and then get pissed off when other girls UNKNOWINGLY give them dances!!! My god man, Im sorry, but I am new at my club, and feel like Ive taken wayyyy tooo much heat for this....if you sit down with a customer, and ask him if he would like a dance, and he accepts without informing you that his girlfriend is working with you, how is it ok for her to get pissed off that you gave him a dance???! I was never informed of this by the girl, or the customer....I found out because she said while on the phone, "you gave my boyfriend a lap dance" and i said Im sorry!! When??......she continued to talk on the phone in front of me and said, "she said that?!" When I tried to ask her about it, she just ignored me. Whatever, I know I need to not care, and develop some thicker skin FAST, but today was my 3rd day, and already some of the other girls started a rumor that I gave my number to some chick's scumbag boyfriend (I would never go for anyone in the club, and definitely not this dude)....he gave me a business card, which i later produced for one of the instigators of drama to prove that I didnt ask for his number....anyway, both incidences are retarded, and NOT worth investing a 2nd thought in, but when I turn it on I am very flirty and get alot of attention for it...good from guys and their wallets, bad from the girls...isnt that what we are supposed to be doing?? I never ask for phone numbers, pretend to meet them outside the club, promise any extra mileage, give anything besides a fairly clean lap dance, Im even honest about having a boyfriend and have a policy about not divulging details about my personal life to clients, which I share with custies when prodded for info...Im just my bubbly self, throw in a few lip-biting smiles, and tell them how fortunate I feel and excited I am to have such a young, good looking customer that Im attracted to and canhave fun with (if they are young)...sometimes I ask if theyre turned on, but this is really just a way for me to guage my movements since Im new...am I doing something wrong, or are these chicks just crazy??? I dont bother my manager with it, but I can tell that he foresaw all of this coming and discouraged me from paying attention to the catty bullshit...drama everywhere...Im sticking to 3 rules: be nice (myself) to everyone, never talk shit abut anyone, and never trust anyone. I cant help but feel a little attacked...Im not out to make friends, but these chicks arent really picking on any of the other new girls, but maybe this is because they havent really proven to be hustlers and I made a shitload on my first day...am i missing some etiquette here?? Breaking rules of the game??? Any input would be appreciated...sorry this is so jumbled, it just kinda came out![]()



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