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    Default Lap dance help....

    I'm sure this is an insanely dumb question but....what do you do during a lap dance? I was telling a friend of mine that I wanted to start dancing and he said to make sure I 'booty clap'. Now I'm scared I can't give a good dance. I don't know how to booty clap or do any tricks, I'm extremely clumsy and look goofy when I dance. (Think of Shandi from ANTM) Any tips on lap dance moves? Stage moves? Do I start on his lap or away from him, making my way to his lap?
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    Default Re: Lap dance help....

    It will take you a while to get comfortable with lap dancing and to develop your own style, but it will happen! The best way to learn is to go to a strip club and buy a few dances and watch what the dancer does. Best of luck

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    She's right^. Get some dances to see what happens. And when you start working, watch the other dancers and see what they do. Some places the law prohibits contact, grinding, etc. In some clubs you have to keep one foot on the floor during your dance. If you do a search, there's a lot of information on the boards in threads from newbies like you!

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    Thanks ladies!!!! I think I'll hit the club this week.
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    Getting a few dances is how I learned! You'll develope your own way of doing it though and with each guy you'll get a sense of what he wants and be able to change your style to suit him.

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    I was clueless when I first started dancing. I didn't go out to a club. I just asked one of the other girls that was really sweet for help. She took me to the couch room and danced for me. I learned a lot from her. That is an option as well. It will save you money instead of having to buy dances too.

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    I'd have to agree. Go to the club and watch the girls dance on stage first. I don't wanna be mean but we'd had some new girls who really make a fool out of themselves for not asking or paying attention first.

    (this new girl insisted she was ready for stage and she danced to britney spears "i'm a slave 4 you" and Christina Aguilera "Dirty" and she had all the moves from the videos memorized....it was soooo funny)

    Watch the girls on stage first and ask a couple, specially the ones who've been there longer to give you a lap dance. It'll make your life a lot easier.

    best of luck!

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    I looked crazy on the stage...I just swayed back and forth and tried to hide behind the pole....silly, I know. I wished I would have gone to the club first and asked the questions that you are. BTW, I still can't "booty clap"

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    None of the girls at my club can booty clap. They were all amazed when I told them about the California stripper I got a dance from that could, lol. And besides, if you look in custy conversation, most agree that stupid tricks like that don't really have a place in the private dance area.

    No worries. Try to watch a couple stage sets and buy a private dance or two before diving in. All I did for my first set was walk around the pole and bend over, lol.
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    Phew! Thanks ladies! I'm so nervous and I really need to start dancing soon. I think my day job is getting ready to lay me off. (They're doing really bad financially) and I may have to dance full time to keep my head above water. It may turn out to be a blessing in disguise because I wanted to move to NJ anyway and my job is in PA.
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    Quote Originally Posted by iambonbon05 View Post
    None of the girls at my club can booty clap....And besides, if you look in custy conversation, most agree that stupid tricks like that don't really have a place in the private dance area.
    I wouldn't call it a stupid trick! I have had plenty of men buy dances from me soley because they loved the way I shook my ass (which involved plenty of clapping lol) and more than a few of them have wanted me to do nothing but that during our dances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    I wouldn't call it a stupid trick! I have had plenty of men buy dances from me soley because they loved the way I shook my ass (which involved plenty of clapping lol) and more than a few of them have wanted me to do nothing but that during our dances.

    Hmmm, I guess it just depends on the guy huh? I'm really good at reading people, so I hope I do well. I will let you ladies know when I audition (in another 2 weeks, after the basketball season is over...I coach)
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    Quote Originally Posted by dawnr1101 View Post
    I looked crazy on the stage...I just swayed back and forth and tried to hide behind the pole....silly, I know.
    Awww.... that is cute!

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    Default Re: Lap dance help....

    Don't worry about the booty clap...find something you can do well and are comfortable doing that makes you unique if you can.

    I have far more booty moves than anyone in the club, but that one booty clap that so many dancers do...I just can't do it right, so fuck it!

    I usually start off slow...dancing in front of them, coming close every now and then...teasing them is the key. If I find them really enjoying themselves, I'll back off for a bit and then do that move again later. Anything that will really turn them on is saved for last, that way they want more.

    Look them in the eyes, smile.

    It's hard to give advice because it depends on (1) the customer's attitude, (2) the club's contact rules, (3) the type of chair/couch you're using and the walls/railings/tables available to lean on, and (4) what positions your body looks most flattering in

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