Results 1 to 13 of 13

Thread: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

  1. #1
    Veteran Member UV69's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2008
    Location
    Miami
    Posts
    686
    Thanks
    47
    Thanked 276 Times in 120 Posts

    Default When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    I don't ussually have this problem with the other dancers becuz frankly I don't huslte any1's customers and don't bother huslting for my own simply cuz if the customers don't come to me I don't bother with them. I'm spoiled that way and don't care if I would make more working them up, but I make enough with them bugging me and still I get tired of dealing with them soo I don't go out of my way to deal with anymore and that's just how it is.

    However a few times a dancer will sit with a guy and he will ask me for a room or dance when I go collect my tips or maybe he did be4 she sat w/him and I was just busy then soo I feel it's rude not to check back if I know he said he wanted to wait for when I was done.

    Normally I don't care if that's the case and some1 get's upset becuz the way I see it you don't own the customers and if he asked her and was my customer I wouldn't expect her to turn down money--besides sometimes I know my customer is going to do a room w/me, but also wants a dance w/ this one or the other 1st. No biggie in my book.

    It's just last min I almost got into a fight w/ a dancer I am friendly with that said I was stealling her customers--which i wasn't it really sucks cuz I didn't even want to dance w/ the 1st guy she claimed I stole , but he bought her a drink and then asked me to save him from her....soo really I know he wasn't going 2 spend more money on her and I just wanted to walk him away from her soo she didn't waste her time--it was lastmin and I was going home soo I walked him away and told him I was going home when he asked me for a dance which I hate giving dances when I'm on my way out--but it was money soo I said fine...Then after that susposinly I talked to another 1 of her customers when she was on stage like I knew she moved on to sit with this guy--but I didn't do it to get a dance and I didn't get a dance from him or anything at all(I just was being friendly with him cuz honestly the guy had spent money on me to give his wife a few dances and I wanted to tell them about some of the lifestyle parties I go to if they wanted to check it out--cuz his g/f was a hottie and I liked playing w/her), but whatver she bitches me out in teh backrrom as we were geting dressed saying I wasn't her friend and I was stealling her customers when I didn't even know who she was talking about other then that guy who asked me to save him and then 4 a dance. I didn't want to hurt her feelings saying that to her nor did I care cuz it's bulshit I str8up told her I never hustle for dances to begin w/.

    However she and i have been cool and she wouldn't drop it. I just kept telling her I was the wronge girl to get into this over and left it at that.

    So what am I susposed to do if she won't let it go next time I see her?? I'm not going to say sorry for something I didn't do that she feels I did wronge by her for when I was only doing my job and trying to be friendly wanting nothing to do with getting more dances and stealing her customers.

    I felt like dropping money her way too be a bitch and shut her up cuz I can afford a whole lot more then she claims I stole from her--heck I probably make 3 times what she does ez, but why when really I have no need to to mean to her or rub it in her face and I'm just upset is thinks that low of me as a friend--when I just saw it as doing her a favor exspecailly not telling her how that guy begged me to save him from her.
    "Happiness does not depend on material things, but on having others pay for them"
    "Women who seek to be equal to men lack ambition"

    Add Me To Your MySpace Friend's List

  2. #2
    Featured Member
    Joined
    Jun 2006
    Posts
    1,945
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    Holy Run-on Sentence, Batman!

  3. #3
    God/dess
    Joined
    Jul 2005
    Posts
    4,704
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 8 Times in 8 Posts

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    I don't understand .. It's okay to talk like that, but if other people have to read it, make it minutely clearer.

  4. #4
    Featured Member desavirsire's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2005
    Posts
    868
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    I'm confused.

  5. #5
    Featured Member Corey's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2003
    Location
    LA,CA,USA
    Posts
    1,610
    Thanks
    127
    Thanked 66 Times in 53 Posts

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    :
    Quote Originally Posted by StrawberrySwitchblade View Post
    Holy Run-on Sentence, Batman!
    (Formerly known as 'Korina')

  6. #6
    Featured Member Corey's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2003
    Location
    LA,CA,USA
    Posts
    1,610
    Thanks
    127
    Thanked 66 Times in 53 Posts

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    But seriously, we go to work to make money, not friends. Let her go if she's accusing you like that.

    I posted a similar thread of something that happened to me last night. I stood my ground with a dancer that was suppose to have been an aquaintence.

    She started spreading rumors about me to custies. She started another fight last night. It got ugly, but I stood my ground.

    Guess what? She is not a friend, and so....I move on. You should to.
    (Formerly known as 'Korina')

  7. #7
    Veteran Member UV69's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2008
    Location
    Miami
    Posts
    686
    Thanks
    47
    Thanked 276 Times in 120 Posts

    Default Ok how about this...

    How about a new title for this thread.

    When stripper become English teachers.

    Thanks, but no thanks if i wanted the red pen treatment I would ask for it.

