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    Finally got the guts to post on here about this...

    I get really fired up during dances. Almost to the point of cumming, and do sometimes. How do u girls control this? Having a bf to come home to fuck isn't helping. Neither does masterbation before work. I've tried to go to the back and collect my thoughts, my brain.

    I don't want these custys to see me like this I"m supposed to be cool and collected, not showing signs of vulnerability. It's embarassing. I feel dirty almost. Like an extras girl, even though I don't do extras. SO confused!!

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    first!

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    i solve this problem by carrying a large cucumber with me into the lapdance room. that way i can masturbate to my hearts content, and like, it's not extras cos it's a vegetable and food products don't count as extras cos it's not like the guy is touching me... right?

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    Make sure to practice safe sex on the cucumber !!!

    Wrap it in cling wrap!



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    Why do y'all just assume she's a troll?


    How long has this been a problem for you, pura?

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    ^ um ,because thats a hell of a first post. if she SERIOUSLY had that question, its kinda too late now. no intro thread, nothing else.. just "hey i get turned on from doing dances"

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    Well I would feel bad for Pura if it was a genuine problem, but it's a very funny first post, and also happens to be the wet dream of so many custies. 'She really does like me!', lol.

    We get so many guys pretending to be dancers, anyway, so it's automatically fishy...
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    Well I thought before dancing for a job, that it would be sucha turn on for me. I thought id definitely get kicks out of it. I now find it as erotic as doing the laundry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeska View Post
    stuff
    On your avatar, that kid is doing the sign language sign for "love," not throwing horns. Throwing horns has the thumb over the two middle fingers.

    Like this:



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    you must really be doing some heavy duty grinding on guys to be able to cum... thats gross.

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    Default Re: Too turned on during dances...

    Ayyyy...

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    KamrynAnne,

    1.) Not every female needs heavy stimulation to come. We had a thread in LO not long ago from someone that orgasmed from non-genital massage. I've talked to women who can orgasm just by the sound of their lover's command. Remember, female bodies, unique, so on and so forth?

    2.) Hmm, grinding during a dance is "gross"? *shrug*

    I never posted in "Coming Out" when I started here, just leaped into the fray, so I'm more inclined to give benefit of the doubt to intro posts like this one. But I also don't really see it as a problem. Picture baseball? Air dance or change positions for a little until you calm down? But it doesn't make you a bad person, in fact probably makes you sell really well! (See: vajayjay juice for more.)


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    Another genius, I see. Go wank off elsewhere, thanks.

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    below.
    Last edited by miabella; 01-16-2008 at 11:44 AM. Reason: caught in x-post crossfire

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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    you must really be doing some heavy duty grinding on guys to be able to cum... thats gross.

    ^^^ not true. sometimes the mere act of doing the dance can be enough, the idea of pleasing someone without even having to touch them.

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    Hey now. Copping to getting turned on during dances shouldn't automatically equate to troll. I know it's happened to me. Not often, but it has happened.

    So, for the purposes of dicussion, I'm going to assume Pura is for real. That said, what exactly is the problem, Pura?

    I don't know where you picked up the idea that dancers are supposed to come off "cool and collected" to customers all the time. Most customers prefer a horny dancer to a frigid one, which is why those of us who aren't turned on at work all the time have learned to fake it. Sounds like you've got a little less acting to do than most.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo View Post
    Hey now. Copping to getting turned on during dances shouldn't automatically equate to troll. I know it's happened to me. Not often, but it has happened.
    correct. but as a first post, yes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    correct. but as a first post, yes.
    Well, maybe. Probably, even. But it's always possible that she lurked for a while and then blurted this out because it's been on her mind for a while and she really wanted answers.

    That scenario may be the least likely of any, but I still hate to think of someone coming here for answers and getting called names because most people can't or won't identify with their problem.

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    Default Re: Too turned on during dances...

    this particular topic could be a sticky in stripping general (feel free to go wild with any bad puns you can think of, heh).

    but bad pun opportunities aside, it's a recurrent topic of discussion where the same misconceptions and assumptions keep getting pulled up and rehashed (kinda like the 'am i too fat/thin/small boobed to strip' threads that mostly ended up as a sticky topic).

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    Quote Originally Posted by pura candela View Post
    Finally got the guts to post on here about this...

    I get really fired up during dances. Almost to the point of cumming, and do sometimes. How do u girls control this? Having a bf to come home to fuck isn't helping. Neither does masterbation before work. I've tried to go to the back and collect my thoughts, my brain.

    I don't want these custys to see me like this I"m supposed to be cool and collected, not showing signs of vulnerability. It's embarassing. I feel dirty almost. Like an extras girl, even though I don't do extras. SO confused!!
    I have heard ladies running into the dressing room fanning themselves after giving a hot ld to a hot customer. It's not unheard of....but a heck of an intro.

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    OMG I AM A REAL DANCER!!

    The reason this is a first post is because I'm too embarassed to go on here as my real name. This is very embarassing for me, even more so because I know a lot of girls don't go thru what I go thru and probably think I'm gross. I'm not a dude, I'm real. I've been surfing this site for over a year.

    I'm on SW b/c I don't wanna ask the girls at my club. I don't wanna give them any ammunition against me to start talking shit saying maybe I'm an extras girl. I also have a BF and I'm afraid they would try to make me look bad to him. My reputation means a lot to me. I protect my name, b/c as strippers we already get labeled as tons of shit.

    I KNOW there have to be girls out there like me. That's why I'm on this forum calling out. Please stop attacking me. If u guys still don't believe me, then please ignore this thread. If u have any positive input then please post. This is something I wanna control at work because it is embarassing to me and I feel like I lose control on how much money I make. I don't like feeling like I'm not in control of my own environment at work. Which is the same reason I hardly drink at work------ believe it or not

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    One time during dances with a guy I find really attractive and connected well with, I felt like I was going to cum and it was really a lot of fun for me.

    Usually, this is the furthest thing from the truth.

    Yeah it can happen. Some people are more sexual than others, so maybe it happens more with them. Meh.

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    Default Re: Too turned on during dances...

    OK. Could you be a little more explicit about what the problem is, please? What is "too turned on"? Too turned on to concentrate on hustling? Too turned on to keep from doing extras?

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    Quote Originally Posted by pura candela View Post
    Please stop attacking me. If u guys still don't believe me, then please ignore this thread. If u have any positive input then please post.
    Well I believe you. People really know how to make you feel welcome here.

    Maybe your problem has to do with the fact you are new to dancing? How long has this been going on?




    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    On your avatar, that kid is doing the sign language sign for "love," not throwing horns. Throwing horns has the thumb over the two middle fingers.

    Like this:
    How can you quote me on something I didn't type? stuff? wtf? LOL
    Last edited by Jeska; 01-16-2008 at 03:19 PM.

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