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    Default Ugh, where can I work in Dallas ?!?

    Gotta rant a bit, and I can REALLY use some help.....

    Where can a mixed race girl get hired in this town?

    Back in PHX I worked everywhere from outright Mexican dives to clubs full of hard bodied white Barbies, and never had a problom getting hired anywhere, or making $ (until the clubs slowed down drastically). But I just moved to Dallas, and keep getting the runaround from managers; the ol' "we don't have any shifts available" line. They don't even take my application, or bother to audition me, wtf? Even some door girls have given me the 'what are you doing here?' look.

    Maybe I'm being paranoid and oversensitive, but (despite Hispanics being the dominant race, and Dallas being a bit of a melting pot) I couldn't help but notice that in these clubs, most of the girls I saw were very young, very average looking white girls. Not ugly by any means, but I have yet to see anyone unique or striking looking, or any serious Playboy material. Not that theres anything wrong with that! But geez, a little diversity would do some good (?).

    I can't help but feel like thats the hiring standard out here, and that by breaking the mold, I'm shit out of luck. It bummed me out even more when at a few of these clubs, I noticed girls totally ignoring customers who were obviously paying attention to them - when a guy approaches the tip rail with a stack of bills, don't do your entire dance with your back turned to him . Girls like that get hired, but someone such as myself who makes an effort to capture my audience can't ?!?!?

    Sooooooooo......

    Can anyone recomend a club in this area that might hire me? One that isn't completly ghetto and creepy?

    I am:
    * 27 yrs old as of today
    * 5'9"
    * have small b boobs, but am curvy yet slender everywhere else - good legs and great butt!
    * have a light olive complexion
    * am exotic looking - I have white facial features, but a bone structure thats more commonly found amongst asian women (Philipina/Spanish/French/Jewish heritage)
    * brown eyes
    * dark brown hair - natural color - straight and almost mid back length, with bangs
    * I do my makeup in a classic way - nude shadow, black liner, red lips
    * I prefer real lingerie over spandex and tend to go for a 'classy' look - without being too out there I have a retro pin up style, and get a lot of Bettie Page comparisons, heh
    * I DO have a few tattoos, but nothing huge or 'offensive'

    You can see a few pics of me here: myspace.com/abrasive_jayne , but they aren't the best, I'm really unphotogenic...

    I prefer a wanna dance + light conversation atmosphere, since I've never worked a gown club. I do well with blue and white collar guys alike and prefer middle aged - elderly men, but will dance for anyone who has a good attitude. Prefer mid-large sized clubs, but again, can work in small clubs as well. I'm pretty adaptable, but I draw the line at full blown ghetto clubs.

    Any advice and honest opinions would be HIGHLY APPRECIATED! Thanks ladies!!
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    Default Re: Ugh, where can I work in Dallas ?!?

    I'm not sure how far Austin is from Dallas, but I'd imagine they'd be more open to diverse looks...UT-Austin is there and Austin is generally seen as one of the most progressive Texas cities. Good luck on finding something that works for you (and hopefully in a reasonable distance from where you reside!).

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    I've been told Dallas can be a hard town to dance in. I was talking about traveling to work for a few days, and EVERYONE suggested Austin. All the girls who have worked around Texas say Austin is the best by far, and that Houston is nasty (although they didn't say why), and Dallas is for barbies. I've never danced anywhere but Amarillo, so I have no clue, but did you move to Dallas specifically to work there?

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    Thanks London, I appreciate the nice comments : ).

    ^^^I just moved here for family reasons, so I can't just pick up and leave, and need to find work locally. I'll probobly drive to Austin to work there once in a while though....once I FIND A JOB so I can afford the trip, ha!

    So I did more looking today and am trying out one night shift tonight, have to auditions tomorrow, and another on Sunday. We'll see what happens! It's funny, at one club they started to blow me off, but then two guys walked in and just started putting $ on the strap of my dress, so then they said come in tomorrow at 1. They should've just let me work right then and there, I could've danced for those dudes!

    It seems like a whole different world out here businesswise. For one thing, they're way stricter on tattoos! In Phoenix it's rare to find a girl who *doesn't* have them. I've seen plenty of Barbie types with full sleeves and back peices even - not a problom. I haven't seen the Barbie types here yet, at least not in the Pam Anderson sense, though I'm sure they exist here too : ). So far I'm mainly seeing a lot of very young, very thin, girl next door, college types. A lot of girls with short brown hair with highlights. Also, theres schedules out here, whereas in PHX it's pretty much come/go as you please.

    I'm more than willing to adapt, if I can just get my foot in the door.

