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    Sad Sold a private dance, now what?!!

    Is a private dance strictly just a lapdance?

    Is time spent in the Champagne Room the same as when giving a lapdance/private dance but only longer?

    Is a lapdance a hover over the custie's lap or a grind on top of the lap/crotch area? Does this depend on the club rules of contact?

    Please help me I am really confused about these details.

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    Default Re: Sold a private dance, now what?!!

    I highly recommend you visit the club you are going to dance at and get a dance yourself because it varies greatly. A dance could be just an air dance in front of the guy or it could be grinding and two-way contact.

    Champagne room will include lapdancing/talking, depending on what the customer wants.

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    At my club a private dance/VIP/Champagne dance gets ya more. No touching on the floor but in the back you can touch (cept boobs and crotch) and some girls let boobie touching... it all depends on the club.

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    Default Re: Sold a private dance, now what?!!

    Exactly what constitutes a lapdance will vary from area to area - the degree of contact in particular.

    It'll also vary depending on the dancer - some will allow a higher level of contact than others.

    The degree of contact you allow will (unfortunately) probably affect your earnings. Many (but not all) customers tend to gravitate towards the higher contact customers.

    Many customers will not be entirely truthful about what the local levels of contact, etc, are. "Dancer X lets me do that, why don't you?" can be taken with a pinch of salt.

    And many customers will be trying to get the maximum value (from their POV) by pushing the limits of what you consider acceptable. Make sure you understand what your limits are and stick to them. Next morning is a bad time to realise "I wish I hadn't done that".

    Over time most dancers seem (from my experience) to develop (a) ways of keeping customers under control and (b) ways of keeping their interest by using a variety of moves.

    Selling repeat dances will depend on understanding the motives that bring us wallets (sorry - customers) into a strip venue. Try and see the venue through our eyes and you've taken a big step towards maximising your nightly profit.

    Phil.

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    Default Re: Sold a private dance, now what?!!

    Thank you very much everyone. It is all very helpful advice.

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