I don't ussually have this problem with the other dancers becuz frankly I don't huslte any1's customers and don't bother huslting for my own simply cuz if the customers don't come to me I don't bother with them. I'm spoiled that way and don't care if I would make more working them up, but I make enough with them bugging me and still I get tired of dealing with them soo I don't go out of my way to deal with anymore and that's just how it is.
However a few times a dancer will sit with a guy and he will ask me for a room or dance when I go collect my tips or maybe he did be4 she sat w/him and I was just busy then soo I feel it's rude not to check back if I know he said he wanted to wait for when I was done.
Normally I don't care if that's the case and some1 get's upset becuz the way I see it you don't own the customers and if he asked her and was my customer I wouldn't expect her to turn down money--besides sometimes I know my customer is going to do a room w/me, but also wants a dance w/ this one or the other 1st. No biggie in my book.
It's just last min I almost got into a fight w/ a dancer I am friendly with that said I was stealling her customers--which i wasn't it really sucks cuz I didn't even want to dance w/ the 1st guy she claimed I stole , but he bought her a drink and then asked me to save him from her....soo really I know he wasn't going 2 spend more money on her and I just wanted to walk him away from her soo she didn't waste her time--it was lastmin and I was going home soo I walked him away and told him I was going home when he asked me for a dance which I hate giving dances when I'm on my way out--but it was money soo I said fine...Then after that susposinly I talked to another 1 of her customers when she was on stage like I knew she moved on to sit with this guy--but I didn't do it to get a dance and I didn't get a dance from him or anything at all(I just was being friendly with him cuz honestly the guy had spent money on me to give his wife a few dances and I wanted to tell them about some of the lifestyle parties I go to if they wanted to check it out--cuz his g/f was a hottie and I liked playing w/her), but whatver she bitches me out in teh backrrom as we were geting dressed saying I wasn't her friend and I was stealling her customers when I didn't even know who she was talking about other then that guy who asked me to save him and then 4 a dance. I didn't want to hurt her feelings saying that to her nor did I care cuz it's bulshit I str8up told her I never hustle for dances to begin w/.
However she and i have been cool and she wouldn't drop it. I just kept telling her I was the wronge girl to get into this over and left it at that.
So what am I susposed to do if she won't let it go next time I see her?? I'm not going to say sorry for something I didn't do that she feels I did wronge by her for when I was only doing my job and trying to be friendly wanting nothing to do with getting more dances and stealing her customers.
I felt like dropping money her way too be a bitch and shut her up cuz I can afford a whole lot more then she claims I stole from her--heck I probably make 3 times what she does ez, but why when really I have no need to to mean to her or rub it in her face and I'm just upset is thinks that low of me as a friend--when I just saw it as doing her a favor exspecailly not telling her how that guy begged me to save him from her.



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It's okay to talk like that, but if other people have to read it, make it minutely clearer.


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