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    Default This is more of a rant, but I dont understand why women bring their boyfriends in...

    and then get pissed off when other girls UNKNOWINGLY give them dances!!! My god man, Im sorry, but I am new at my club, and feel like Ive taken wayyyy tooo much heat for this....if you sit down with a customer, and ask him if he would like a dance, and he accepts without informing you that his girlfriend is working with you, how is it ok for her to get pissed off that you gave him a dance???! I was never informed of this by the girl, or the customer....I found out because she said while on the phone, "you gave my boyfriend a lap dance" and i said Im sorry!! When??......she continued to talk on the phone in front of me and said, "she said that?!" When I tried to ask her about it, she just ignored me. Whatever, I know I need to not care, and develop some thicker skin FAST, but today was my 3rd day, and already some of the other girls started a rumor that I gave my number to some chick's scumbag boyfriend (I would never go for anyone in the club, and definitely not this dude)....he gave me a business card, which i later produced for one of the instigators of drama to prove that I didnt ask for his number....anyway, both incidences are retarded, and NOT worth investing a 2nd thought in, but when I turn it on I am very flirty and get alot of attention for it...good from guys and their wallets, bad from the girls...isnt that what we are supposed to be doing?? I never ask for phone numbers, pretend to meet them outside the club, promise any extra mileage, give anything besides a fairly clean lap dance, Im even honest about having a boyfriend and have a policy about not divulging details about my personal life to clients, which I share with custies when prodded for info...Im just my bubbly self, throw in a few lip-biting smiles, and tell them how fortunate I feel and excited I am to have such a young, good looking customer that Im attracted to and canhave fun with (if they are young)...sometimes I ask if theyre turned on, but this is really just a way for me to guage my movements since Im new...am I doing something wrong, or are these chicks just crazy??? I dont bother my manager with it, but I can tell that he foresaw all of this coming and discouraged me from paying attention to the catty bullshit...drama everywhere...Im sticking to 3 rules: be nice (myself) to everyone, never talk shit abut anyone, and never trust anyone. I cant help but feel a little attacked...Im not out to make friends, but these chicks arent really picking on any of the other new girls, but maybe this is because they havent really proven to be hustlers and I made a shitload on my first day...am i missing some etiquette here?? Breaking rules of the game??? Any input would be appreciated...sorry this is so jumbled, it just kinda came out

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    Default Re: This is more of a rant, but I dont understand why women bring their boyfriends in

    By the way, management is sooo nice and helpful to me, the djs are great, the only people that dont like me are the girls..the bartender looks at me mean (woman) dancers that dont know me (the ones that stay in the neutral ground are great, they are very sweet to me and we click pretty well), so I dont think I am doing anything wrong, in fact the neutral girls kind of saw what was going on and just said its ok!! youre not doing anything!! Just keep being yourself and ignore them, etc...but why me??? Its like a pack of coyotes in there, and Im the rabbit. Lol. Im serious!! :p

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    Default Re: This is more of a rant, but I dont understand why women bring their boyfriends in

    I don't think you did anything wrong. You're new, you apparantly know how to hustle, and you look cute in your avatar, so I think thats the only thing your doing "wrong" in their eyes.

    I've noticed that often stripper politics aren't a whole hell of a lot different than being in highschool. Sometimes you're gonna get picked on for stupid shit, in your case making more money or somebodies boyfriend thinking youre cute. If a girl has an issue with her bf getting dances, but he comes into her club, thats something she needs to discuss with him and it has nothing to do with you. Just keep your chin up and ignore them and keeo making your money!


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    Default Re: This is more of a rant, but I dont understand why women bring their boyfriends in

    Thanks for your opinion! I just didnt know if i was doing something that violated the "stripper handbook"...it is such a strange society...Im just going to go in there and keep my mouth shut for the most part. You are soooo right about stripper politics and high school! At the end of the day, were all out to make money, and if Im a flirt (NOT with taken customers, but available ones), whats so wrong with that)? An experienced stripper told me that if you are doing your job well, your customer will think that you are really into them...so if I flirted with her boyfriend, oops, he is a willing customer...I always keep my opinions to myself, but here on the internet (oooOOOooohhh) Im just going to come out and say it: either make your man wear a sign around his neck or leave him at home. Either way, it's pathetic that he must be treated like a pet. Its that simple.

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    Default Re: This is more of a rant, but I dont understand why women bring their boyfriends in

    Haters just show you how amazing you are.

    One of my best moments ever was going up to the champagne room with a customer and this girl that hates me for no reason what so ever caught us while he was filling out the paperwork. Turns out he used to be her customer. Now she just hates me more.

    You'd think strippers would know how annoying it is when non stripper women come into the club with their men and get all jealous of the girls. If you can't take the heat, get your man outta the kitchen.


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