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    I sat down to talk with these 2 British guys last night. One of them had starry eyes over me so I focused all my attention on him. Did all the normal getting to know you chit chat. He kept saying how cute & young I looked & how much he liked me. Bought me a drink & said he wanted to go to vip but had to go to the bathroom first. No prob. He came back & said he wanted a dance & then we'd do a half hour.

    I gave him the BEST DANCE EVER. (Nothing dirty, just used all my best moves so he'd be begging for more.) Immediately after he tries to get me to go back to his room for $2Gs. No thanks, I'll get fired. "No one will know!" As nice as I could, I explained that thousands of girls & hundreds of staff work there & if anyone saw me at a hotel with him I'd be fired, but we could have tons of fun in vip, like he wanted to do earlier.

    Then he says "I don't think we have the connection to go to the vip room," (but apparently we had enough of a connection to go fuck in his hotel for 2 grand). Up until this we had been getting along really well - laughing at each other's jokes, flirtatious, etc. A simple no or some other excuse & I would have been on my way to the next guy before he finished talking. But "We don't have a connection," when we obviously did until he asked for too much really bugged me.

    So I asked, "What did I do wrong? I thought we were getting along so well. And we were both having fun & I thought we'd have more fun in vip together," (something along those lines - I don't remember my exact words). We really were getting along great & I liked him as a person. He had been very pleasant & entertaining to talk to until the hotel suggestion.

    Then he says, "You don't seem sincere. The other girls that danced for me tonight seemed to really like me. You seem to be more interested in the money." I tried as hard as I could not to laugh ("the other girls really liked me!" All 5'4" of me) as I said, "Yeah, well, you still owe me some money."

    I'm all about the money for pushing a $200 half hour dance (that he said he wanted) instead of taking $2000 to go to his room? Um, ok. Douchebag.

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    When he says "we didn't have a connection", that simply means he feels dejected by the fact that you refused to have sex with him in the privacy of his hotel, so it's just a pathetic attempt of trying to make you jealous because "all the other girls seem to like him".

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    the money you wanted was money you wanted from him on YOUR terms, therefore you were 'all about the money'. it's not the amount, but your desire to make money without crossing your own personal boundaries.

    i just now realised that guys who say that will often (maybe overwhelmingly) offer more money than you are hustling for, but it's always for something past your limits (not even always sex or otc).

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    He was covering a bruised ego. It happens.

    What irks me is that their ego is based on offering women sex for money. That's sort of PL behavior to me.

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    Turns out he's a douchebag. Sucks to be him.

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    Being unable to lie, I would say, is an admirable weakness. Lying, but not doing it well, I guess would be just a lack of an unfortunate skill.
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    I doubt he had the $2000 to give you even for fucking. He probably had no intention of ever doing more than the one dance, he was a cheap bastard BSing and trying to get pussy. After he rejected you and made that comment about all of the other girls being more sincere (LMAO) you should have asked him why he wasn't still with them then. Did he even go spend money on and take into VIP the girls that he thought were more sincere/deserving afterwards? Probably not. Cheap loser. I am so sick of guys that think we're actually into them. WTF?? It's just a job losers!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    I doubt he had the $2000 to give you even for fucking. He probably had no intention of ever doing more than the one dance, he was a cheap bastard BSing and trying to get pussy. After he rejected you and made that comment about all of the other girls being more sincere (LMAO) you should have asked him why he wasn't still with them then. Did he even go spend money on and take into VIP the girls that he thought were more sincere/deserving afterwards? Probably not. Cheap loser. I am so sick of guys that think we're actually into them. WTF?? It's just a job losers!!


    here here! the more likely you are not to take a man up on his offer, the less concerned he seems about money and prices, and the higher his price quote goes, CUZ HE DOESN'T HAVE IT. I will never understand why guys think it's like a status thing to offer money for sex. I would be so ashamed if i had to pay someone to sleep with me.
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    Next time say, before i even consider going to your hotel, i wanna make sure there is enough connection in VIP. If he is gonna feed you that crock of shit then you should turn his words around and feed it right back to him
    You dont really have to go to the hotel afterward, but if he flaunt that amount and waste you time, i believe he deserves to be misled a little.




