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    It's me, Ariel.

    I wasn't fired, I walked out. Lou is also trying to
    censor what I have to say, so read this quick before
    he takes it down! I am probably banned from posting at
    the forum, so I had to reregister under another name.


    Last Wednesday night: I show up, and Lou pulls me
    "aside", but it was actually in the main area. For
    about 1/2 an hour, he tries to talk to me, but keeps
    running back and forth and making me sit here and
    there. Embarrassing, because ppl are starting to
    notice that I'm getting "talked to" and still have my
    real clothes on.

    What he tells me first, is that he's had just "too
    many negative comments from customers and dancers."
    #1: Girls talk shit all the time especially in this
    industry. #2: I've had absolutely zero customers ever
    tell me they were "unsatisfied." And I would be able
    to tell if they were. Lou totally made up the customer
    part.

    Then what he asks is "how was last Tuesday" -- I got
    an invite from someone I know that there was going to
    be a lap dance party for the birthday of the owner of
    a website, and they've had one other party, and it was
    December.

    I don't work Tuesdays, so I went, assured that it
    wasn't an "underground gang bangers party." Well when
    I showed up, it did appear to be a "ghetto ho party",
    but I came all the way there, and as some of you know
    I drive from NJ and it takes 1.5 hours if you want to
    arrive at 6pm. I also realized I was white and so were
    about 3 other ppl. Why not TRY to make some $? Turns
    out I didn't have to work very hard, ppl came up to
    me, I sold many LD's and 3 VIPS with no xtras. I made
    over $1,000 and left at midnight.

    Lou doesn't like the owners of this place, and told me
    he had sent "spies" there who reported back to him.
    They told him I was there and "in and out of the VIP
    all night."

    How wrong is that? I honestly had no idea who runs
    this party, my job is giving hot LD's not getting
    embroiled in politics. It was a twice yearly party,
    and working for Lou still leaves 4 days out of the
    week in which to seek other employment.

    The third thing he says is that he KNOWS I'm bringing
    drugs into his parties. Now I'm definitely LOL. I am a
    vegetarian hippie type chick that reads lots of books
    and works hard. Drugs are bad and completely against
    my policy, let alone SELLING them in a STRIP CLUB.

    So then he says, if I have nothing to hide, he's going
    to search my bags, new policy. He asks for my
    backpack, and we are still in front of all the dancers
    and customers, so I said, can we at least do this in
    private? People have already been staring long enough.
    He agrees to do it downstairs, but not before
    announcing to 3 people "I'm going downstairs to search
    Ariel's bags."

    We get down there, and there are about 10 girls
    changing, and the housemom. Everyone looks up. He then
    tells the housemom, who is notorious for gossiping and
    starting drama (every single time I've been in there
    changing, I have overheard shit talking about another
    dancer. Horrible shit talking.)

    Then I was REALLY pissed. Not only did I consent to a
    "drug search" which is invasive and completely
    unfounded, he can't respect me enough to do it
    privately. No matter what my bag does or does not
    produce, now every dancer and customer that saw me
    that night, thinks that I am in trouble.

    When we finally made it to a private area, which was a
    dungeon basement of the Wed. night location, about
    30-50 ppl had witnessed me getting yelled at, in my
    real clothes, and about 5 ppl were told personally
    that I was getting a drug search. That does not
    include those in earshot. Lou was also talking very
    loudly when "confronting" me about all the other
    stuff.


    CONCLUSION

    I walked out, completely humiliated. Accusing me of
    drugs was a front because he was pissed that I worked
    at a party of somebody he didn't like. He figured I
    would refuse a search, and could then fire me. When I
    didn't refuse, he figured he'd humiliate me so bad
    that I would leave. That is what I did, he got what he
    wanted.

    I am a good dancer, with many customers that pay Lou
    $$ to get in the door just to see me. I'm reliable,
    I'm clean. I got invited to work a party I knew
    nothing about, and worked it--one day out of my life,
    and made clean money.


    The sad part is that all of us are replaceable, and he
    knows that.

    He will probably delete this post once he sees it.

    I would advise him not to, because people should know
    the truth, and I've obviously been thru enough unfair
    censorship.

    I will also keep posting it if it is deleted.

    Thanks for reading, for asking about me, and I'll miss
    you all!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pan Dah View Post
    but why taunt the tiger?
    To get information out there so people can choose if they want that or not, instead of going there unprepared like some of us were?

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    Wait, is this the Lou who used to host swinger parties in that location in lower midtown?

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    Yes, he did used to.

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    In that case if I were the OP I would pass on these parties, the sleeze factor is probably pretty high.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    Why didn't anyone press charges ? Where was the semen stained whatever ?
    I've personally seen illegal stuff going on at his kink/swing parties and certainly saw plenty of semen. From what I've heard about these parties and what I know of Lou I expect these parties probably cross the line a bit more. But what I saw was nothing to get really worked up over and I'm glad no one got retarded and got Johnny Law involved - but the above logic seems to imply that if there was something illegal going on someone would have necesarily pressed charges and that's a bit silly.

