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    Do all strippers date muscle-heaad pretty boys who spend more time on their hair than most women? Or do you lovely ladies ever give the average guy with the heart of gold a try? (I'm an average guy with a heart of gold......and portions of tin and chewing gum)

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    We don't think much of average guys with hearts of gold. We find them to be passive aggressive, with a much higher opinion of the value of their hearts than their behaviour generally merits. I mean really. Everyone is a "nice guy". Nobody thinks they are a bad guy.
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    ^ Well said.

    Average guys with hearts of gold tend to be needy stalkers/RILs.
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    walter1970, as one guy to another, this question, in general, is one that has been asked and answered many many times, by the ladies of this board both online and in person, as well as dancers the world 'round.

    And specifically, I have to say that the way you've phrased the question indicates a built-in bias on your part that does you no favors, both in how you describe the boyfriends and yourself, as well as underlying assumptions about what "strippers" like.

    You can't jump in and assume that all strippers have anything in common other than their job. And if the one dancer who hurt you dated "muscle-heaad pretty boys who spend more time on their hair than most women"... you shouldn't take that as anything but one drop in a very big ocean.

    That being said... Oh, man. I'm cooking up some popcorn.
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    We actually all date the same guy. He gets passed around to every stripper on the planet. We're all very devoted to him....of course, he's actually very tired.




    His name is Benjamin.

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    Quote Originally Posted by walter1970 View Post
    I'm an average guy with a heart of gold......

    For your own safety, man, do not say that! It would be a simple thing for a pretty dancer to woo you to her home, drug you, crack open your chest and sell that heart of yours for top dollar!

    The above imagery is only half in fun, Walter. Do you honestly want to be abused and used by a woman who'll see your massive neediness as both a weakness and an opportunity?

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    I can't wait to see Benjamin again.

    And frankly - I don't really like being pegged as dating muscle-y/pretty boys simply by my occupation. It's like saying a dog walker only dates dogs. (Haha)

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    TheTempest, ChicagoEditor, Cameron... lol from the bottom of my black (not gold) heart.

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    Eesh! It's a sad world where the man with a good heart is seen as "needy" and "weak". Perhaps this explains why women complain so much about the men in their lives. They tend to go for the asshole who behaves accordingly.

    I am far from needy or weak. But thank you for your candidness about it. Stereotypes are the bain of our society and perhaps the reason we all suffer at one time or another. I won't pretend to be atoughguy or a jerk to turn on a woman. I am simply me, at my best genuine and kind. Stronger than the guy who has to pretend to be strong to impress women. I've heard all of this before and it changes me not. Sorry, I refuse to a dick, even for a woman.

    Strippers aren't all coke-headed hookers fascinated by their own bodies...and nice guys are sometimes just the finest men you'll ever meet and love. If ever they gave each other a shot, we'd have some FINE looking humans with great hearts

    Just kidding people...relax here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by walter1970 View Post
    Eesh! It's a sad world where the man with a good heart is seen as "needy" and "weak". Perhaps this explains why women complain so much about the men in their lives. They tend to go for the asshole who behaves accordingly.
    No, cookie. The "needy" and "weak" ones are the ones that have to sit around talking about how good their hearts are. All the normal guys with good hearts are just out there being nice instead of talking about how nice they are and complaining about how girls don't like nice guys. They just... ask out girls and don't need to concern themselves with "assholes." That's what we mean by "passive aggressive".

    we'd have some FINE looking humans with great hearts
    We ARE fine looking people with great hearts.

    Just kidding people...relax here.
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    Jenny, you have a lot of rage, girl. Simmer baby. Save it for something that merits the rage. All I was saying was that most nice guys are just nice guys. The stereotyping happens in our society to everyone. Strippers are viewed negatively as "whores", muscle-heads as self-absorbed, shy people as snobs, etc. none of those are correct. As definatly as you defend your profession when someone might berate you for it, that is how fiercely I defend myself when labeled as "needy" or "weak" for being kind. I don't mistake your passionate views as indicators that the stereotype is correct.

    You need to calm down, especially as a mod. Your every post is venomous and nasty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    No, cookie. The "needy" and "weak" ones are the ones that have to sit around talking about how good their hearts are. All the normal guys with good hearts are just out there being nice instead of talking about how nice they are and complaining about how girls don't like nice guys. They just... ask out girls and don't need to concern themselves with "assholes." That's what we mean by "passive aggressive".


    We ARE fine looking people with great hearts.


    Gosh. Fun-ny.
    Damn. I admit to once in a while mentioning that I am a nice person. I mean, just in casual conversation. You know, with a chuckle and a ha ha wink wink.

    This is pretty eye opening information. Really. I had no idea.

