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    This may seem petty and small but it has me in tears. I just got back from gorcery store im 9 mnths pg and I have 4 kids one is just 2 and hes a handfull and my husbands in iraq. I am alone i get home from grocery store in cab and with a van full of groverys and all those kids i am tierd and exhaushted and have to carry all the shit in the house well all my neighbors are out side watching me struggle to this and noone offers a hand just to carry a few bags. You know i relize no one has to be nice to me and help but don't stand there and watch it just made me so furstrated and hurt and very alone.

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    I'm sorry to hear that. It seems so many people just lack common decency.

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    I hope you receive a random act of kindness soon to balance out the jerkiness.


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    Fuck em. I say don't even bother with those idiots.

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    Yep. So sorry to hear that.


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    *hugs*

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    Maybe it's because you haven't introduced yourself properly yet? Maybe they're waiting for you to come say hi (dumbtarded, as you obviously have your hands full.)

    Sorry hon.

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    If it's any consolation to you, If I see someone struggling and they are pregnant I stop what it is I am doing to help. I am so sorry people are in their own world honey. I wish people at times would take a look around and see what a difference they can make with just a simple gesture and or action.

    Big hug.

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    Hon, I totally sympathize. *hugs* I hope you get that random act of kindness soon.
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    It was totally rude and inappropriate to stare at a struggling person and not offer to help, I agree. Not every neighbor is a good neighbor.

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    I love sw thank you very much for your kind words its nice to have a place to vent. Thank you agine

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    Were I there, I would help you with your groceries. I promise. It's sad when people don't engage in simple neighborly courtesies.
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    That sucks-had I been there, I would've helped you. After being robbed and having my stuff stolen multiple times, I'm very cynical about the character of most people myself.






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    Im sorry. I dont know why people dont try to help others anymore.

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    People suck. Plain and simple. This is why I totally want to move to a house built in the middle of a 100 acre lot ...so I dont ever have to deal with neighbors.

    I remember when I was a kid...my mom was outside in the middle of winter. SHe slipped and crashed down on her ass on ice on the driveway. Our piece of shit neighbors accross the street were out...they watched her fall, heard her scream in pain...and turned around and walked back into their house. Didnt even come over to see if she was ok. Fuckers. She could have been seriously hurt and needed an ambulence! Thankfully she was just badly bruised..nothing broken.

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    my boyfriend said back in the day,if he didnt help a prego or elder,his mama woulda slapped him. ppl were somewhat decent back then. im sorry honey..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sand View Post
    Fuck em. I say don't even bother with those idiots.
    Seems like that is exactly what is going around these days.

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    And your 9 months pregnant? Thats terrible honey, I'm sorry you live next to such jerks. It always amazes me just how uncaring and heartless people can be. I could never just walk past a pregnant woman shifting something heavy and not offer to help, I can't believe anybody could. I'm sorry this happened hon, sendin you a hug,



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    A few years ago I was also unloading groceries. I cought my hair on a clothes hook think in the back seat, and I was literally hanging!!!! I couldn't untangle myself, and it hurt so bad. I was hysterical, and screaming bloody murder, calling HELP HELP over and over. My neighbor came outside, stared at me for a minute, and turned back around.

    it took me 20 minutes to untangle and RIP a lot of my hair out, and i was overheated, it was 98 degrees, but felt like 110. I almost fainted.

    I think that quashed me faith in human decency.

    I later paid 2 neighborhood kids to egg and tp his house.

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    Meh. I live in a city. The fact that neighbours don't help you with your groceries isn't shocking, surprising or terrible. Not helping when you slip fall and break something is a little different.
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    you don't sound petty at all. that is absolutely discusting behaviour. i always think how would they feel if it was them in that position or if they're male their wifes/girlfriends/sisters
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    WTF??? I am always opening doors and crap like that for moms with strollers and disabled people. I think parents just don't teach their kids manners anymore and we've grown up into a generation of non-volunteers.
    How old are your kids? I think this is the perfect time to teach them to pitch in and help mom and also in appropriate circumstances, to help others.

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    Wow, and I thought my neighbors sucked! They keep taking down the notes I put up that say things like, "check above my mail box in case your mail came to my address." Why anyone would take that down is beyond me. Or they let the door slam in my face when I am walking three dogs. Sheesh!
    Some people just don't have dececny, but as you can see on here, there are still people who care for others even if they aren't asked to.
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    they are probably still shocked that you have had so many kids and still look so damn hot!

    I second the hopes of a random act of kindness comes your way soon

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    and wishing for some human kindness is never petty.
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