    Also let's not give Alaska a hard time here, she's putting herself forward with some straight up info to help the other dancers and that is 100% what this site is about. Well that and pictures of kittahs.

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    Default Re: Hot Lapdance club...(yes, thats the name) NYC ladies, tell me

    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    Why didn't anyone press charges ? Where was the semen stained whatever ?
    What crime, exactly, supposedly occurred ?
    This is the absolute DUMBEST way to try and prove nothing illegal happens in a stripclub that operates UNDERGROUND. Hello! Illegal shit happens and goes unreported ALL THE TIME, in all environments. And have you forgotten what industry we're in here??? In case you forgot, this is STRIPPERweb. How many STRIPPERS do you think are going to file a sexual harrassment or related case against their bosses or customers?? Even though we KNOW the shit goes on all night every night in stripclubs everywhere, strippers don't report shit because we know we'll be laughed right out of court.


    I 100% believe Alaska's statements and I am PISSED OFF that the previous thread about this place was deleted so girls can't find that info. That kind of info should NEVER be removed from this site - this is precisely the type of info we come here to exchange!!

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    If I remember the thread correctly, the owner came on SW causing a lot of conflict.

    You guys have to understand that SW is a mix of all different types of people, all with different temperaments.

    You guys HAVE to understand that when one of you makes a sarcastic remark to a poster, it causes that poster to become defensive. Once people become defensive, arguments ensue between each other, and threads at that point get off track.

    The first person who gets snappy with a poster, causes the entire thread to go downhill. You guys HAVE to understand that.

    In other words THINK BEFORE YOU MAKE A MEAN COMMENT!

    If a thread stay open with intense bickering, it HAS to be closed.

    The old thread about this club got waaaaaay out of hand, dancers arguing with a clubowner, and the clubowner badmouthing dancers. A thread like that cannot be cleaned up when things get that far out of hand. It has to be closed.

    Everyone who read that thread knew the club wan't a place for a dancer who only wants to dance for her money to work, right?At that point, especially when arguing got out of hand, the thread had to be closed and allowed to get buried.

    If the owner comes back on here causing turmoil, he will be banned from posting.

    If you guys want to keep this thread open, NO name calling, just discuss your personal experiences, and don't put down other posters. GOT IT?

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    ^ Really? It was going fine as hell for several pages b4 he came on and caused the conflict.....I never even saw that; the thread was closed w/i hours after he came on here. Why not delete the negative shit, and keep the relevant shit on here?

    I'm so looking forward to rehashing my experiences AGAIN, thanks. And they were totally objective, even saying the good stuff, not out of "defense"....ppl barely got to see his posts, only if you were logged on at the correct hour.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tina View Post

    The old thread about this club got waaaaaay out of hand, dancers arguing with a clubowner, and the clubowner badmouthing dancers. A thread like that cannot be cleaned up when things get that far out of hand. It has to be closed.
    Closed? "Allowed to get buried"??? What are you leaving out here, Tina? Why aren't you answering the question of why it got deleted off the face of the earth unavailable for any searches?

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    When a thread gets argumentative, as moderators we get e-mails from multiple members reporting it. Our job is to evaluate the comments, and resolve the conflict.

    No need to dwell on the past. Give your reviews on the club here without arguing, and as I said above, if the owner comes back on here causing problems, he will be banned, and your posts will remain.

    Enough said.

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    Please.. For God's sake.. STAY AWAY. I have said it before.. I will say it again: Lou the "Owner" is beyond sleaze. He pays off everyone. He is in NO WAY a "legit" strip club, and he gives everyone that throws private parties a horrible name.

    He is old school "'Ima P-I-M-P, come audition by letting me fondle and if you're naive enough f*ck you" kinda jerk wad."

    I personally have worked for him, and have WAY TOO MANY girlfriends that have had the misfortune of venturing into his pits of hell. Including attempted rape (yeah, me personally, from one of his "customers" that he tried to set me up with. And, btw.. to this day I believe he was paid off/allowed for whatever reason/was aware of what his custie wanted to do to me) drugs, obscene prostitution, and just sleazy, grimy, "lou-esk" kinda stuff.

    I am a HUGE LOU PROTESTER. He has PM'ed me many times on here with hateful, threatning messages, and I am more than happy to discuss my personal experiences with him and "Lapdance.com" with any dancer that needs info. If I wasn't so busy staying AWAY from the place, I would stand outside his dungeon to protect any newbies inexperienced enough to attempt to venture in.

    Sorry.. didn't mean to rant But that man and his "parties" almost got me raped, and beyond that made me truly fear this industry in a way no other adult entertainment situation has ever done.

    If you INSIST on attending an audition or party - PLEASE PLEASE leave the number and address and any other possible info with MULTIPLE people, and give them a time that you PROMISE you will contact them by. Tell them that if they haven't heard from you by then to contact the police w/o a second thought. (Just be sure to remember to call them by that decided time). PLEASE BRING A BOYFRIEND/SECURITY with you (although when I worked for him, he wouldn't allow it).