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    Quote Originally Posted by walter1970 View Post
    Jenny, you have a lot of rage, girl. Simmer baby.
    Hey there cookie. How about if you don't tell me what to do?
    All I was saying was that most nice guys are just nice guys.
    I agree. And most lowercase nice guys don't wander around complaining about how women like jerks and assholes, and how nice guys finish last, and talking at length about how nice they are. The one's that do that... passive aggressive douchebags. No offence.
    The stereotyping happens in our society to everyone. Strippers are viewed negatively as "whores", muscle-heads as self-absorbed, shy people as snobs, etc.
    Well. Those aren't all stereotypes. Strippers being viewed as "whores" is just a negative characterization. Shy people being snob - just misunderstanding.
    As definatly as you defend your profession when someone might berate you for it, that is how fiercely I defend myself when labeled as "needy" or "weak" for being kind. I don't mistake your passionate views as indicators that the stereotype is correct.
    We don't call you needy because you're kind. We don't even know whether or not you are kind. What we DO know is that rather than let your character stand on its own you have felt the need to trot out the nice guy card - and even better the "nice guys finish last" card. We call you needy because you are sitting there talking about how nice you are.

    You need to calm down, especially as a mod. Your every post is venomous and nasty.
    Again, cookie: how about if you don't tell me what to do?
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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Damn. I admit to once in a while mentioning that I am a nice person. I mean, just in casual conversation. You know, with a chuckle and a ha ha wink wink.

    This is pretty eye opening information. Really. I had no idea.

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    it's pointless, but here are a bunch of articles that the OP will never take seriously: http://www.heartless-bitches.com/ran...eguys/ng.shtml

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    I know, I know... feeding the troll and all that, but damn. This kind of thread is so common, and yet so entertaining, like hearing a bedtime story again and again, knowing how it ends, but still going along for the ride.

    walter1970, meet M--K.

    Read that thread carefully and understand that many here will see your behavior in exactly the same light as PhillyDancer1982's friend. Or, dare I say it? Even in the same light as PhillyDancer1982, herself.
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    I like 'nice' guys. I really do, but most of them suction themselves to me and smother me until I have to be mean to them to get them to go away. Either that or they want to 'save' me.

    I'm all stocked up on those kinds of guys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    I once put it in a personal ad. Everyone thought it meant I was fat. I learned, my friend.
    It's nice to be a guy. Really. I mean, we dodge those automatic assumptions.

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    There is no "nice guy card" and I don't apologize for describing myself. I do enjoy your breakdown of my comments and the responses. You are one organized (and hysterical) stripper broad. "Passive-aggresive" sounds like community college psych 101, or better, a Dr. Phil-ism. I don't even know what that means, and best of all, neither do you. I DO know many assholes who beat their girflriends or wives, and NONE are ever mistaken for "nice guys". That chapter one of General Psych, Ladies Journal magazine article psycho-babble doesn't impress anyone or make your point hold water.

    The shame is it seems society has bought it. Oh, well, no stripper girlfriend for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    I like 'nice' guys. I really do, but most of them suction themselves to me and smother me until I have to be mean to them to get them to go away. Either that or they want to 'save' me.

    I'm all stocked up on those kinds of guys.
    Ginger you are a hot blonde and a nice person. No wonder the guys flock to you. It is your cross to bear, I'm afraid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    It's nice to be a guy. Really. I mean, we dodge those automatic assumptions.

    FBR
    I don't know FBR. I hope the OP is good at dodging though
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Nobody thinks they are a bad guy.
    My dark side is pretty much in constant turmoil, so it's hard to keep my bearings, but I guarantee you there have been times I've been the bad guy. I mean really bad. Life-or-death, deeply manipulative, physically-aggressive, life-ruining kinda bad.

    Sorry to disrupt that part of the theory. You do, however, have the entire "nice guy" thing nailed to the wall. Like I would expect anything less of you.

    Anyway, I'm a gentleman to a fault, but gentlemen are not "nice guys." Their dark side is what keeps them from becoming unglued in the face of tragedy, or running away from a physical threat or doing the deeply disturbing -- but necessary -- thing. In this life, a heart of gold gets you killed. Literally or figuratively.

    It's amusing that at least two of the guys in this thread actually do date dancers. Just speaking for myself, I'm so far away from being a pretty boy that I'm practically the poster boy for emergency cosmetic plastic surgery.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    I once put it in a personal ad. Everyone thought it meant I was fat. I learned, my friend.
    This is the OP's version of a personal ad. Everyone's thinking something about him...but I don't think it's that he's fat
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    ^^^hockeybobby, I think walter1970 is already walking back from his first post.

    Sure, he's doing it in a belligerent and insulting way. But, he does seem to be backing away.
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    Why don't you go through and read all the posts you've made to this site in a detached manner.

    That should sufficiently explain why you aren't a nice guy with a heart of gold AND why you can't get a stripper.

    Brilliant.

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