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    Ladies, Average Joe here who is 37, unmarried and has no buds to hang out with at the clubs because they are all married. I love going to clubs whenever I can muster the money, and the frustrations of bachelor life and the dateless weekends gets too high
    I can't help but feel weird when I go alone though. I feel like the ladies all think I am a weirdo or soemthing. I am far from a weirdo...I work, I have my own place, and I have many friends (male and female). I simply LOVE perfect female bods and I love seing them up clsoe. Do you ladies find the average guy alone at a club to be a weirdo? because I get the feeling that some ladies avoid the guy who is alone.

    Also, I went to this GREAT club in NC last summer while on business. There was this entertatiner there who was okay, but not 100% what I was looking for. She was polite and sat next to me at the table. I bought her a drink and we chatted, I got a couple of LD's from her. Then this one girl came out and I was blown away! She was my definition of perfection ( I love long and superlean). A goddess! The girl I was with never left my side the entire time I was there (over 2 hours) I didn't know how to tell her I wanted a LD from the goddess, and I felt rude just asking her in front of the girl I was sitting with. The girl stayed and I got a couple more dances from her, and then after a while, she said her shift was done and she got up and left. By then, the "goddess" was gone too. What should I have done in that situation? I still think about that goddess! LOL!

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    No, it's not weird at all to come in to a SC alone. Now if you forgot your wallet, yeah that is wierd.


    And you can always come back for the "Goddess".

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    Quote Originally Posted by walter1970 View Post
    Then this one girl came out and I was blown away! She was my definition of perfection ( I love long and superlean). A goddess!
    ^^^In a roundabout way, I think this is a healthy way to frame one's interest in dancers. They are icons, supernatural beings, not quite human. Your $10s and $20s thus become "offerings" to the gods.

    Enjoy SW, AJ.

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    I don't find guys who come in alone weird at all. In fact, I usually make a beeline for them as 9 times out of 10 they are in to spend as opposed to a group of 3 guys where maybe only 1 is in to spend but has dragged the other 2 in with him.
    As for the Goddess. TBH, I think the girl that was sitting with you was out of line, esp as she wasn't making that much money from you. I'd never spend this much time with one guy for the sake of 2 or 3 dances. She should have moved on and came back to you later.
    You should have just said, thanks for the dance, it was great, when I'm ready for another I'll give you a call. If shes a dancer with any sense she wouldn't be offended by this.



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    i prefer guys who come in alone.

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    Thanks for the advice ladies. You've made me feel much better about walking in alone

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    I also prefer guys who are alone rather than with a group. They're less likely to turn to their friends for "permission" or "approval" to get dances, go to VIP or spend time (and alot of $$) in the Champange Room. Plus, it's easier to just approach one person, rather than have to be "on" as entertainment for the group.

    Go back to for the goddess and give her lots and lots of money!! It sounds like you're the type of custy she would appreciate!

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    I will add that I also like guys that are alone too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by walter1970 View Post
    Do you ladies find the average guy alone at a club to be a weirdo? because I get the feeling that some ladies avoid the guy who is alone.
    Alone works for me. It has nothing to do with being weird. Most guys act like asses in SCs. I'd rather not be associated with that. Besides, there are other places to talk to one's buds. The SC is a place to focus on the dancers

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    Don't feel bad buddy, you're not quite as bad as me...the woman who comes into the SC alone. You're fine. As long as you're respectful and spending, they don't care if you come in alone. It's a business.
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    Don't feel weird for being alone. I also would much rather approach somebody who is by himself. And it's okay to excuse yourself to get a dance from another girl you like, the other girl should be professional about it because it's a job and you already bought her a drink and some dances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSUsb19 View Post
    Don't feel bad buddy, you're not quite as bad as me...the woman who comes into the SC alone. You're fine. As long as you're respectful and spending, they don't care if you come in alone. It's a business.
    I'm that woman too! But I don't feel too bad about it!

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    1. I totally prefer guys who come in alone. No offense, but most guys who come in groups get shy/embarrassed/whatever, and and turn into dicks when they would be decent otherwise.
    2. In the situation you described, I would have found out the name of your "goddess" (whether paying attention to how the DJ announced her or saying, "What was her name again?" to the girl you were with), and claiming that you actually had come in specifically for her. No, it's not true, but it spares the other girls feelings and she's more likely get up and fetch her for you if she thinks that you are her regular (and then you can claim that a friend referred you). If you cared enough to find a stripper site and ask about it, you're probably one of those rare customers who actually gives a poop.
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    I always go alone. I don't go to the SC to bond with my buddies. I go to enjoy the beautiful dancers, and I don't want anyone to distract me by starting to talk about the Super Bowl or his asshole boss at work.

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    ^ What makes you feel like the girls avoid the guy who is alone? If anything, the opposite is true. The dancers will tell you that it's a whole different hustle with a group of guys, and many guy groups -- young, drunk, obnoxious and broke -- are simply going to be one enormous, irritating, time-wasting asshattery no matter what you do.

    When I travel, if there is no SW girl I know in that city, I will certainly go alone to any club. No stigma at all. But you should throw off the right vibe -- be confident, unfailingly polite, tip generously and smile/laugh a lot (I don't mean sit in some dark corner and laugh like a hyena. I mean laugh in the company of the girls you enjoy.) You will be approached if you are spending money, are polite and look like you are having a good time. (NB: There have been increasing complaints from reliable people that dancers in many, many clubs will not approach you no matter what you do. They sit at the bar, smoke, bitch about the guys and ignore every single one of them. If you walk into one of these clubs, turn around and walk back out as fast as you can.)

    On a separate note, I don't go to my home club alone anymore at all. I always take at least one or two (beautiful) women along with me because it's so much more fun. They love the dancers and look forward to seeing them, and the dancers make a huge deal about how beautiful they are, so it's a nice little mutual admiration society. Several of them have become friends OTC. It also makes for a huge table since the girls will hang around with us between sets. It also gives me a partner for stage tipping.

    If you take a woman along, though, be sure she is enthusiastic about the idea or at least appreciative of the dancers. Anything short of that standard has the potential for trouble.

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