
"If you're not selling drinks, you're fucking useless."
From a manager to ALL the girls in the dressing room on a Friday night. Business has been dead, and instead of *gasp* closing a floor until it gets busy enough to need it, we dancers have now been volunteered to sell drinks for the club. As if the customers are coming in for $8 Miller Lite!
Probably guys talking about pedo sh!t.
you mean besides the regular "bread or head" tipping refference made to all the girls by our DJ's.
I think the 1 time they suggested pimping me out to 1 of the owner's friend's wife was the all time low becuase they were actaully being serious and I was really upset they made me feel like i should do it as a favor--like being a lesbian and a stripper means I'll sex any woman I'm asked to for a price becuz they know the owner or my boss. WFT is that ?..I had to remind them that I'm not a whore and that if I'm not into a chick she is getting just as little as any other customer who has a dick is gonna get from me which is friction dancing and strip tease. My boss said he was sorry and felt bad, but that customer felt soo entitled to ask that of me I seriously wanted to key his car when he went off talking down to me on how he knows other girls that would. Like he is he and why should I care if I don't want to no is no and he should just have accepted that I wasn't into it regardless on how much or who he knows or if I work for his friend. Really what nerve does he have to assume that about me becuz I'm a gay dancer.
PS tossing a salad is the term for ass licking and you don't know how many times str8 guys have asked to do that to me soo it's not a gay male thing. It's an ass licking thing which I don't even want to know why it's called that as the idea of salad and ass eating just doesn't do it for me.
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I don't get the salad connection either. The first time someone mentioned that to me I was like "what? What the fuck does that mean?"
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I'm not a dancer, but this happened to my favorite once when she came out of VIP with me. The manager came up, grabbed her crotch, then said something along the lines of 'Pretty nice, but I wouldn't go there since you obviously just used it.' That offended me, especially since this particular dancer doesn't do extras.
When I said I am in law school to my manager, he replied
'wow baby, you are the smartest of the stupids' (meaning dancers).
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When I used to dance, I surrounded myself in a bubble so that I would not have to deal with too much negative criticism. Overall, I found most male employees were actually pretty nice and really quite helpfull, as long as you were professianal. Mostly they did not care as long as they got their tips. The most negative thing that I recall is being walked out to my car from OG in Vegas(1996) as the floorman saying, "I heard that you were not that hot." I think smiled or something, cant remember if I tipped him or not. On the drive home I kind of took that as offensive and wondered why I was not that hot. I kind of assumed that a customer must have tipped him somewhat and complained about my dances. Who knows?
The day I came in to work to be told that I "have to talk to a manger"...then proceeded to be suspended for a bullshit situation I had nothing to do with, this dumbass bouncer was such an ass. I came out of the office crying my eyes out, very visibly upset, and as I am walking out the door in shambles he looks at me with this stupid ass smile and goes "See ya later (my stage name )! Have a great day!!" WTF?? Can't you see I am crying dickwad?! I don't know if that exactly classifies as "nasty" ....but it sure was RUDE and INSENSITIVE.
Never forgot this. I was working at Spearmint on the night shift, which is admittedly very hard to get hired for. he yelled at me for doing a dirty dance, which I was NOT doing! I don't even know what he saw, or thought he saw me doing. I apologized and said (Which was true!) I'm really sorry I've never worked in a contact club like this before, I don't know what I'm doing. He told me I was acting like a whore, and then said "And you're BORDERLINE WORKING THIS SHIFT ANYWAY!!!"
What the fuck, dude???
Nothing blatently rude was said to me, but there is a DJ who is ALWAYS trying to get me home with him. He knows I'm engaged and happily so. Yet, still he's always harassing me. Jerk. It's just so, well I guess, RUDE!
it was taking one girl a while to get to stage, the DJ kept calling her but it was obvious she was pulling herself together after a VIP dance. so when she finally gets up on stage, the DJ says "We don't hire them based on their IQs fellas!!"
i went up to him and told him that no one likes to be called stupid and it was an awful, disrespectful thing to say about ANYONE, let alone people in this line of work. and how he was perpetuating the stereotype and all that jazz. I was spitting fire at him and he just stood there and finally said "i didn't mean to offend you, I'm sorry. I really am." as sincerely as possible. so i thought that maybe i got him to think about some of the things he says and how it affects those around him, and i was happy.
this was months ago... i come to find out last weekend from another waitress that he still says shit about the girls being stupid, just when I'm not there I guess. the douche bag is lucky i don't work with him ever...iz can be hasing yer ballz fer mai collekion, yesh??





^^ I would have LOST IT on him.




I wanted to do a burlesque show. Stripping while doing some stand up comedy. I thought it would be cute and I asked the manager but he said I couldn't afford to loose anymore sexy points.
There was another time I was riding with a different manager to a promo thing, just making chit-chat. I asked him if he remembered when I was new and tried to run in my heels to the stage and fell and busted my lip open. He laughed for about 3 minutes straight.
I remember one time I had just come out of VIP and the bartender called me over on the way to the dressing room. He looked me up and down (staring pointedly at my thighs and smallish breasts) then said, "I just don't fucking get it. Out of all the girls here, that guy actually wanted to spend time with you. I'd say you did extras, but even that wouldn't be worth the money."
i worked for a week at a club called Cheeks in NJ
my first day, i wanted to make sure i got cool with the bouncers because that is a necessity in this field!
me "hi im Victory whats your name"
Bouncer "My name is Asshole, they call me asshole here"
Me "wow, okay, why would they call you that"
Bouncer "well because im an asshole, dont you have work to do?"
my manager is a drunken idiot, when hes sober he's cool, when hes drunk its a problem. will just quote him now...
"when are you going to let me take you in the back and lick your pussy?' UGHHH you are disGUSTING!!!!!! NEVER!![]()
"I will fire you if i see another guy put his hand on your butt" lol but yet he will walk past me when im talking to a customer, and slap me on the ass... what a loser.
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