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    Default OMG my first day...

    rant time!

    well here's how the story goes...i'd never stripped before, so i was going to check out some smaller clubs to get started in. the first club i walked into yesterday hired me on the spot. great news, right? wrooooooonnng!

    so i do really awesome at the stage dances, i had a lot of fun, and the dj and managers said i looked really great. but then after i get on the floor, i came to the realization that this place was trashy. and BOY do i mean trashy. i only sold two lap dances, one at the beginning because i was the "new girl" and one at the end just because i was the last dancer to go up. i'm pretty sure the reason i did not sell any dances is because i would not let the guys touch me on my boobs and pussy...some grabbed my ass, but i quickly removed theirs hands.

    but i look around and i see that EVERY dancer is letting the customers grope them...even on stage...i'm sorry but that $1 bill is not worth it....

    after that first lap dance where the guy tried to suck my nipples and then told me i needed to "loosen up" when i wouldn't let him (and when i wouldn't let him finger me), i knew i was in the wrong place.

    oh and plus there were a lot of guys there that "don't buy dances." i'm pretty sure its because they got everything for free or for just spending a dollar.

    one guy got REALLY angry that i didn't want to leave with him...like really angry...and he was one of the ones that 'didn't buy dances..' another guy thought i was sooooooo hot and was throwing dollar bills at me, but when i asked him for a dance he said, "no because i would just want to fuck you." WTF?!

    on the upside, i did get a lot of compliments on my dancing and looks. i even had more than one person telling me i should be working in some of the upscale clubs. that made me feel pretty confident and i will be going to those places looking for a job pretty soon....

    i did stay the whole shift, and i did make a little money. but that place was disgusting and i'm never going back. and i really hope i didn't catch any diseases from the dressing room. so the moral of the story is- always check out the places BEFORE you go apply! lol...

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    Default Re: OMG my first day...

    Wow, Please tell me what club this was! I'm sorry your first experience was so awful. One good thing about this biz tho, if your current club is sleazy you can just go and get a new job somewhere else the next day. Better luck next time!

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    Sounds like the last club I worked at in Daytona, that place was hell on newbies.

    Fortunately not all clubs are that bad. Wherever you work you will need a thick skin, though, even the nicest clubs will have guys saying weird shit and trying to get you to meet them for dinner, sex, etc, outside the club.

    Sounds like you have the stage down pretty well, and you should be proud of that, it takes a lot of courage to go onstage and dance, anywhere.
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    Default Re: OMG my first day...

    Are you in Houston?

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    ok. this place sounds bad. BUT.. some places different degrees of touching are allowed and that does not make them trashy. you just have to find a place where you're comfortable with the contact level.

    but really, you could walk into what looks like the classiest place youve ever seen and there will be extras galore going on, or you could go into a hole in the wall dive that doesnt allow any of that. and again, contact does not = trashy. just remember that.

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    ^^What she said.

    And in many parts of Texas, you probably won't find any clubs where you can get away with absolutely NO contact. You will probably learn to deal with it eventually, and get into your own groove, but you might have to accept the fact that it WILL affect your money until you get your hustle down if you live in one of these areas.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    ok. this place sounds bad. BUT.. some places different degrees of touching are allowed and that does not make them trashy. you just have to find a place where you're comfortable with the contact level.

    but really, you could walk into what looks like the classiest place youve ever seen and there will be extras galore going on, or you could go into a hole in the wall dive that doesnt allow any of that. and again, contact does not = trashy. just remember that.

    point taken. i thought it was trashy because these extras weren't really "extra" but rather the norm and free, or what you had to do to earn that $1 or $2, lol. i was expecting a level of touching anywhere i went, but i sure thought there would be more money involved! maybe i am mistaken on that, but it seems that there will probably be better places to suit my needs. and oh yeah, and i think it was in a fairly bad part of town, too. but i do take the blame on not researching beforehand and just walking into a place without ever having been there. that was not a good choice to make...but oh well, live and learn. at least i have the experience now!



    but thanks to you and everyone else for the comments!

    423texas-i'm in dallas, btw

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    ^^Ohhhhh yeah...In Dallas, you're pretty much going to have to deal with guys constantly grabbing at you.

    A nicer place like the Lodge'll be your best bet, if you can get hired...But even there, you'll most likely encounter some touching.

