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    Default Toxic People...and getting the last laugh!

    As some of you know, I too have had the on going ups and downs with my sister(half) and mother(so-called). Many of you advised that I cut these two toxic people out of my life and with plenty of good reasons.

    Well they found out I was pregnant, and just expected that I would once again forgive and forget and let them be apart of our childs life. Well reality hit them hard in the face when I read them the Riot Act and told them both to piss off. I made my reasonings quiet clear as to why. As their attitude and behaviours I no longer wished to be subjected to. I won't re-tell all of the on-going turmoil, as it would make even Dr. Phil's head spin!

    But I feel great about it and take somewhat of an evil joy at being able to revoke this priviledge from them. They burned their bridge with me last December when my Pa took a heart attack. I never posted about what happend, but let me tell you that's popcorn worthy lemme tell ya! Their behavior was appalling.

    My Pa is fine, and he knows what they did while he was at deaths door and is close to cuuting them out of his life too. He and Grandma are very supportive of my decision to cut them out.

    Am I being too evil in relishing in the joy of their new founded pain? I know it kills them to be shut out, and I don't give a shit. They shut me out a long time ago over stupid shit. I have mourned the death of the relationship a long time ago. Its like a bad break up...I got over it. They can't hurt me anymore, and I am glad to have inflicted the last emotional wound. I got the last laugh. How evil am I eh!? I feel so free right now.....and so empowered.

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    Bravo!

    I was just telling someone that when I finally did what you did, very quickly new & better people came right into my life to replace the ones I had gotten rid of. Here I had given too many last chances for fear of an empty life, when suddenly, I got double back out of Life for standing up for myself.

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    Don't feel guilty. These people sound terrible and they need to learn that no one wants to put up with their behavior. Good for you for being strong!

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    Good for you MM! It's refreshing to your own spirit when you let go of the bad and joy fills its place!
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    Default Re: Toxic People...and getting the last laugh!

    There's a difference between being happy that you are empowered and living a life without negative people, and being happy BECAUSE someone else is in pain. To me, you sound more like #2. *shrug* Seems like it's just more baggage to carry around than it's worth--I mean, it's like you're allowing them to still have a hold on you. My personal preference is to REALLY let them go. When what happens to them no longer matters at all to you, then they are really gone and your life is your own. Just my opinion.


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    I am both 1 and 2 right now. They have hurt me for years, and it just feels good to dish some hurt back to them. Its like exacting revenge on someone I guess. Its an in-your-face feeling. But I am more happy that I have them out and gone....I am just happy!

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    After years of her crap, I've decided to cut my twin sister out of my life. Now she's crying about how I won't talk with her anymore (as a way of getting attention), but, until she resolves her issues and learns to love and accept herself for who she is, I will not be a part of her life. I don't need the abusive B.S.

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