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    Last night I went out to a SC with my bf and one of his friends. We just got there, so we're sitting at one of the tables. Who do I see walk in but one of my regulars! I try to kind of put my hair in front of my face, read the Xtreme magazine and hope he doesnt notice. A)um akward moment anyone and B)he knows I have a bf but I'm sure seeing it in person really kinda squashes that lil fantasy world. Then he goes and sits at the tiprail, directly facing us. He looks right at me and I give him a sly little smile, I don't want him to think I'm a bitch, and I figure he's smart enough not to approach me.

    Of course my bf asks who he is so I tell him and of course he gets a little pissy because he won't stop staring. Then does he not walk right up to me and say "I thought that was you!" Before he left. It was just really weird and akward. I mean for all he knew the other kid ws my brother who had no clue I danced. I hope he doesn't stop coming to see me because he saw me with the bf.


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    Wow! That's REALLY awkward. It sounds like he took it in stride though. I'm sure he'll come back to see you.
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    I can't believe he came up to you! I've never had a custy approach me otc. I've been discretely nodded to, but that's it. I would totally try and pretend that was your brother, and make your reg feel guilty for maybe calling you out. It could turn into more money for you.

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    Why would you go to a SC with your brother...? I think it'll work out for you either way. I mean, it's not like you lied about your bf! That would have been a lot more tricky.

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    ya dont say brother....that might be even more wierd....for me anyways

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    I would never go into my strip club as a customer on my off days. Just too many awkward things that can happen, such as this.

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    I was out to lunch with my boyfriend and ran into my favorite regular and HIS WIFE. I told my boyfriend, but of course Mister Moneybags ignored me and I ignored him. His wife chose their table RIGHT NEXT TO US and Moneybags was like "No, not here, how about closer to the bar?" His wife was like "why are you acting so weird?" It was great.

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    It's always akward running into them OTC.....I am sorry it had to be when you were with your BF.
    It's only happened to me once, and I got soooo lucky. It was grocery shopping day..... me and my hubby always go together. On this particular day he decided not to go cause he was tired from a long day at work.
    So there I am, picking out a carton of eggs and one of my regulars comes around the corner with who I assumed was his wife (I know he is married and has no siblings) He walks right up and says hello to me, right in front of her. She seemed maybe a little jaded, like she knew what was going on and just doesn't care anymore. It was akward to say the least, but also a little sad cause I could tell they had a shitty relationship. I passed them by once again in the produce section and they were just at eachothers throats, talking to one another like they are so miserable. I tried to walk by without him seeing me again but he turned around caught my eye and smiled.
    I hope my marriage never ends up like that

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    That's pretty ridicoulously shitty etiquette. Anyone with any social agility would know to ignore you. But he's a PL, so...there you go.

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    HA!!
    similar thing happened to me except my regular tried to buy my bf a drink!!
    the waitress said "that guy over there said order whatever drink you want" and my boyfriend was like "no thanks".
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSexKitten View Post
    Why would you go to a SC with your brother...?
    Yeah it's obvious that the OP has a bf since she already told her regular that she has one. However, I do not think it is so much of a stretch for a girl to go to a strip club with her brother. I have a few guy friends that I view as more of "brothers" than anything else(i.e., they're not the boyfriend/hook-up material type of guy), and I've gone to strip clubs with them on a few occasions. I like feeling like one of the guys. But maybe that's just me.

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    It'll be ok. Next time your regular comes to see you at work, I woudln't even bring it back up. No use in bringing up the past..







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    Quote Originally Posted by AznExtasy View Post
    I would never go into my strip club as a customer on my off days. Just too many awkward things that can happen, such as this.
    It wasn't the club I work at. I'm only 19 so I couldnt even go into my club as a customer.


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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSexKitten View Post
    Why would you go to a SC with your brother...? I think it'll work out for you either way. I mean, it's not like you lied about your bf! That would have been a lot more tricky.
    I was just saying it for an example. It could have been anybody who happened to not know what I do. He also knows I don't tell everybody I dance.


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    Sounded like bad form on his part. As the guy/regular/PL in this scenario, I usually operate under "don't speak unless spoken to" protocols. When you run into a dancer outside the club you never know who she could be with and/or who knows what she does for a living.

    This reminded me of a time I had gone to the movies, and saw my favorite dancer there with a guy. I knew then not to approach - I didn't know her real name and her stage name was an obvious stripper name, so "who" would I say hello to anyways? (Then again, when I saw her the following week in the club, and mentioned that I saw her at the movies, and didn't say hello because she had company, she told me I should've come over and said hello. Go figure.)
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    That was really tacky of the custy to approach you. Still, CK's right, don't even mention it to the custy next time he comes in. And if he mentions it, just laugh and quickly change the subject.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The_Oceans View Post
    Sounded like bad form on his part. As the guy/regular/PL in this scenario, I usually operate under "don't speak unless spoken to" protocols. When you run into a dancer outside the club you never know who she could be with and/or who knows what she does for a living.

    This reminded me of a time I had gone to the movies, and saw my favorite dancer there with a guy. I knew then not to approach - I didn't know her real name and her stage name was an obvious stripper name, so "who" would I say hello to anyways? (Then again, when I saw her the following week in the club, and mentioned that I saw her at the movies, and didn't say hello because she had company, she told me I should've come over and said hello. Go figure.)
    That was good of you...better to be safe then sorry. My bf is a pretty jealous boy anyway...so I was surprised at his composure.


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    OMFG, the same thing happened to me the other day, but my bf KNEW him! My custie had sold a fridge to my bf--it turned out that my customer was friend with one of my bf's friends.

    We're all at a niteclub cuz its a friends b-day party. i go the bar and he's right there and he stares at me---but i wasnt sure who he was!

    I know its fucked up, but i rarely remember custies out of context, even if they are regulars.

    He keeps looking at me when i pass him. I ask my man, "U know that guy?" My bf says, "I've seen him around at different parties, he a friend of my friend."

    When i got home, i get a text from the custie, "Werent u at the club? Why didnt u say hi??"

    I just couldnt place him and my bfs family was there....
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    I always introduce my husband to my customers when this happens...since I DO go to stripclubs a lot in my offtime. All my clients know I'm married though...one of them invited him to poker night. It's only weird if you make it weird.
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