
Originally Posted by
SundayMorning
Hi sparkleeyz!
1.) I deal with all of these things too. Practice really, really helps, especially with jaw fatigue--the more you're doing it, the more your jaw muscles work out and get stronger. As far as gagging, in voice lessons they teach you to "lift your soft palate," which is the top and back of your mouth. Open the inside of your mouth really big like you're yawning. That's lifting your soft palate. By doing that and keeping your tongue flattened down, a lot of the gagging is alleviated. Scraping teeth, PCQ covered very nicely. Lips over teeth. Harder to do on thick cocks but still possible!
2.) I agree with PCQ again on this one. It may be that something has changed in you; if you don't have a gyno appt coming up, you may think about making one to check you out and make sure everything is operating normal in there. Do you have the same problem with dildos? Is his penis curved? Does this just happen in certain positions? Examine the info and see a professional if it's just not adding up.
3/4.) Finally, anal. Yes anal ease will numb him too. All you really need is lube, foreplay, and an attentive partner. The very best advice I have for anyone who's trying but not really enjoying anal is DO SOMETHING ELSE. I don't mean stop doing anal, but rather do something at the same time to take your mind off the pain--or even better, make the pain do that magical switch into pleasure. For me, if I'm getting buttbusted, I find that playing with my clit totally changes the ugggggh owwwww into ooooooooh aaaahhhh. Are you giving yourself enough good feelings? It makes a world of difference.
Hope this helps! (It certainly revitalized my desire to be a sex therapist, that's for sure!)
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