i never posted in this section... but was curious about this topic:
i am not an extras girl, i just wanted to know if you would go back to an extras girl on your next visit if she already let you do what you wanted.![]()
i never posted in this section... but was curious about this topic:
i am not an extras girl, i just wanted to know if you would go back to an extras girl on your next visit if she already let you do what you wanted.![]()





If you bought say, 15 dances to "get what you wanted" would you expect to get it only on the 15th dance the next time or would you expect her to give it up right away?
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth
^^ I would expect to pick up where we left off. But that's just me![]()
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





LOL..ok, let's just assume there's an stipulation that every girl who posts is a virginal maiden and put an end to the disclaimers down here. besides, you should be more worried about your peers upstairs.
is she hot? if so, the answer is duh.
Is it not a problem that the woman have a smaller brain than a man? The government scientist Dr. Yamuka has proved it is size of squirrel. - Borat
Alan Marciano: Oh, man...(to himself) Why did I get mixed up with that bitch?
Lt. Vincent Hanna: Cause she's got a great ass and you got your head all the way up it! - from the movie "Heat".
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth





Interesting follow-up question. Since it's affectionate, sensual, slow dances themselves I'm after, I wouldn't get to 2 much less 15 if I didn't enjoy the first one. Also, 15 dances for me would be $750, which is ~$300 more than I've ever spent in one visit.
So I'll adjust the question a little so it can apply to me.I do prefer an orgasm in my pants, so let's say it took 6-8 dances to achieve (which is $300-$400 and in my price range) as opposed to the normal 1-3. Let's also say that those 6-8 dances were just my style, I enjoyed them a lot, and the dancer simply managed to pause enough here and there to drag things out to 6-8 songs. On my next visit, I'd be hoping big time for the exact same thing! Now, if she started dragging it out longer, and we hit 10 - 12 songs or so ($500 - $600) that would get out of my price range and wouldn't work for me.
To use a more concrete example, we'll take my last ATF. After finally breaking down and getting VIPs from her (which I enjoyed immensely) on subsequent visits I was looking for the exact same thing at the exact same price. I didn't expect any discounts.
If I were the extras type, I think I would either do the 15 songs for "it," or more likely decide after a few songs "hey I'll pay ya for the rest, let's get to it." So I'd expect "it" to cost $300 each time.
good point. according to the law of demand and supply, someone has to be loosing out, i doubt there's a point of equillibrium.





it depends on my time constraints. normally, i prefer multiples before i whip it out, but occasionally i have to grab a girl and go straight for the quickie and bolt. either way, volume and/or a nice tip works. ultimately, the option to get it at any point in time is always there.
Is it not a problem that the woman have a smaller brain than a man? The government scientist Dr. Yamuka has proved it is size of squirrel. - Borat
Alan Marciano: Oh, man...(to himself) Why did I get mixed up with that bitch?
Lt. Vincent Hanna: Cause she's got a great ass and you got your head all the way up it! - from the movie "Heat".
Well, actually it would be at least a couple of days. I recover slowly.Originally Posted by Jenny
I was trying to say that after the first round all the ground rules have been established for future exchanges and we could get down to business right away during the next visit. Not suggesting that the POP index somehow was lowered.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
Well, my assumption is that she'd be concerned with the exchange of money, not time to cuddle afterward. Do you promise the tip verbally beforehand or would she just rely on your sense of generosity?
FBR - not impugning your spending habits. I'm just imagining my own concerns if I were in that situation. Like I don't have a particularly strong faith in the generosity of my customers - I would require an elapsed time (like 15 songs) or verbal, articulated agreement before "getting down to business" just to ensure I would get paid, you know?
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth





Is it not a problem that the woman have a smaller brain than a man? The government scientist Dr. Yamuka has proved it is size of squirrel. - Borat
Alan Marciano: Oh, man...(to himself) Why did I get mixed up with that bitch?
Lt. Vincent Hanna: Cause she's got a great ass and you got your head all the way up it! - from the movie "Heat".
With the, say, five to eight dancers in my SC career that I've really clicked with, we didn't start Round 2 where Round 1 left off, but we did have a quicker, easier time getting to that same place, or further, in successive events, and I've enjoyed the hell out of that. But if I don't click with the girl, it doesn't matter much what she does or offers. It's probably a nonstarter next time around.





