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    I just need sympathy.

    Work has sucked lately. It hasn't been empty but for some reason guys are not buying dances. I don't know what the deal is. I try to stay positive and give each guy my very best attempt, but man, it has been really frustrating. They aren't buying dances from other girls really either, so at least it isn't just me. It feels like a completely different environment though since the new year. For some reason every guy (and I'm not exaggerating) is annoyed that I even bring up private dances, and is not even pleasant to be around. And, for some reason every guy is a chain smoker. I don't get it. So I get smoke blown in my face all night long. ???? I'm hoping this is some cheap-after holidays-crowd, and nice guys are waiting until they can actually afford it to come out.

    I hope it doesn't last long. It's making me sad.
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    SC's have down time. Sounds like you are there. It will get better.

    I would panic when that happened. But know it's not you, and it will pick back up. Not really much you can do if your hustle is good, except find that diamond in the rough...he will walk in.
    Good luck

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    i think it might be because of the holidays. it sucks here too, and everyone's telling me how good next week will be.

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    Thanks girls. It is just a down time. I am just so motivated to work a bunch and make money, it is frustrating to not be able to.

    There are also a lot of girls working right now, so guys have been really defensive. After being hit up by 10 girls in a row they are just straight unpleasant.

    Oh well, I take the weekends off, and monday is a new week.
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    It's like this EVERYWHERE. (right??) At least it is in Wisconsin. I'm sure the holidays have alot to do with it, not to mention how shitty the economy is.

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    it's new years. everyone went out for nye. they don't want to go out now.

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    I'm sorry to hear this, holiday. At least smoking is banned in 2009. I can't wait.

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    I know what you mean. People were reflecting on this last night.. it's just after the holidays, just after NYE and just after the first of the month (when rent is usually due). People are brooooke. Hopefully it will pick up towards the middle of the month.

    Stay strong!

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    I feel ya. All night I was hearing "Blahblahblah You're so beautiful. Blahblahblah. I don't wanna waste your time. I'm not/can't buy a dance because I have no more money/girlfriend won't let me/whatev." I somehow managed to put on a happy face for every new guy but it didn't help. Lots of girls working & very few custies spending. I got sorta lucky with one guy, but it was still lame for a Friday night.

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    Keep your chin up. Feeling sorry for yourself and assuming its going to be bad are both money killers. There is always someone making money, no matter what time of year it is. You just have to polish your hustle and work a little harder for it. Don't be afraid to be aggressive. Sometimes that's what it takes to sell.

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    Ick, I hear ya. The club I'm at always seems to have about 3/4 of the girls making money, and 1/4 not. Tonight was my first turn in the "not" category, and it blew.

    But I did have 4 turns in a row in the 3/4 bunch, and I know I will again. It just feels so hit-or-miss right now, it makes me a little anxious, too. And it sounds like your club might have these two groups mixed up at the moment.

    It'll get better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sun child View Post
    At least smoking is banned in 2009. I can't wait.
    I can't wait either. I'm so tired of my dancing clothes reeking of stale cigs and my hair smelling like an ashtray.

    Holiday, I know that the new year sucks so far. Its hard to keep your chin up when you are trying your hardest and men are still acting like you've asked them to cut off their balls when you've just asked them for a dance.

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    I think its the same everywhere. Work is so hard at the moment I'm having to work every night to try to keep my savings on track. Everyones panicing a bit but it will get batter but hang on in there and keep smiling, x



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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyLove View Post
    Holiday, I know that the new year sucks so far. Its hard to keep your chin up when you are trying your hardest and men are still acting like you've asked them to cut off their balls when you've just asked them for a dance.
    Yes. Guys are usually at least nice about it to me. But last week they were acting like I just asked to borrow $1,000. One guy said, "it seems like all you girls care about sometimes is making money" I wanted to scream. I very nicely said, "well we are at work, you know." I guess all the nice guys are waiting until they have money again to go out.

    Keep your chin up. Feeling sorry for yourself and assuming its going to be bad are both money killers.
    True. I tried to not get down, but my desperation may have shown. I don't know. I really tried to stay on track. I'm a very upbeat person and don't mope around or anything, but every time I approached a guy I could just feel his cheapness. It was weird. I still sat and did all my usual hustle, but then I'd bring up dances and it was almost funny how text book cheap they all were. I was hustling a lot faster than I usually do. I usually give about 2, maybe 3 songs to a guy, and I was cutting that in half. I just had this sense that they were not going to buy right away and didn't want to waste more time. That could have been my downfall, but I really don't think so. They never ended up buying dances from other girls either.

    There is always someone making money, no matter what time of year it is.
    I think I was the girl making money , which makes it even worse.

    BUT I'm completely just venting. Really. I do not want my attitude to rub off on anyone, because it really will pass, I'm sure of it. When I look at my records, slumps for me always last less than a week, and they are pretty infrequent, so this is just ranting. Things will be better next week. If they aren't I will make myself post in this thread and say I officially suck. Just kidding. Kind of.
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    yep, sucks here too.

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    This is the only reason I'm glad my club has two days a week that they do $5 dances. Even cheap bastards can spend $20 on 4 dances. It's slow going but at least it's progress. I'm a little concerned about tonight (I'm PMSing which makes me anxious at the drop of a hat) but I'll read my inspirational "perfect night" story, put on my extensions and my cutest little babygirl outfit with thigh highs and I think I'll do good. There WILL be money and I WILL find it. It's like a treasure hunt!


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    Quote Originally Posted by SundayMorning View Post
    This is the only reason I'm glad my club has two days a week that they do $5 dances. Even cheap bastards can spend $20 on 4 dances.
    Holy crap, $5? It must take you all night to make $100 at that rate. There's no way I could dance for that little. It's like penny beer night only instead of beer you get lapdances. I can only imagine the kind of crowd that draws.

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    Like I said, yeah it takes dancing yer ass off! But the DJ is cool and only plays about 2 minute songs, and nobody can ever turn down strings of dances when they're that cheap. I made over $200 after tipouts and counted every dollar fuckin' well earned!


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    Word. It's like that here. I'm like, top dance earner one day with a whopping three dances. I wish these guys would just stay home when they dont have the cash to thouroughly live the strip club experience. It's a luxury, if you can't afford it, scram.

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    Aw, holiday, it's been pretty slow. I had, like, one good day last week, one decent one, and three crappy shifts. This really is a shitty time of year.

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    I was just about to post something like this. Last week was BAD. Actually it's been bad in general-empty or full of cheap young guys. Girls were not breaking even on Saturday! But it keeps me going-hitting them ALL up, no matter what, pairing up with girls to hit whole groups, tryIng new lines/hustles, whatever it takes. I've been really working on my hustle. Keeps me from sitting in the back. Sometimes!

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    It's like this here too. It's really been hit or miss. Even the weekends are slow. Sometimes I can hustle as hard as I can and make terrible money, and sometimes its decent, but it hasn't been great, busy, everybodies making monye for a while. And my regulars gone to Malibu . He was usually in twice a week and very pleasant too.
    There are also always tons of girls working because they're doing a bonus program that you get a bonus for working 4 shifts or 5 shifts a week, that of course I can't do because I was gone the beginning of Jan. At least before, it might be really dead on a wed. night, but there would be 4 or 5 girls all night, so you could still make money pretty easily. Now theres a bunch. Stupid holidays and NYE I think.


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    You girls are so nice! And I'm happy again I worked two days this week so far and I'm back to kicking ass! Yay! Go strippers!
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