OK. I have known these two customers for well over a year. I have been to numerous Cowboy's games with them and hung out outside of the club. I haven't done anything with either of them and thought we were cool. We all like to sports bet, so we always talk sports and how we did. Custy #1 did mention he would like to date me, but I don't want that. They both have tons of cash, by the way. I've never asked them for money, although custy #1 will give me some when he comes in the club. I just really like going to games and hanging out with them.
I talk and text custy #1 all the time to say hi or talk sports. I never call custy #2. I have more of a friendship with #1. They went to Vegas for the Super Bowl. I haven't seen them since the Giants won. They are Dallas fans, I'm a Giants fan. They both know this. They came in last night with two girls. One I know because she used to work there. I sit down like I always do, and custy #1 was acting like he didn't want me there. I don't care what/who he does, but I guess I assumed we were better friends than he did. So of course I gotta talk about how great and amazing the Giants are and how much money I won and how Dallas couldn't make it. They took the Pats so lost a bit of cash. I joke like this all the time, they know it. They do the same to me.
So after about an hour of drinking, I remembered a funny sign I printed about the Giants win. I went and got it to show them and sat by #2. He got real snippy with me and told me I just needed to drop it because they were there to have a good time and not talk about this. I told him if the Cowboys had won he would be giving me grief. He agreed, but said again I need to drop it and he was there for a good time and not to get bothered. I told him I thought we were cool and I didn't mean to piss him off but I hadn't seen them since the win and I'm still really excited about it and had to give my Cowboys fans a hard time. He said thats fine, now drop it.
WOW! This really hurt my feelings. I mean bad. He's never acted that way towards me. We give each other a hard time about sports all the time. So I went to sit by #1 and he bought a dance for #2 from me. I've never danced for either of them. Thought this was really wierd but did it anyways. #2 didn't want the dance because he said it was wierd because we know each other outside of there. I told him just take it and be happy. He then apologized for being the way he was earlier and that they were all drinking and the alcohol affected him strange. In fact, he wouldn't stop apologizing. I told him I'm fine and it was OK.
So they were all leaving and I gave them hugs and he told me he was sorry again. I told him to stop it and that it was fine. So guys, where did I go wrong? Am I all of a sudden a downer to the party? Is it annoying to tease people about this stuff? I wasn't going on and on about it, but yea, they did have to hear me give my guys props for the big win. This is what we do when we hang out, I didn't realize it would piss him off after all this time. And what about #1? Why would he treat me like he doesn't want to hang out with me after 1.5 years? I know the girl he's paying for sex, and he should know I really don't care.
Is it possible I assumed that these guys were my friends when really I'm just another stripper that doesn't put out to them? Am I all of a sudden the annoying dancer that hangs at the table, talks too much and won't go away? I talked to #1 the Tues after Super Bowl, and it was our usual sports talking. I still feel real upset over being treated that way. Can a customer never really be a friend? Should I just fade away and not call them unless they call me? If they come in just say hi and move on? This really sucks! I would appreciate a man's opinion on this.![]()


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