I tend to stick with favorites regardless of what type of service they offer. If I enjoyed myself I will go back to the same lady.
I have found that, once you establish with a gal that you are going to buy those 15 dances she will, as a rule, be looking for you to buy that many on subsequent visits. This doesn't mean that you will have to wait for 14 songs to get whatever you got on the last visit. However, if she gives it up after one or two songs and you stop buying dances she will probably not be so quick to give up the goods on your next visit.
One thing that I learned a long time ago is that, regardless of what you are getting for your money, most dancers remember quite well how much you usually spend on them.


Yes
Okay this is where I would umm negotiate for whatever services I wanted, in what time frame I wanted, and for how much.
A purely hypothetical situation, say I had been getting dances from an extras girl, and each session things became more extra. As we went down this path I would learn her boundaries and she mine. We begin to have a little trust concerning the purchase and delivery of extras. Which means we end up talking about it. As long as both parties agree, doesn't matter if its the 3rd or the 50th song.
I have never been one to tie a girl down to a set time limit. I state what I want to happen, how much and then let her determine how much time she wants to take to accomplish the tasks. By the time we are at that point, she pretty much understands that if she fails to meet expectations, I am going somewhere else.





If a gal ever did pop me, I'd consider it an unexpected surprise, sort of like the other day when I put 50 cents in a vending machine, and not one, not two, but three sodas came out. I just couldn't expect that sort of thing to be an expectation.
As for dances, for some of us, its not so much about the destination as it is about getting there (wherever "there" might be), extras included or not. I suppose if I were only interested in the big finish, I'd want to get things accomplished as cheaply as possible.
Usually with dancers who have found my trigger, dance count usually peaks with the third visit. After that it slowly tapers off. I'm not sure if its because I've gotten too jaded, and I perceive the dances aren't as good as they were the first few vists, or because the dancers get complacent and the dances really aren't as good.
That being said, my "mistress" had a record single session with me last time we hooked up. 90 minutes, or about the time equivalent of 23 dances. Of course, I hadn't seen her for some four months prior to that. Absence makes the heart grow fonder I guess.
In any regard, if you're wondering if "extras" of any sort would pique my interest in doing repeat business, I do have to state that I'm curious about hitting that vending machine again. Knowing my luck, it'll probably ROM (rip off machine) me. Serves me right for not turning in the extra loot.
Former SCJ now in rehab.
I'm not an extras guy but the premise still applies. As a customer, if I get what I'm looking for from a particular girl, I'm more likely to seek her out again the next time.
Extras aside, if a girl is hot, fun and dirty, why wouldn't I give her return business?
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Unequivocally, yes, yes, I would definitely go back.
That's the voice of experience talkin', by the way.
Is it just me or does this question seem confuzzling to other men, too? I mean no disrespect to the original poster but my first thought was "Duh!"
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She's probably asking if the scenario of a guy dumping a girl as soon as she gives it up applies in a strip club atmosphere. To the, it's a rhetorical question. But to a pinkie? I'm not gonna claim I have any insight into what makes them tick.
lol, let me know what makes you tick




If dancer isn't providing the desired level of intimacy/dancing style/mileage within 1 or 2 songs,I'm not going to purchase 3rd song, much less 15 from her. (I'm not an "extras seeker", btw.). If dancer is truly "hot" I'll buy more dances from her this, and subsequent visits
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I would, and I would up my tips. It would have to be secure and safe. In reality secure is not possible around here, and safe would depend on exactly what and how it were done, which it won't be. In any case a gf is much better.
The full truth is that I do not want so much from her, just sometimes a little more than what is the norm for the club.
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