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    i am new to the charlotte, nc area and am currently seeking work. while job searching, i noticed a phenomenon that i never ever esaw in south carolina. i cant even get in the door of certain clubs because of rude door girls! this happened at 3 different places-twin peeks, leather and lace north and paper doll lounge. ill ask if theyre hiring and the girls instantly say "no" without even calling a manager. granted, these were all comparitively small clubs so maybe they really are at full capacity but it just seems unusual. since when t=do the door girls make hiring decisions? and is it necessary to be so rude? at paper doll lounge, the door girl told me to fill out an application and that she would hand if off to the manager. i asked her if i should wait around in the meantime seeing as how strip club managers arent exactly going to hire a girl that they havent seen or talked to based on her customer service resume. the door girl snapped "no" and flounced away. its highly frustrating and i dont feel ive been given a fair chance. now, maybe the door girls do have some idea of what "type" their club hires. if this had happened just once, at an upscale 5 star club, i wouldnt be so shocked. im not one of the so called "super strippers" that have a unioversally appealing look and loads of confidence. im a dancing novice, door next girl looking, not a knockout but definately cute. i find it hard to believe that im not good enough for any of these clubs. twin peeks and leather and lace were both kind of dive-y. i havent looked into the bigger clubs because im intimidated but damn, maybe theyd be more professionally run at least! anybody else encountered this problem?

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    I've never ran into problems with anyone at the door. I think the next best thing is to ask for the manager on shift and go from there instead of speaking to the door girl about the hiring process. Thats what I always do. Call ahead and ask, then show up and ask for the manager.

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    This is going to be a terrible question, but are you black? I've seen that happen often to AA girls applying. Its awful, but its not uncommon.

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    I dont know why any door girl would have turned you away from those clubs... their clientele aren't exactly what I'd call "picky".

    (My ex boyfriend was a bouncer that worked for MAL, which owns those clubs)

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    Sometimes they can tell by looking at you right away if you have the look for the club or not. If you go back, ask to speak with a manager instead. I would never ask door girls for any info if I was trying to work somewhere. People who try to pass the message may not get it through so head straight to the source and talk to them yourself. Good luck.

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    nope, not black. white, blue eyed brunette. slightly shorter than avreage. average weight, 34 b. not playboy centerfold material but decent looking. i dont know anything about how the MAL clubs treat african americans but i definately saw discrimination at platinum plus, columbia based on race. even with GORGEOUS black girls

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    and i second the thing about the clientele not being picky (based on my limited experience) i saw the inside of both twin peeks and paper doll lounge and while none of the girls were unattractive, they werent any better looking than the average girl...particularly at twin peeks where there seemed to be a lot of older, malboro red smoking "redneckish" types. i grant that the clubs may already be at full capacity; again, citing twin peeks as a particular exmaple, there were a lot of girls relative to customers but i dont see why a door girl relayed this info instead of a manager. im tempted to try a bigger club in hopes of a more professional staff but after being turned down at less competitive clubs im sort of discouraged. im not even looking for full time work. ima student and was only looking for a few shifts a week...i didnt think thatd be so hard to come by!

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    Friends with girls who already work there and possibly just trying to put off any competition.. from competing?

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    Default Re: rude door girls?

    I think this thread needs pics *runs off and hides


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    Quote Originally Posted by ALee View Post
    I think this thread needs pics *runs off and hides
    I'm surprised that not every thread here turns into this! haha...

    But about the door girls... Being a customer I've felt the same thing... Sometimes you walk into a club and the door girls are so cold that you completely lose the desire to enter...

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    Call the places again and ask to speak to a manager. When confronted with the door girls again, just tell them you have an appointment to see so-and-so and don't take no for an answer. Say you'll wait for the manager inside and then just walk right in.

    Another thing you could try would be to go to the club with a friend as a patron at night, and ask your waitress or bartender to find a manager for you then.
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    I work at the men's club in charlotte, our hostesses are the sweetest people you can find! Why don't you come and check it out, you can PM me if you need me to introduce you or something Also, for anyone who might be interested, starting Feb 21st, they are having some sort of "amateur night" on Thursdays, and the winner get a set of boobs!! Maybe participating in one of this events is a good way to get in, plus, you could be the winner and walk out with new boobies!!! (If you need them...)

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    both of u had horrid stories about nc area, remind me to never go there... just kiddin'.

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    North Carolina sucks!!! All of my friends from the city are moving up to to NYC with us lol.

    I seconds the Mens Club...also try Uptown Caberet. I used to live across the street from it in the Camden Grandview and the girls there were sweet. I was actually thinking about auditioning there after being a repeat custy and all of the girls were very encouraging and one even introduced me to the manager.

    In those clubs you mentioned, the girls are not really that hot and their customer base is down, since their clientele are the sort that are certainly feeling the pinch right now in the economy. They probably don't want anyone else in there, especially someone attractive.

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