I have been dancing on and off for quite awhile now, but there is still one situation that I haven't quite figured out how to handle graciously...so I was hoping you girls could help.
We all know the scenario, dancer flops herself down at some guys table, guy is loathe to be rude, so he offers drink, girl misinterprets this to mean he is interested (or maybe doesn't care, just wants to drink). Although he hasn't spent any money on her, she ends up "camping" at his table for.e.ver. Thereby removing herself from the opportunity to make money, and taking him out of the running for a girl he may truly want to spend his time/money on.
So now say this girl gets up to go onstage/restroom. You are working the room, and the guy approaches you and requests a dance. He wants to know about "stripper ettiquette," as he's came to the realization that he will not be approached by any more dancers as long as this one girl is at his table. Yet he hasn't quite been able to figure out how to get rid of her without being rude/offending her.
You take him to the PD area and proceed to give him a few LDs. When you are done, he wants you to come back to his table with him...You do, because you know that by now the girl is somewhere else. But a few minutes later, here she comes, ready to take back what she perceives to have been "her" custie.
Given this situation, I will usually excuse myself, continue working the room, and wait until either he figures out how to make her see the light, or she finally "gets" it and finds herself another guy, at which point, I'll return to his table.. sometimes he proceeds to spend alot, sometimes only a little...either way the girl will most of the time (irrationally) believe that her money has been cut unfairly.
This happens ALOT. At our club,we have alot of girls who will sit, and sit, and sit. We also have alot of customers who will complain about it to us. When it does occur, I'll wait, and at the end of the night, in the DR, I will (attempt to) explain that he sought me out, and i did not intentionally "steal" him from her.
How do you all handle this situation?




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