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    so i was working thursday night and a customer wants a dance. we go to the ticket desk and for a private dance he needs to buy three tickets (84 euro). his credit card didn't work so he pulls out all the money he has and he only has 82. (if i had two euro i would have given it but i had no cash on me) after ages of the girl at the ticket desk telling him its not enough she ends up saying to me infront of him 'just do the dance and take the cash and if they say anything i'll take the blame'. so i thought for a second, and to be honest was a little bit tempted because i had made shit all money, but thought in the end i will be the one getting in trouble if i get caught and possibly sacked. so i say to him ' do you want to just ask your friends for two euro so then we can do the dance' and he starts moaning like a kid sayin ' but she said we could' and going on about her saying it was allowed like she was the f**king boss, and i was trying to explain that i wasn't comfortable doing that and i would rather he just got two euro off his friends and then all of a sudden he grabs me on the arm and puts his face right up to my ear and says to me ' listen here you bitch. now you are going to come downstairs with me and you are going to get f**king naked for me or i am going to beat you!' so straight away i throw the money back at him and tell the security who was near the ticket desk and the girl overheard and said to me 'but i told you it was ok to do the dance you should have done the dance'

    1. i didn't want to do the dance for cash because that is against the club rules and i would be risking my job.
    2. who the f**k is she saying that to me in the first place? she isn't a manager or anything
    3. does that mean that the customer was right threatening me? because that's what it sounds like by the way she spoke to me

    so i was shocked enough that i had been spoken to like that. i have been dancing for a long time and have NEVER had a customer speak to me like that. and what a bitch. so i ended up telling the manager on friday night and out of coincidence that night he told us there had been reports of girls taking cash and they would be looking at all the cameras (he said this before i told him).

    honestly this week has been THE WORST WEEK for me money wise as well. on Friday night i made myself 6 euro after taking out ten for a taxi home and the two nights before weren't much better. damn. hopefully that means i'll kick ass next week!
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    Ugh that's awful! No one should be allowed to speak to you like that. I can't believe the ticket desk girl, asking why you didn't just do the dance after he said that to you. Unbelievable.

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    uh.. yeah.. please tell me you had him thrown out for that. Unreal. Where do some men get the nerve???

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    I don't know what you're club set-up is like, but maybe you're better off NOT having gone to a private area with that guy. Who knows what he would have been like during a dance?

    I think you were right to go with your gut. Sorry that money is bad for you right now, but sometimes it REALLY isn't worth it.

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    ^^Yeah I think you dodged a bullet there. I totally understand not wanting to get in trouble for shorting the club. I think if I guy can't borrow 2 bucks (Euro, pounds, whatev) or go to the ATM they are likely to be jerks in other ways too.

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    There's no telling what he would have done in the private area once the dance was over with. You did the right thing.

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    Shit! Yeah that guy's ass would have been meeting the curb in no time if he'd tried that shit with me. I'm sorry you didn't get your money but I think you did the right thing and I also think you are safer having NOT danced for him.


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    Wow. What issues he must have. Sorry you had to experience that.

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    What a prick. You know, you are LUCKY he didnt have to 2 euro, otherwise something worse may have happened.

    Scumbag!

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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle View Post
    Ugh that's awful! No one should be allowed to speak to you like that. I can't believe the ticket desk girl, asking why you didn't just do the dance after he said that to you. Unbelievable.
    he didn't end up getting kicked out cuz i think the girl was telling the security how she 'told' me to dance... but i'm not sure because they were talking in french and i didn't understand. but when i told one of the managers on friday he was totally on my side and was saying stuf like 'who does she think she is saying that'. i didn't tell him who it was but he said with the whole looking for girls who take cash thing they have their eye one a couple of ticket girls too so he probably will have an idea. he was just a scrawny guy anyway and really drunk. so i would have kicked his ass! but he was wearing a wedding band so i totally feel for his wife. but thanks for your words girls. made me feel better. and i don't mind too much a bout the money this week. we're all getting it everywhere aren't we its just that time of year.
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    He probably beats his wife if he is threatening a stripper he just met in the club. He's insane. Probably would have been a nightmare dancing for him. Sorry he was such an ass.
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    Kudos to you for erring on the side of protecting your job and safety. His reaction was pretty freaky.

    On a related note, I had some guy get up and walk out of a VIP telling me "You're being an asshole" when I insisted that he go to the ATM and pay me first if he was going to continue his time with me. My mouth actually dropped open because I'm always so nice. But I'm not about to get fucked over. I told him "club rules" and everything. (Funny thing was, he came back with money )

    Insisting on proper and timely payment is never being a bitch. They just get pissed when they realize we absolutely require payment to deal with their douche-ness.
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    What an abusive piece of shit! And I hope that ticket girl loses her job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo View Post
    I don't know what you're club set-up is like, but maybe you're better off NOT having gone to a private area with that guy. Who knows what he would have been like during a dance?

    I think you were right to go with your gut. Sorry that money is bad for you right now, but sometimes it REALLY isn't worth it.
    This is absolutely what I was about to say. What a psychopath! I don't even want to imagine what that guy's private life is like. *shudders*
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    OMG what a major creep! You are very lucky not to have danced for him!
    And as for the ticket girl......i wouldve told her that a0 she is not my boss and b0 i am not dancing with a customer who has threatened me.
    I hope she loses her job cos shes clearly doesnt know what shes doing!
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    I think you handled this situation as best as you could. Sorry to hear to had to deal with such a controlling creep.

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    Holy hell; thank God you did what you did and told security. And thank goodness you didn't just take the cash. Good for you girlie. That is so scary; I'm sorry that happened to you.
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