    Anyone familar with the Ft. Worth clubs? Wonder if they're any different...
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    Well I'm Hispanic but a lot of people think I'm hawaiian or polynesian or some other crap and have been hired in several clubs in Dallas so yes they do hire mixed girls etc.. They are mostly white I have noticed but to me I think it makes me stand out .There is a lot of money to be made in Dallas to me it was easy but its also high contact which sucks but it doesn't mean you have to put up with it .I don't think its only for the "barbies" because there is a little of everything .

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    ^^^^ Thats what I'm thinking too, if I can just get in somewhere, standing out would be a huge advantage to me. Because everywhere I've gone so far, the customers have been very flirty with me at the door and in the parking lot, lol.

    Exactly how high is the contact out here? Please don't say fingering and sex in v.i.p. is the norm!

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    Clubhouse, pantera's club would probably take you. it is good earnings there and low contact (though nightshift can get competitive).

    oops, forgot it's full nude. scratch that if you don't wish to work nude. but if you do, it's the best nude option except for the the Fare (the nude sister club of Cabaret Royale).
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    Quote Originally Posted by dollyrocker View Post
    ^^^^ Thats what I'm thinking too, if I can just get in somewhere, standing out would be a huge advantage to me. Because everywhere I've gone so far, the customers have been very flirty with me at the door and in the parking lot, lol.

    Exactly how high is the contact out here? Please don't say fingering and sex in v.i.p. is the norm!
    Oh god no! pretty much boob touching , to me its high contact because I dont like being touched and when I let someone it was my legs or arms.Ill be moving there soon
    I cant wait .

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    Quote Originally Posted by miabella View Post
    Clubhouse, pantera's club would probably take you. it is good earnings there and low contact (though nightshift can get competitive).

    oops, forgot it's full nude. scratch that if you don't wish to work nude. but if you do, it's the best nude option except for the the Fare (the nude sister club of Cabaret Royale).
    Which one is full nude, Clubhouse or Pantera's? I'm not opposed to full nude, but have never done it before.

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    Quote Originally Posted by beauty21queen View Post
    Oh god no! pretty much boob touching , to me its high contact because I dont like being touched and when I let someone it was my legs or arms.Ill be moving there soon
    I cant wait .
    Ok, whew! Boob touching wasn't allowed in AZ, but the idea of it doesn't bother me if it's legal here. It's anything that puts me at a health risk thats a real no-no to me. So I take it grinding/friction is allowed in Dallas too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by dollyrocker View Post
    Which one is full nude, Clubhouse or Pantera's? I'm not opposed to full nude, but have never done it before.
    clubhouse is owned by the band pantera. sorry if that was unclear.

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    No way, coooool! *adds the Clubhouse to list of places to audition at* Thank you!

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    ^^ you so need to go to The Clubhouse and tell me how it is!!! Here is their myspace

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    Whoa, theres a girl with a mohawk... AND she wears it up for work! Score! Now I'm pretty sure I can get hired at that place, haha. Once I'm off the rag I'll go audition (too much information, I know!). lol

    Oh, and the 3rd girl down on the left - I have that same outfit! I call it the 'slutty ballet costume' and as silly as it looks, it's one of my best money makers : ).

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    Quote Originally Posted by miabella View Post
    clubhouse is owned by the band pantera. sorry if that was unclear.
    The Clubhouse is owned by several people, Vinnie and Darrel “Miss you Dime” of Pantera where the only 2 from the band that have any ownership. Last I heard there was a total of 9 owners one of them being a Golf pro, Vinnie from Pantera, Dallas the manager and several other people.

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    No way, coooool! *adds the Clubhouse to list of places to audition at* Thank you!
    Quote Originally Posted by dollyrocker View Post
    Whoa, theres a girl with a mohawk... AND she wears it up for work! Score! Now I'm pretty sure I can get hired at that place, haha. Once I'm off the rag I'll go audition (too much information, I know!). lol

    Oh, and the 3rd girl down on the left - I have that same outfit! I call it the 'slutty ballet costume' and as silly as it looks, it's one of my best money makers : ).
    Not sure if it’s the same girl or not but when I danced there, there was a girl with a Mohawk and they made her wear a wig when she was working. The really cool thing about dancing at the Clubhouse is that you will see/meet a lot of famous people and the parties at Vinnies are fun.

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    ^ Neat neat neat! I'll try it out.

    So I auditioned at the Spearmint today and can officially work there. I'll post all about it in the 'Spearmint Rhino comes to Dallas' thread, as I'm sure some others might be curious about it.

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