    I just thought some1 here could relate to the subject of being accused of stealing dances, but I guess I'll save those convos for strippers who are not soo hung up on grading my cyber slang.
    "Happiness does not depend on material things, but on having others pay for them"
    "Women who seek to be equal to men lack ambition"

    Add Me To Your MySpace Friend's List

  8. #8
    Featured Member AznExtasy's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2006
    Posts
    1,880
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 33 Times in 23 Posts

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    Sometimes it's hard to read when people type like they talk, that's all.
    I don't think you should sweat this girl at all. Maybe she was having a slow night so she was bitchier than usual. She has to get over it eventually.

  9. #9
    cameron_keys
    Guest

    Default Re: Ok how about this...

    Quote Originally Posted by UV69 View Post
    How about a new title for this thread.

    When stripper become English teachers.

    Thanks, but no thanks if i wanted the red pen treatment I would ask for it.

    I just thought some1 here could relate to the subject of being accused of stealing dances, but I guess I'll save those convos for strippers who are not soo hung up on grading my cyber slang.
    It isnt about being an English teacher hon....your writing is very hard to understand. Honestly...I have NO idea what you are talking about most of the time and if we cant understand you..we cant offer any advice or support.

    Look at yourself...not the people trying to help you

  10. #10
    Kaylinn
    Guest

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    Quote Originally Posted by UV69 View Post
    susposinly
    exspecailly .

    I feel embarassed.

  11. #11
    Veteran Member Innocense's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2006
    Location
    Irvine, CA
    Posts
    226
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 10 Times in 9 Posts

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    UV69....

    I think we've all had that problem before. It is always a little rough when some one else is trying really hard to get a dance from a customer and then the guy just turns around and asks you for a dance. But really, a dancer who gets mad because of that ???? that's just wrong. I've had guys who have turned me down and then just get lots of dances from some one else. that's cool....the guy is entitled to get dances from whoever he wants and I'm not gonna be a bitch about that....I'll just go get me another customer, one that's into cute brunettes....like me...hahaha!

    I've also been in your shoes....what to do about it? nothing! just tell the girl that you didn't put a gun to his head, he got a dance because he liked you....and you are there to make money so you took his money. end of the story.

    God! I really hate it when girls behave like spoiled high school brats! ugh!

    good luck!

  12. #12
    Veteran Member UV69's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2008
    Location
    Miami
    Posts
    686
    Thanks
    47
    Thanked 276 Times in 120 Posts

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    Thanks, I figured she was having a bad nite and I don't stress over who's customer is who's stuff. I know when I go to clubs I'm going to spend money on who ever I want no matter who comes up to me.

    I guess my issue with it is that she's ussually real cool with me and brought our friendship into it. I can be a bitch back to any1 being a bitch with me or I could let a bad day slide with a friend, but when my friend is being a bitch and won't let it go it bugs me. I just hope she has dropped it and I'll take it from there.

    As for being embrassed about my writting I'm highly dyslexic, and it's hard enough for me to spell "off" sometimes. I know how to spell off, but for whatever reason it wouldn't come to mind and I cried over it once for almost a hour. It's my struggel in life, but I over look it to let myself be when I'm online chatting/posting because I simply wouldn't post if I had to deal with it like a term paper.

    Anyhow if you are bothered or can't understand my writting please just skip it, because picking on the problems of others doesn't help anyone. It's actaully not a nice thing to do to point out the flaws in others and worst to rub in how you who doesn't have that problem would feel about it. That would be like skinny me going up to some1 who is overweight calling them fat and saying if I was fat I would feel a certin way about it.

    Thanks for those who did repley to my post. It helped me put the situation in prosective and decide to just forgive and forget it.
    "Happiness does not depend on material things, but on having others pay for them"
    "Women who seek to be equal to men lack ambition"

    Add Me To Your MySpace Friend's List

  13. #13
    God/dess velvet's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2002
    Location
    Florida
    Posts
    4,778
    Thanks
    154
    Thanked 280 Times in 146 Posts

    Default Re: When dancer get mad at you over customers and money

    well if you want help with that. download the google toolbar it has spell check. i know i couldnt get along with out it!
    As quoted by Luckyone:
    I asked directions from a genie in a bottle of jim beam and she lied to me.

    Methodus saved my life!

Similar Threads

  1. Customers taking money, what do you do?
    By lokikola in forum Hustle Hut
    Replies: 17
    Last Post: 09-10-2011, 04:44 PM
  2. What do the customers like in a dancer?
    By thabb86 in forum Newbie Board
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 04-22-2007, 09:42 PM
  3. customers that get mad at you (rant)
    By leogirl876 in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 23
    Last Post: 04-13-2007, 10:25 PM
  4. Mad Money cnbc
    By krchab99 in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 10-20-2006, 03:37 PM
  5. Do customers get mad if you dont drink in the Champagne room?
    By bella du jour in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 21
    Last Post: 08-24-2006, 08:37 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •