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    what do you tell random people when they ask you where you work?

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    Anything you want to tell them. It would depend if you wanted people to know what you do ( some people can be very prejudiced) you could always say you are in sales.

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    There's a thread on this topic in the section Stripping (General)

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    I always had other things going on in my life (other jobs or I was taking classes), so I would just mention those other things.

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    Default Re: lying about your job

    but what about a huge gap in your CV from doing it. Is there apositive and fairly truthful spin on this?!!

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    Okay I already wrote my response to this question in the Stripping(General) thread, but I will add here what I would say to a RANDOM person:

    * Back when I was dancing, I probably woulda told a random person(i.e., someone in a store, a friend of an acquaintence, someone I just met, etc) something like waitressing or bartending...or I woulda beat around the bush. I probably would have told them the same lie I told my parents, which was that I was waitressing at a bar and another restaurant downtown.

    I hid dancing from most people except either my close friends or people who I wanted to show off to. For example, guys who had snubbed me before because I didn't make a "respectable income" at my min wage retail job despite having attended college and working jobs since middle school...I felt some satisfaction in showing off how much better I was doing financially, and dancing did that for me. Also, I liked telling guys who'd previously rejected me that I was a dancer, because if I was able to make a good income off dancing, then obviously a lot of guys "wanted" me or thought I was "hot"...this just served to further rub in the fact that I'd changed my appearance and went from slightly-geeky-girl-next-door to "really hot."

    * Now that I don't dance but I cocktail waitress, I will (when asked) mention that I am a cocktail waitress but I do not normally tell them that it is at a go-go bar. I only tell them if I get good vibes from them or if they know my club well. If they specifically ask, I will usually tell them, since the ONLY people that I really hide my go-go bar waitressing from is my family/relatives.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tallulah View Post
    but what about a huge gap in your CV from doing it. Is there apositive and fairly truthful spin on this?!!
    Hmmm I wouldn't mention dancing on a CV. I agree with Vivacious, about keeping other things going on in your life so that you don't have a big gaping hole in your resume if you omit dancing from it. Volunteer for the local political campaign, volunteer for the red cross, work part-time at Starbucks just for the health benefits and work reference, go back to school while stripping, etc.

    The only jobs that I would ever mention stripping to, *might* be some of the bartending or cocktail waitressing jobs, if you have no bartending experience but want to show that you've worked in a bar environment before. But even then, I wouldn't tell a mom-n-pop run bar that I was a stripper...nah. I would only reserve my stripping story for a bar that is a go-go bar, or a bar that is run by the type of pervy male manager that might like hearing about that. I remember I got a bartending job one time, in part because I impressed the pervy manager by wearing a cleavage-bearing halter top and admitting that I had a lot of bar experience from the time I'd spent dancing.

    But then again, sometimes this also works to your DISADVANTAGE. For example, I found that the same manager who was so quick to hire me, didn't seem to take me very seriously...probably because he saw me as a "former stripper bimbo." Another time when I went to a dive strip club to apply for a bartending job, the somewhat sleazy manager tried to con me into thinking that if I danced, I would be more likely to "someday" get a bartending job...um hello, didn't you hear me when I said that I was "done with dancing? And did you really think I'd believe that crap about dancing helping me become a bartender?...I bet you just want to see me get naked. And when I took on a cocktailing job at one upscale strip club, all the snobby waitresses turned their nose up when I admitted that I used to dance. Same thing happened AGAIN, where the manager started asking -- before I even started my training on my first day of work -- if I would be interested in dancing instead. I was thinking, "Hello, didn't you hear me before when I said that I was completely done with dancing PERMANENTLY and I MEAN that?" But of course I was too polite to actually tell her what I thought of dancing...after all, this was a club where some strippers would KILL to be able to dance at. So even in strip club settings, it can be a bad idea to admit that you were a dancer, because then people will ALWAYS see you as a dancer, no matter how good of a server you are or how much you're trying to put dancing behind you.

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    I tell them I'm a bartender downtown or I work at Victoria's Secret... Hell, I used to work there anyway. It just depends on who asks.



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    Default Re: lying about your job

    Anything online is fair game (web designer/ebay seller), waitress/barback/hostess/cocktail waitress/door girl, house/pet/baby sitter, makeup artist, etc. etc.

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