy Quote from a past post on the subject:

    "Do you honestly think that the price of admission to a club grants you the right to completely abandon all social and cultural norms. Do you think that another human being (stripper or otherwise) would appreciate you slapping their ass for any reason?

    Why do you assume you get to work out all of your disrespectful, degrading impulses in a strip club???????

    Last I head, people went to clubs to have a good time and be entertained, not to degrade the workers.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Daisa View Post
    OR the dude who asked me if I enjoyed eating shit (was rendered speechless on that one) then told me he was an S&M Master looking for a stripper to be his pig and eat his shit?!?!

    Wow...and I thought ass to mouth guy was bad! What's with the shit theme
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    Quote Originally Posted by Daisa View Post
    Just wanted to get you girls' opinions as to why these men who come in the club feel so damn comfortable saying the creepiest things within the first five minutes of verbal contact with a stripper? Don't get me wrong, I am under no illusions about my job, and am quite aware of how society, and even our own customers view us. But supposedly, many of them "respect" the choice we made to become a dancer, yet they say things that they would never, in a million years walk up to a girl on the street and say. ..and to top that off...MANY honestly believe that they will have a chance to sleep with us after coming off as such a creep. We aren't dumb, we know exactly what these guys are think...they don't need to verbalize it. What I don't get is how could they possibly say this crap, and follow it up with, "So, what are you doing later?"
    so do we. the way we act in the club certainly isnt the way we'd act walking up to someone on the street.

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    him "you would love sitting on my face"
    me quickly stand up and quickly walk away.
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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    Some guy whispered in my ear after 2 minutes of meeting me: "Tell me, sweetheart. How tight is that sweet sweet pussy of yours?"

    umm... you'll never find out.

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    brit, you are absolutely right about that. What kills me, though is these guys who say these things are trying to get laid...and I guarantee that most of them would never in a million years approach a girl at his neighborhood bar with this shit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Daisa View Post
    brit, you are absolutely right about that. What kills me, though is these guys who say these things are trying to get laid...and I guarantee that most of them would never in a million years approach a girl at his neighborhood bar with this shit.
    haha, you'd be surprised...

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    These guys are creeps who specifically come to the club because they can't do it anywhere else. They're cowards who have to pay cover charge to have a girl get up and walk away from them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    These guys are creeps who specifically come to the club because they can't do it anywhere else. They're cowards who have to pay cover charge to have a girl get up and walk away from them.
    Sometimes they don't even pay cover charge! Just the cost of the beer or drink they are "nursing".....

    It's part and parcel of this business. You just learn to grow a thick skin or else get out of this business basically.


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    "I would eat a mile of your shit just to see where it came from." or "I'd drink your dirty bath water." Yea. Sick.

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    I've heard some pretty wierd stuff. Like, WAY off norm. You just learn to either giggle about it or tune it out - the former works best for me.

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    I must be lucky because I've never had a guy get creepy with me that fast. They usually wait until we are back in vip to gross me out.. ugh

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    ^ I was about to say the same thing. Or maybe Im really good at tuning it out so I dont remember it.

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    I have had idiots and asshats say the most bizarre things to me. And I have noticed it seems to come in waves, so you feel like a weirdo magnet for a week or so, then the goofy karma moves on to somebody else and some other girl is having all the convos about walking through a litter box in fishnets or putting fireflies up her cooch.

    It will pass. Write some of it down because after a while, you will begin to tune it all out and you will want to laugh at what used to gross you out, but no longer does.

    My all-time fave was a guy who, the first time I met him and without warning, withing 10 minutes of meeting me and at the beginning of the very first (and last) dance, whipped out a pocket vibrator and attempted to use it on me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by colleen View Post
    My all-time fave was a guy who, the first time I met him and without warning, withing 10 minutes of meeting me and at the beginning of the very first (and last) dance, whipped out a pocket vibrator and attempted to use it on me.
    ^^^

    Some of my favorites:

    "I can tell by the way you bend over that you like anal sex. I bet you'd like a big thick Italian cock in your ass."

    "I'd eat your pussy out for four hours on the worst day of your worst period."


    The way I see it, we're paid professionals. In a way, (to me) it's okay if someone's a little "off" as long as they're not rude about it. The longer I've been dancing the less thrown off I am about customers getting right down to it in the first five minutes. My first reaction is dude where the fuck did you come from. Is it a full moon again? Then I just focus on how I can use their weakness or quirkiness to score a VIP. The above ass man became a VIP regular of mine. I'd let him talk dirty and kind of tuned it out.
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