So some girl I know is involved in this sex cult called ideagasms, well I checked out the site to show to a friend to explain just how crazy she was and then there's this written on the homepage ( i put things in bold to highlight them):
Stephane,
I’ve recently began talking to a girl who’s a stripper. She’s a great person, and we’re really into each other, but I’m wondering how to deal with her profession.
I can’t imagine ever getting serious with her because of this choice of career. I’ve explained this along with my reasoning that I feel like that’s not devotion, her dancing naked in front of a room full of guys.
I really like this girl, but I think I’ve explained my position well.
Should I even consider bending on this?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
The only hope that you have of influencing her into a non-stripper is through full acceptance, and by showing no jealousy whatsover. Any attempt to shove your “morals” down her throat may be viewed as weakness, and she may rebel like a teenager rebels on her parents.
Every guy she deals with is a “tool” in her world-view. By asking her to quit, you become just another tool, who is then seen as completely under her control. She will tell all her stripper friends how “He’s wrapped around my little finger” and talk about how jealous and annoying you are, even though she secretly likes this… in her limited views, jealousy = Love.
Strippers are in a very dark (ignorant) place, using their sexuality to control and gain status, money, energy. They see the world as win/lose, and they do not, can not know Love. But the manipulat-ive are equally the manipula-ted. There is no difference.
They see themselves as a “ho” in need of a true “pimp”. A wonderful game of duality and power struggles filled with dramatic highs and lows. But the ego secretly loves this, you see.
To see more go here: http://www.ideagasms.net/stripper-karma/
I doubt writing replies to him would do much good since he's a cult leader and is too far up his own ass to see it as meaningful. I just needed to vent.
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