After about 1 year of being a regular regular (and being gone from this board for awhile while doing it), including talking/meeting/dancing with tons of girls at 2 clubs, and becoming very good friends (outside) with one former fave, here is what I think I've learned. Feel free to disagree/discuss.
1) Some girls will tell you the absolute truth about who they are and their life (surprisingly, more than I would think). These are usually the new girls. Some girls will completely make stuff up. Some girls will just giggle and defer and try not to talk about "outside" stuff at all ("let's just have fun"). The common thread among all girls, though, is that every single one of them will tell you what they think will make them the most money, whether it's the truth (sometimes it is) or something else.
2) Brand-new girls and those who have turned into dirty old whores who can't make money any other way give the dirtiest dances. Those in the middle give by-the-book a-b-c-d dances.
3) A lot of girls are on drugs. A lot of girls hate the girls who are on drugs. This is a big division in all the clubs I have seen, and as true as the "stripper on drugs" stereotype is for some, there are just as many girls who HATE having drugs in their club.
4) The dancers are WAAAAYYYYY more worried about who the director is, what kind of power he has, what he thinks about them, than I would have ever thought. For the customer, WHO CARES? He plays a much bigger role in your job than I thought.
5) (related) -- to the casual customer, you walk in, the hot strippers look IN CHARGE. Some of them are. Most of them, they feel subservient to the director, their boyfriend, even the customer.....they really don't feel in charge at all.
6) Privates vary more club-to-club than they do WITHIN a club.
7) A surprising number of girls will eagerly go for the dick in a private.
(reading deeper now) -- some of the girls love men. some love sex. some love being sexual in the club. some hate it, just do what they have to do. some hate men. some used to love men but hate them now and turn lesbian. some never liked men. very very few, no matter their orientation, get "turned on" by a guy in a club. It would have to be aligning of the stars of a hot guy and a girl open to being turned on. A far HIGHER percentage get "turned on" by their female dancer companions....what % of this is for show, I still haven't nailed down. In short, all the questions like "do you like sex, like men, like being naked, hate being naked," have as many answers as there are dancers. There is no stereotype on these questions whatsoever that fits.



(reading deeper now) -- some of the girls love men. some love sex. some love being sexual in the club. some hate it, just do what they have to do. some hate men. some used to love men but hate them now and turn lesbian. some never liked men. very very few, no matter their orientation, get "turned on" by a guy in a club. It would have to be aligning of the stars of a hot guy and a girl open to being turned on. A far HIGHER percentage get "turned on" by their female dancer companions....what % of this is for show, I still haven't nailed down. In short, all the questions like "do you like sex, like men, like being naked, hate being naked," have as many answers as there are dancers. There is no stereotype on these questions whatsoever that fits.
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