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    There is something I don't understand.....I walked in a topless club to apply and hopefully try out. I had called earlier in the day and talked to the day manager, he said they were definately hiring and to come in that evening. Anyhow, as I walked in there were a group of not-so-great or friendly looking girls sitting around doing nothing. There were quite a few customers there and alot of them seemed to be checking me out big time as I walked to the bar to apply. The lady let me fill out the application just standing there and when I handed it back to her, she said, "sorry, we're not hiring." I know that wasn't true! I had way more t & a than any girl i saw there.

    Any thoughts on this one? Has anyone else experienced this?

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    Here's some advice that a friend told me: Never ask the bartender or dancer if an employer is hiring dancers/bartenders/etc. They might be prone to give you false information(i.e., "We're not hiring") simply because they don't like you(for some catty reason despite not actually KNOWING you) or because they don't want you to take their job. I was always told to ask for the manager directly, even when it came down to asking to fill out an application.

    I'd suggest going back to the club in a few days and firmly, assertively asking for the manager. Explain that you'd filled out an app a few days prior and want to know what day you'll be starting(by saying that, you're presuming that you're already hired, which shows CONFIDENCE).

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    Girls can be bitches. And if you start working in this club, don't expect that to change. But PhillyDancer's right. You need to talk to a manager about getting hired.

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    thanks! From now on, I will just ask for the manager instead. And i'm not exactly sure that I will go back into that club because no one in there seemed friendly or happy.

    thanks again for your input!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ohiogirl26 View Post
    Anyhow, as I walked in there were a group of not-so-great or friendly looking girls sitting around doing nothing. There were quite a few customers there and alot of them seemed to be checking me out big time as I walked to the bar to apply
    I don't know how things worked out for you, but if you are still job hunting, prepare yourself for this every club that you walk into. Pay it no mind. I know it's hard and uncomfortable but you can't let it get to you. I have seen some pretty hot girls come into my club to apply and get scared off cause they got stared down. Basically all they are doing is sizing you up to see if you are going to be competition for them.

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    Almost no one that works in the strip clubs I've worked in seemed very friendly or happy, haha. They are catty bitches who see competition as a pay cut. Point blank. If you are an attractive girl - every girl there will probably tell you they aren't hiring, but the manager won't! This is good advice. ^^^^ Keep trying, and just because other bitches aren't friendly or happy doesn't mean you can't be friendly and happy at work. The customers are looking at nakey bewbs - so you can bet you can find some friendly/happy in there and thats all that matters! The bitchy mopey girls aren't going to give you a dime, so to you they don't even exist. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!

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    HAHA! I loved all your comments and you guys are soooo right! No girls ever seem nice or even happy for that matter. UHHH, well I guess I'll just pick myself up, dust off and try again. On to the next place I go!

    Thanks for all you help and comments!

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    Thats what we're here for. Good luck and keep us updated! Weve been there too.

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