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    I need to rant. And I'm posting it here because it's hustle-related.

    Tonight I had a customer who was on the fence about a room. I love these guys. They're easier than one might think. He was interested in taking me and another girl to a room. I had him thinking I was cutting him a great deal and that we have a discount if you take two girls etc etc etc.... (In reality I was just quoting him minimum) I had him totally going, doing my shpeel.... The girl interrupts me and says, "Oh, you're good! I'm glad you're here cause I really need to make money tonight!" I try desperately to save the now tanking sale.... try another angle... "Oh my gosh! You're seriously good! I'm going to use that next time!" Whaaaaaa??!!! She COULD HAVE played along which is what most new girls do... even if it's in the form of a naughty, sheepish smile.

    Yeah... thanks bitch. Save it for the dressing room. You just fucked our sale. As soon as he felt hustled, he recoiled. Sometimes I just wish girls would know when to stfu and let me close the guy. If I'm that good, then stfu and let me do my work and make us some money. Funny thing was, she didn't even realize that she had just fucked our money.

    Don't get me wrong... compliments are nice... but it's better to leave the shop talk in the dressing room or bathroom--not in front of the customers!
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    Default Re: Stop complimenting my hustle in front of the guys!

    aww dude. that sucks. silly girls! This is why I work solo.

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    Talking about needing or wanting money in front of customers is mostly always stupid.

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    Default Re: Stop complimenting my hustle in front of the guys!

    Did u address this with the girl so the next time she can stfu?

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    ^^^Didn't think it was worth it, and there are so many girls at my club that it's likely I'll never work with her again. Only about 5% of my hustle is with other girls, and then only with groups, and then only if I think it'll be easier to use group momentum than individual momentum to get them to a room.

    I'm at the point in my "career" where I'm too busy at work to hold someone's hand. If she's that clueless of a hustler, then I'll let her be because that means more money for me and I honestly don't want to feed my competition. The only time I help newbies is on here.

    Is it okay to kick a bitch under the table? Just kidding.
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    I know I have said it before, and I'll say it again.... THE VAGINA IS NOT A CLOWN CAR!


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    Default Re: Stop complimenting my hustle in front of the guys!

    She killed the fun vibe of it.

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    Wow.... I mean it takes practice to become a good hustler but that is just plain stupid.....

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    Holy shit - did she even SEE that her comments were dragging down the sale? She is either REALLY dumb or on drugs.
    I rarely get involved in a hustle with other dancers, and if I do they are good friends who know the deal and know not to step on my toes. But even with friends I am iffy. They have to be good saleswomen.
    I've had a couple friends that used to come up to guys that I was hustling and then try to hustle them for both of us but it was TOTALLY not the way I was doing it and it turned out weird and awkward. I'd be having a conversation about something fun and sexy and the girl would come up saying something stupid like, "Gaawd it's so BORING in here!" and then try to hustle my custy for a drink. I would tell these girls to let me work alone because I have too much fun hanging out with them at work and get distracted from making money. A minor white lie but it worked without hurting feelings.

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    This is EXACTLY why I prefer to work solo as well.



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    It could be that she was totally aware of what she was doing, but just did not give a fuck since "all customers are douchebags" and they are so stupid they'll never catch on. She prob felt all superior. One of those girls that "blacks out" while doing LD's, comes to work with the mentality that the customers are so meaningless they're not even there, in her mind, and it came out right then and there. What, did she expect a high five and a giggle from you?

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    Wow...
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Ok, I would be PISSED! It doesn't matter if she doesn't realize it, but anybody that fucks up my money is fucking with me personally. I don't do vips with newbie dancers because I know they will fuck up my hustle by doing stupid shit like this.

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    Ugh how dense can you be? Sorry she screwed your sale.

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    Dude, I would have been sooooo fucking livid. What a dumbass. Was she drunk? I don't know if I would bother saying anything either, if anything I would have been too pissed to say anything. That sucks!

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    Not drunk. Not vindictive. Just profoundly stupid.

    **sigh**
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    Strippers are like ninjas. You never know how many there are or if the person next to you is one.
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    ...I assume you probably don't want to deal with pervs, and the guys that just don't give a fuck about money are like unicorns...
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    I know I have said it before, and I'll say it again.... THE VAGINA IS NOT A CLOWN CAR!


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    Ughh How annoying. Just like last night I was sitting at a table and another girl started talking to me about my bf. Um, not the time or the place.

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    What is with these girls? Its not because they're new coz I know I never would have acted like that when I was new. Have some common sense!



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    how stupid, i would have been so mad

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    thats when you say, "Hey, I think the manager was looking for you. Why dont you go and see what he wants--we'll wait for you." Then take the customer and run for the CR.

    I did that once and the gal fell for it. Mean, I know but she was killing the mood.
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    ^^^Ouch.
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    ...I assume you probably don't want to deal with pervs, and the guys that just don't give a fuck about money are like unicorns...
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    I know I have said it before, and I'll say it again.... THE VAGINA IS NOT A CLOWN CAR!


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    thats when you say, "Hey, I think the manager was looking for you. Why dont you go and see what he wants--we'll wait for you." Then take the customer and run for the CR.

    I did that once and the gal fell for it. Mean, I know but she was killing the mood.
    Yeah, do that!!! I would've. She was fucking with your money which would've only led to disaster.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    I did that once and the gal fell for it. Mean, I know but she was killing the mood.
    Man, she must've been maaaaaad! Oh well, you gotta do what you gotta do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by paintgoddess View Post
    ^^^Didn't think it was worth it, and there are so many girls at my club that it's likely I'll never work with her again. Only about 5% of my hustle is with other girls, and then only with groups, and then only if I think it'll be easier to use group momentum than individual momentum to get them to a room.

    I'm at the point in my "career" where I'm too busy at work to hold someone's hand. If she's that clueless of a hustler, then I'll let her be because that means more money for me and I honestly don't want to feed my competition. The only time I help newbies is on here.

    Is it okay to kick a bitch under the table? Just kidding.
    It'd take all of 10 seconds to tell her she fucked up that sale. If she's that stupid simply telling her that isn't going to be feeding her shit because she won't be able to figure out what else she should do or should've done.

    I would have to tell her, if for nothing else but to make sure she knows she fucked up, I'm pissed off and that she should give me a wide berth from now on. Ya know? Stupid people like that find a way of coming back and fucking things up again...



    And I agree with Akasha's advice I've done shit like that too, or replaced her with a girl I knew wouldn't fuck up the sale

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