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    • pace of club: slow
    • custumers:3
    • girls:5
    • your custumer: likes to talk alot but promises you a dance before you leave
    • amount he is paying you to talk: $0
    • my question: do i excuse myself every once in awhile or do i stay next to the custie
    • reason: because i lost my custumer to the same girl three times, i mean everyone sees me with him and doesnt go to my custumer, but i just feel like i'll start trouble for no reason if i say anything to her.
    • possible solution: should i tell my custie to tell any girl that comes up that he's waiting for me?

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    Default Re: dont leave until he does?

    Is he a regular? Does he usually buy dances only from you or does he buy dances from other girls?
    What do you mean by you "lost" your customer to another girl? Did he buy a dance from another girl after you left last time?

    Honestly, I think it depends. If he's a regular, I could see sitting with him a couple songs and then taking him for a few dances. On the other hand, it might be more profitable for you tell him "I'll be back in a little bit", walk around and talk to the other customers to get a dance from someone else while he's sitting, and then come back to him later on.

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    if he wants you, he'll tell the girl he's waiting for you. i don't like your attitude of "well he's mine and everyone else knows it!" because he isn't. look up some more threads on customer "stealing" and you'll see that most of the girls here will agree with me.

    if he wanted a dance with you, he would get one. if he isnt paying you or actually GETTING a dance, that means he just doesnt want one. why do you think these guys want dances from you? just because they say they'll get one? that could very well be a brush off without him flat out telling you no. he's stringing you along to get you to talk for free, or he wants you to go away.

    are you new to dancing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by alessandra View Post
    Is he a regular? Does he usually buy dances only from you or does he buy dances from other girls?
    What do you mean by you "lost" your customer to another girl? Did he buy a dance from another girl after you left last time?

    Honestly, I think it depends. If he's a regular, I could see sitting with him a couple songs and then taking him for a few dances. On the other hand, it might be more profitable for you tell him "I'll be back in a little bit", walk around and talk to the other customers to get a dance from someone else while he's sitting, and then come back to him later on.
    i forgot to add that i had got a dance or two in both occasions.
    also, they weren't regulars

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    if he wanted a dance with you, he would get one. if he isnt paying you or actually GETTING a dance, that means he just doesnt want one. why do you think these guys want dances from you? just because they say they'll get one? that could very well be a brush off without him flat out telling you no. he's stringing you along to get you to talk for free, or he wants you to go away.

    are you new to dancing?
    When there are five dancers and three customers, she has little other options than to deal with this cheap douche and the flimsy promise of a dance. I've been in her shoes.

    Hold him to it. Tell him "I don't mind if you get dances from another girl" but to "save a dance for me." Don't sit with him too too long. Sit long enough for him to feel obligated, but then let those be your parting words and let him have some room to breathe and look around. Otherwise he might start looking for a way to escape from you. The second time you come back to him, don't take no for an answer, otherwise he's just dicking you around. If he gives you an emphatic no then, tell him you would appreciate it if he would tip you for your time. At least then it's not a total bust.

    Btw, I feel sorry for you that things are this crappy in your club. I know what you're feeling. I've worked in a similarly slow club.
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    thanks paintgoddess

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    Quote Originally Posted by paintgoddess View Post
    When there are five dancers and three customers, she has little other options than to deal with this cheap douche and the flimsy promise of a dance. I've been in her shoes.

    Hold him to it. Tell him "I don't mind if you get dances from another girl" but to "save a dance for me." Don't sit with him too too long. Sit long enough for him to feel obligated, but then let those be your parting words and let him have some room to breathe and look around. Otherwise he might start looking for a way to escape from you. The second time you come back to him, don't take no for an answer, otherwise he's just dicking you around. If he gives you an emphatic no then, tell him you would appreciate it if he would tip you for your time. At least then it's not a total bust.

    Btw, I feel sorry for you that things are this crappy in your club. I know what you're feeling. I've worked in a similarly slow club.
    yeah but if a guy isnt buying dances or giving her money, it isnt fair to sit with him and keep other girls from possibly making money. i get mad when girls are just sitting there with guys, trying to keep someone else from getting to them.

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    Default Re: dont leave until he does?

    If there are only 3 custies and 5 dancers it is really wrong of you to sit with him for free. A girl might beat you up for that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by paintgoddess View Post
    Hold him to it. Tell him "I don't mind if you get dances from another girl" but to "save a dance for me." Don't sit with him too too long. Sit long enough for him to feel obligated, but then let those be your parting words and let him have some room to breathe and look around.
    ^^No shit. That's one of the reasons I said that. It's a crappy situation all around.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    Strippers are like ninjas. You never know how many there are or if the person next to you is one.
    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    ...I assume you probably don't want to deal with pervs, and the guys that just don't give a fuck about money are like unicorns...
    Quote Originally Posted by Sinder View Post
    I know I have said it before, and I'll say it again.... THE VAGINA IS NOT A CLOWN CAR!


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    Default Re: dont leave until he does?

    exactly.. its a different situation according to who is in the club.

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    Default Re: dont leave until he does?

    not a regular - don't sit for free, get the hell up so another girl can make money

    club regular - don't sit for free, tell him to enjoy himself, but hustle your own dances out of him as well

    your regular - don't sit for free, he's still a person and can still get dances from other girls if he wants, if he isn't telling them he's waiting for you then he is a club regular

    most of all, don't sit for free!






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    Quote Originally Posted by CollegeCutie21 View Post
    not a regular - don't sit for free, get the hell up so another girl can make money

    club regular - don't sit for free, tell him to enjoy himself, but hustle your own dances out of him as well

    your regular - don't sit for free, he's still a person and can still get dances from other girls if he wants, if he isn't telling them he's waiting for you then he is a club regular

    most of all, don't sit for free!

    yea, thats a good rule of thumb

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    yeah but if a guy isnt buying dances or giving her money, it isnt fair to sit with him and keep other girls from possibly making money. i get mad when girls are just sitting there with guys, trying to keep someone else from getting to them.
    I completely agree with this.

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