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    Don't worry about this guy, we've all gad ones like him. If you were just, "All about the money" you would have taken him up on his offer of the 2 grand. He's just trying to make you feel bad coz you bruised his ego. I'm sure the dance you gave him was fantastic, hes just an idiot, move on.



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    I had one like this tonight. Offered me $1000 to go home with him and wouldn't even get a dance (he did tip me around $30 total in the course of two stage sets). I did what pookie suggested above, and he started the argumentative game I'm sure we've all had.

    Finally, he was like, "I don't want to be mean when I say this, but you''re all about the money, aren't you, you don't like me at all."

    My answer: "I'm a stripper. *he facepalmed* While it is my privlege in this job to not bother talking to people who are asshats, (yes I said asshat at work) this is still my job and I still have an $1800 bill to pay at the mechanic's shop this week; I can't be expected to believe you'll spend $1000 on me if you won't even spend $20."

    His friends may have collectively spent less money on me than he did (and these guys spent more on me tonight than any other girl in the place), but at least they applauded, and it felt damn good to say it.

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    I like Pookie's suggestion! Wish I'd thought of that at the time. Oh well. He only wasted about 10 min of my time, dangling a vip in front of me, so it's not a huge loss (besides, I got 2 hours with a different guy later). I just thought it was hilarious that he thought the other girls really liked him. That's akin to believing that a car salesman wants to be your best friend forever.

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    guys who give strippers shit for being "all about the money" (yet, they only give this shit to the girls who aren't just about the money, cos we're the only ones bothered by it) are the same ones who call women sluts when we won't have sex with them.

    it feels like gaslighting. try to ignore it.

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    I just tell guys "I just met you. What kind of ho would I be if I just met you and then fucked you tonight? I'd be completely diseased by now! I think we can have a lot of fun together in a room tonight (smiling at him because I *really* like him). We'll talk about it. But no, really... we need to go." It's not going to sell every cheap douchebag out there... but I've still been able to get a few guys this way if they're so inclined to buy my entire load of steaming shit.
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    I do what others have suggested. If a guy pitches the come home with me line before he's gone into VIP and has expressed an interest I say somethign like, " Honey, I just met you! Let's get to know each other a little better and take it from there"
    Most guys have the fantasy in their heads of taking home a stripper. SOme have the balls to ask, most don't. The last thing I want to do is crush his fantasy before I've gotten all the money possible off him. I never, ever outright lie about it tho. ( as in, yes, I'll go to to the hotel, after VIP)

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    You could also be like look, 'you spent what, $40 dollars on me? How the hell am I supposed to believe that you are going to give me 2 grand for me to show up at your hotel? I just met you, why don't you do a VIP so I can actually talk to you one on one about whats going to happen, and get to know you better. I'm not going to walk out of here and risk my job and not even get some money upfront.' Do your regular VIP thing, and then after hes ready to get out of there, make up a bullshit excuse, like he did with you. It wasn't that there was no connection, he just wanted some pussy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MysteriousMystery View Post
    I would be so ashamed if i had to pay someone to sleep with me.
    this statement seems like a good comeback for being solicited for sex. "really? you have to pay someone in order to get her to sleep with you?! you must really have a tough time...if i were you, i'd be ashamed to admit that i have to pay someone to sleep with me."
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    Quote Originally Posted by mina loy View Post
    this statement seems like a good comeback for being solicited for sex. "really? you have to pay someone in order to get her to sleep with you?! you must really have a tough time...if i were you, i'd be ashamed to admit that i have to pay someone to sleep with me."
    That's what I would say if I wanted to burn all bridges - IE if I knew he wasn't going to spend a damn dime on me and I didn't care if I ever saw him again. Although I'm sure it might embarass a few guys into the dance room.

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