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    you know, i'm ok with SOME touching, i'm more than ok with touching for extra money... i was just under the assumption, from reading threads on here, that you get more money for that sort of thing. for example. having your legs wrapped around a customer and humping him while you're on stage seems to be worth more than a couple of dollars to me. oh when that guy tried to lick my nipples, it seems that he should be offering me more than just the 20 for the dance? but then again, i am new, so maybe i just had too high of expectations...

    some girls came up to me while i was on stage and told me that that place wasn't very good and i should try somewhere like the lodge. i haven't been there yet but i will definitely check it out!

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    I'm with you there. You SHOULD get more money.

    Problem is, you'll never convince the custies of that fact. Seriously, go for the Lodge or the Gentleman's Club, hon. Best of luck to you!!

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    beeee careful of saying you want more money to do more, like the guy licking your nipple. that might get you a bad rep around here. if a guy licked my nipple, i'd demand more money because he did it. but i wouldnt say well, im ok with it, as long as he pays up.

    ok. here's the thing.. you will grow into your comfort level. when i came to my current club, after dancing for a year prior, i was not pleased with the fact that they can touch anywhere but boobs and pussy. i make less off dances here with more touching than i did at my club before that, EXCEPT, i make way more overall. and girls on stage will put their boobs in guys faces, some give itty bitty few second lap dances off the stage, when theyre nude. i dont like that, and i dont do it. i think if youre going to do that, how can you complain of more touching during dances? anyway, the point is even if some girls do it, you dont have to.

    bottom line - youre NEW. when i was new i didnt so much as take my thong off. you'll figure out what you're ok with, just get the stereotypes of "trashy" out of your head now of you'll never be happy.

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    That sounds like a club here in Jersey where I was afraid to even sit down in the club. The club you are at sounds like heaven compared to this place. There were condom wrappers on the floor and strippers in the bathroom talking about how the "johns" they had were weird. Im 25 and these girls were about 18 or 19....I was disgusted. Then I went to the floor and saw rubbing of crotches, what i presumed to be a handjob...I didnt want to keep watching. Find a new club where your comfort zone is what you establish it to be, not them. In jersey you can basically touch...but my breast and crotch area is off limits. I make that known...either they will like it or they wont.

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    Yikes, what club was that? Sorry you had a bad initial experience, but there's tons of clubs around DFW, keep lookin s'more and you'll find your niche.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    beeee careful of saying you want more money to do more, like the guy licking your nipple. that might get you a bad rep around here. if a guy licked my nipple, i'd demand more money because he did it. but i wouldnt say well, im ok with it, as long as he pays up.

    just to clarify- he didn't lick my nipple, he tried to. i wouldn't let him. i just meant he SHOULD be offering me money for attempting something like that, and not just trying to do it for free. i hope i explained that a little bit better....

    Yikes, what club was that? Sorry you had a bad initial experience, but there's tons of clubs around DFW, keep lookin s'more and you'll find your niche.
    it was at Lipstick Cabaret. hey, if it works for the other people there to make money like that, that's ok for them...but not for me, i can't handle that...so no offense if anyone working there reads this, lol..

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    You are going to have to work out of state to get away from the high mileage. Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but Texas is not a good place for a new dancer to get her platforms broken in.

    Sorry you had such a crappy experience.


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    Guys are going to try to get as much milage as they can for free. I'm surprised when a guy DOESN'T try and go after my nipple. The legs around guys thing on stage is no biggie to me either. While your doing it your setting up a sale by telling him you'll continue it once your off stage.

    A way I 'make them pay' for being grabby A-holes is by saying with a smirk "now your gonna have to tip me for tring that ::Big smile::" and I cover my nipples anytime they are facing him after that. At the end if they don't I tell them I was dead serious about that tip and I've always gotten one.

    Playing ninja stripper is part of the biz. No matter where you go you have to step into the place ready to do a defensive dance to keep your personal boundaries. I'd say thats why guys like a newbie so much, it's generally not the dance skills but the fact that they are too trusting.

    Try another place that may seem less 'trashy' to you but know that your hustle is what is going to get you money not guys being gentlemen. Good luck!

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    Not all clubs are high mileage. At the clubs I have worked at these scenarios have been in the minority, and typically the dancer would get yelled at for allowing it, and the door guy would come over and let the customer know that this was not allowed. I have however seen bouncers turn a blind eye to girls that will tip them extra, where they allow extras. I think it's good that you know what your comfort level is already. I too would ask for and expect more money if that happened. It is ridiculous that girls give this away for free. You are selling a sexual fantasy and SHOULD get more money for "extras" that we all know are not part of a dance. It really pisses me off when people are violated and feel "oh well it's just part of the business" Maybe you should try and see what the norm is at each club and see how you like it. I have never been to Texas, but from the responses it seems that this is common there.

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