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    Default Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    A question for the kinky women of the list: Do any of you *like* electrical play (TENS units, P.E.S., Eros-Tek)?

    The reason I ask is because the experience my partner/Mistress and I have had is that most guys who try electrical play love it (because of the wonderful response their dicks have to it), but all the women we know are afraid of it (some of them because they had guys try it on them who didn't know when to stop).

    At the 2004 Fetishcon, I talked to the webmistress of Cybernet Entertainment about this. (It was probably Chanta back then, but it was before I knew who she was, so I don't remember.) She said something to the effect that most women didn't particularly like it at first, but they got used to it, or something like that.

    This makes me wonder if there are any women who really like electrical play. For guys, it actually feels good (as long as you don't turn it up too high) and, as I said, has very impressive results. Are there any women who enjoy the sensation? So far, we have only tried it on guys, because we have yet to run into a woman who was willing to try it.

    If anyone cares to comment, I'm all ears.

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    Lynn

    P.S. Just in case anyone is preparing to get their panties in a bunch, my question is not "What do strippers think of electrical play?" I just figured this would be a good place to ask since I come here from time to time, I like the people here, and I know from previous posts that there are several kinky women on the list.

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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    The Hubby and I have a violet wand kit with multiple attachments. It's kind of a special occasion toy. But nothing really produces the same sensation so yeah, I dig it in the right moods. I had a TENS unit on me when I went to see a Pro-Domme in Austin and that was really freaking intense. Again, in the right setting I'd love to try it again. I just have to be feeling much more masochistic than I have been recently.


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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    Quote Originally Posted by lgrant98001 View Post

    P.S. Just in case anyone is preparing to get their panties in a bunch, my question is not "What do strippers think of electrical play?"
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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    I'm not a fan.

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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    i would be interested in trying it. im willing to give just about anything a chance...aside from the whole 2 girl one cup fiasco.

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    Meh, we have way creepier threads on here (started by posting members) than this one, so I'll bite.

    No, I do not like electrical play. Most of the reason is because I haven't tried it, and the rest of the reason is that I don't like the idea and I generally do not like to feel pain during sex. Unless it's a bit of spanking or hair pulling...

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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    A girlfriend of mine that I've known since college just started getting into BDSM stuff over the last year and really likes electrical play.

    I'm the kind of chick who whimpers if she gets a spark from touching a doorknob after walking across a carpet, so methinks it wouldn't be my bag.
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    I don't like it. I don't hate it. It's completely non-sexual to me.

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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    hmmmm...i'm intrigued. Somebody tell me more.


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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    I would try it to see what the sensation feels like.

    ETA: What is the sensation like anyways? Iz curiouz cat.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy View Post
    I'm the kind of chick who whimpers if she gets a spark from touching a doorknob after walking across a carpet, so methinks it wouldn't be my bag.
    Me too. Plus it frightens me. If anyone has ever read "Topping From Below", you will understand why.

    And this user has always been kind and respectful on the website, I don't think this thread is out of line. Its certainly an interesting fetish. But I electrocuted myself twice when I was a kid, so I'm really afraid of that happening again.

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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    it's definitely an unusual sensation, and takes some getting used to. With some ramp up, I enjoy it, but not to start out. Then it's just aggravating and breaks the mood for me. Not my favorite, but not my least favorite, either.
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    I've been a big fan of TENS and violet wands for ages. I feel like its my birthday if a client requests electrical play for a session. I hope that someone is selling a violet wand kit at a reasonable price at FetishCon this year.
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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Me too. Plus it frightens me. If anyone has ever read "Topping From Below", you will understand why.
    Yes, if your only experience with electrical play is reading "Topping from Below", it's not surprising that it scares you. That book is just wrong, in a lot of ways. Probably scared lots of people away from BDSM in general.

    BTW...that's not how electrical play is done by sane people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lgrant98001 View Post
    Yes, if your only experience with electrical play is reading "Topping from Below", it's not surprising that it scares you. That book is just wrong, in a lot of ways. Probably scared lots of people away from BDSM in general.
    Its also from really electricuting myself! That does NOT feel good at all!

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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    ^^how IS it done???


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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Its also from really electricuting myself! That does NOT feel good at all!
    No, I agree!...I did that when I was in Jr. High School, and was trying to start an outdoor grill with a hair drier that had a metal case and a short from the hot wire to the case, and I was barefoot on wet grass.

    No fun at all!!!

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    LSM:

    A violet wand is a wand that is usually plastic. It has a dial on the bottom and from there it plugs into a wall outlet. The dial lets you control the amount of electricity that runs through the wand - from a tickle (Think static electricity) to intense (more electricity, more stimulation.)

    A tens unit is the same idea, but it uses electrode pads. For me, I find it more intense than a VW.

    So, as you've guessed, my response is, yes, I like. But only under my Master - it's not a toy I would "try out" under someone's hand at a con, or during group scenes or whatnot. I have to have enough trust to let go and enjoy the sensation, since it's definitely able to hurt you.

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    ^thanks.


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    Default Re: Kinky Folks Only: Do any women *like* electrical play?

    I'd equate medium to intense violet wand play with getting poked with a knife. A zingy sparky knife. It's a very specific, localized pain--it's not spread out like a spanking. You can do fun things like swab a line of alcohol across your skin and light it on fire by touching the wand to it. (Immediately put it out, obviously.) It can be used to brand, although I've never gone that far and don't ever expect to.

    The TENS unit was the same sort of pain on a bigger area. Like a big pad of pins were being stuck into my skin. Very prickly sensation. I love it for the novelty of the sensation and for the challenge. It's tough for me to withstand. Which is fun.


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    I love SW. Where else would i learn about stuff like this? I have never heard of it before.

    Would a woman receive electricity to her clit?
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    ^She could. It's. . . intense.

    Pretty much just stay away from the eyes and the face, for obvious reasons, and nothing near the heart if you have it cranked up, is the mantra I have heard. But I never crank it that high anyhow, so I wouldn't know.

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    ^^
    oh i thought you guys were talking about to the genitals - like for sexual stimulation.
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    It is sexual stimulation. But BDSM play is not restricted to genitalia stimulation. Yes, people get spanked on their no-no parts. But the backside is also fun. And the boobs. And pretty much everywhere else you can think of. Same for this.

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    "No-no parts." XD

    Yeah, getting cropped/spanked/caned/whathaveyou can be from standard places like your ass to the bottoms of your feet and even your tongue. Those are not the oddest places I've heard of being beaten.

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