ook..i had my baby, the light of my life, back in sept. i havent worked out as much as i should, so i still have this belly thing....its so not as bad as it used to be though. (i remember being like WHY IS MY UTERUS HANGING OFF THE FRONT OF MEEEEEEE AAUGH)
the times i've worked since (only a few weekends) i wouldn't wear 2 pieces, just a dress, and i never took it all the way off onstage, just pulled it down.
this one girl saw my belly in the dressing room and was like "oh you poor THING! THAT's why you don't take your dress off onstage!!" and i asked another girl, if you had this belly would you wear a 2 piece or a dress? and she was like "ummmm..." (this is also the same girl i scared half to death with my birth story while i pumped my breasts of 12 ounces of milk - she was like IM NEVER HAVING KIDS!) other girls said, oh it's not that bad, you can't see it w/the lights, etc...but it sounded like stripper-sabotage to me -- "yes that outfit looks GREAT on you....WEAR IT!!!"
but - i had a guy i was giving a VIP to request that i get naked, he said he liked my belly, started talking about how he had a son and his wife had the same thing, and it was sexy etc.... so i'm going back this weekend and thinking maybe i'll rock the 2 pieces, or at least when i wear a dress take it all the way off.
i dunno.... i have a good sense of humor about stuff like this. i play with it and stuff. but when i am workng and trying to be sexy it bugs me. its ok when i am standing straight up, just if i bend over it hangs off of me! argh, i'm going to put a pic up...would you take it all off ??
oh and heres a pic of me & my bubba because...![]()
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Also they can push the boobs up...a plus for me.




I think the dress idea is good, though I've been told that it doesn't look that great and shows custies that we aren't confident about how we look.
Wearing a dress means you dont like how you look? WTF?! I wear dresses a lot and have a great body...

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