As some of you know, I too have had the on going ups and downs with my sister(half) and mother(so-called). Many of you advised that I cut these two toxic people out of my life and with plenty of good reasons.
Well they found out I was pregnant, and just expected that I would once again forgive and forget and let them be apart of our childs life. Well reality hit them hard in the face when I read them the Riot Act and told them both to piss off. I made my reasonings quiet clear as to why. As their attitude and behaviours I no longer wished to be subjected to. I won't re-tell all of the on-going turmoil, as it would make even Dr. Phil's head spin!
But I feel great about it and take somewhat of an evil joy at being able to revoke this priviledge from them. They burned their bridge with me last December when my Pa took a heart attack. I never posted about what happend, but let me tell you that's popcorn worthy lemme tell ya! Their behavior was appalling.
My Pa is fine, and he knows what they did while he was at deaths door and is close to cuuting them out of his life too. He and Grandma are very supportive of my decision to cut them out.
Am I being too evil in relishing in the joy of their new founded pain? I know it kills them to be shut out, and I don't give a shit. They shut me out a long time ago over stupid shit. I have mourned the death of the relationship a long time ago. Its like a bad break up...I got over it. They can't hurt me anymore, and I am glad to have inflicted the last emotional wound. I got the last laugh. How evil am I eh!? I feel so free right now.....and so empowered.



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Bravo!

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