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    Am i wierd? i can't stand having regulars!!! i'm cool seeing people a few times here and there but the "boyfriend" regulars REALLY bother me! you know.. the ones who keep giving you their number wanting you to call them when you are working, or trying to get you to go out with them..the ones who come in every two days hoping to see you and spend the whole night next time they do see you whining about how they came in and you weren't there and how you never call them and what a great time you could have had if you went out with them and how stuck up you are for not calling them! I know its good money to have them (sometimes)but it's really become a pet peeve of mine and makes me really uncomfortable! It's honestly to the point of where i am looking at different clubs just to avoid the whole thing, and i almost feel scared to work anymore if that's how it's gonna be..
    It's the same pattern every time and i am tired of being bitched out and called "stuck up" or whatever whenever they come in because i don't feel comfortable calling them or seeing them every day.. especially when they don't want to spend money on me anymore! Why should i call them?? Tehn they want to know "when are you in?? when are you in??" well i don't want them to know when i'm in cuz they make me feel like shit and impede my business!! It seems EVERY guy that wants to see me regularly turns out like this.. so much to where if i see someone becoming interested in me or if they ask when i'm working again, i just avoid them altogether. it just really sucks..it must be something i'm doing wrong to make them wierd..or are they just like that? WTF freaks...

    thanks for listening to me rant.....
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    WORD!!!! I totally agree. I tend to enjoy company and if I don't, I will politely excuse myself to take care of other customers. If they are the regulars that only buy 2 or 3 dances or worse, none then I tell them with a smile that they can't really expect me to sit with them all night because I pay to work here, I need to make sure I'm not ignoring other customers, blah blah blah. But Baby, if ANY custy told me I was stuck up, I would let him know how much I appreciate the compliment and walk away. If they don't back off after these tactics, just tell them flat out that you are an exotic dancer, not their private dancer (lol) and you need to discontinue the relationship because it is becoming unprofessional. One of three things will happen: They will appreciate your honesty and info because they honestly may not know, They will get pissed and not come back (Good, who needs him anywho), Or, they will back off and let you do your job while keeping it professional and not being offended.

    Good luck!

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    Part of this job is dealing with all these mind games and manipulation. If you can be a good actress and put up with their shit for awhile, you will make yourself some money. But you have to decide for yourself when it's not worth it anymore so you let them go.

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    And if all that doesn't work just try picking your nose in the VIP with them.

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    or farting..hahaha!
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    The thing I love about all my regulars is that I literally live off of them. I don't hustle hard at my club at ALL. I wait for my regs to come in, and that's my money for the day...and I make good money off of them too. The ones who seem like the annoying type of regular who is always trying to meet OTC, I kind of avoid. Once you can build a nice number of regulars, it's actually nice.

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    building the good regulars, something to work on.. another question.. when you do get the "good" regs who don't mind just seeing you in the club, but when they come in they expect you to spend hours and hours talking to them, but try to spend as little as possible, and get huffy when you try to talk to other customers, is it worth keeping them as regs? or they are the bad kind too? Maybe i have never met the "good" kind!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MysteriousMystery View Post
    building the good regulars, something to work on.. another question.. when you do get the "good" regs who don't mind just seeing you in the club, but when they come in they expect you to spend hours and hours talking to them, but try to spend as little as possible, and get huffy when you try to talk to other customers, is it worth keeping them as regs?
    Probably not. To me, it depends largely on how busy the club is. If there's a good chance you could be making better money somewhere else, you should bail.

    Figure out an attainable average ammount you want to make per hour. If you can make that sitting with your dude, it might be worth it. If you can't, it's not.

    Explain sweetly that you have to make $xxx because bills are due or your cat has to go to the vet or whatever. Only losers get huffy about this. So if he gets huffy, leave his loser ass alone.

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