    Side note: In the spirit of giving a fair review - while all the girls I have ever known to work for him have quit and spew venom based on the sound of his name - they (and I do too) will admit that there is DEFINITE earning potential. Some of these girls have made around 1K a night. But while all dancing come with a price (the degree varies from monetary to safety, esteem, sanity and pride) Lou has managed to make is dancer's live degrading in a whole new way.

    Edit:

    Look, I don't want to get banned, or cause problems.. But I live in NYC, and a large involvment in the PP scene, and have quite a bit of first AND second hand experience with Lou. He is the ONLY agent or stripclub I have EVER been at odds at, and it is because of the extremely dangerous situations I have been placed in because of his claimed "professional" parties.

    When someone posts looking for information about a club, or in this case "lou" I feel as though it is a time that SW came truly be of service and potentially PROTECT one of our own for a situation she may not ever have been aware of if not for SW. Isn't that the whole point of this site? And furthermore, hundreds, if not thousands of posts are made each month on SW, RARELY is a topic ever as agreed upon as one concering Lou and his parties. It seems as thou MULTIPLE women (each time his name pops up) have the SAME, REOCCURING issues. I believe Lou's name should be stickied. Though, all the creedents that troll our boards would probably end up giving him business based on the "extra" comments all of us girls post. I personally believe that he is one of the TRUE dangers within our adult community throughout NY/NJ, and if he is to be called out on his NOTORIOUSLY bad behavior on any website, it is our OBLIGATION to make it HERE. If I have offended any moderators or community members, please let me know, and I will happily make any due apologies.
    Last edited by xxxblueeyesxxx; 02-13-2008 at 04:55 AM. Reason: My Edit" paragraph(s)

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxblueeyesxxx View Post
    Please.. For God's sake.. STAY AWAY. I have said it before.. I will say it again: Lou the "Owner" is beyond sleaze. He pays off everyone. He is in NO WAY a "legit" strip club, and he gives everyone that throws private parties a horrible name.

    He is old school "'Ima P-I-M-P, come audition by letting me fondle and if you're naive enough f*ck you" kinda jerk wad."

    I personally have worked for him, and have WAY TOO MANY girlfriends that have had the misfortune of venturing into his pits of hell. Including attempted rape (yeah, me personally, from one of his "customers" that he tried to set me up with. And, btw.. to this day I believe he was paid off/allowed for whatever reason/was aware of what his custie wanted to do to me) drugs, obscene prostitution, and just sleazy, grimy, "lou-esk" kinda stuff.

    I am a HUGE LOU PROTESTER. He has PM'ed me many times on here with hateful, threatning messages, and I am more than happy to discuss my personal experiences with him and "Lapdance.com" with any dancer that needs info. If I wasn't so busy staying AWAY from the place, I would stand outside his dungeon to protect any newbies inexperienced enough to attempt to venture in.

    Sorry.. didn't mean to rant But that man and his "parties" almost got me raped, and beyond that made me truly fear this industry in a way no other adult entertainment situation has ever done.

    If you INSIST on attending an audition or party - PLEASE PLEASE leave the number and address and any other possible info with MULTIPLE people, and give them a time that you PROMISE you will contact them by. Tell them that if they haven't heard from you by then to contact the police w/o a second thought. (Just be sure to remember to call them by that decided time). PLEASE BRING A BOYFRIEND/SECURITY with you (although when I worked for him, he wouldn't allow it).

    Side note: In the spirit of giving a fair review - while all the girls I have ever known to work for him have quit and spew venom based on the sound of his name - they (and I do too) will admit that there is DEFINITE earning potential. Some of these girls have made around 1K a night. But while all dancing come with a price (the degree varies from monetary to safety, esteem, sanity and pride) Lou has managed to make is dancer's live degrading in a whole new way.

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    Look, I don't want to get banned, or cause problems.. But I live in NYC, and a large involvment in the PP scene, and have quite a bit of first AND second hand experience with Lou. He is the ONLY agent or stripclub I have EVER been at odds at, and it is because of the extremely dangerous situations I have been placed in because of his claimed "professional" parties.

    When someone posts looking for information about a club, or in this case "lou" I feel as though it is a time that SW came truly be of service and potentially PROTECT one of our own for a situation she may not ever have been aware of if not for SW. Isn't that the whole point of this site? And furthermore, hundreds, if not thousands of posts are made each month on SW, RARELY is a topic ever as agreed upon as one concering Lou and his parties. It seems as thou MULTIPLE women (each time his name pops up) have the SAME, REOCCURING issues. I believe Lou's name should be stickied. Though, all the creedents that troll our boards would probably end up giving him business based on the "extra" comments all of us girls post. I personally believe that he is one of the TRUE dangers within our adult community throughout NY/NJ, and if he is to be called out on his NOTORIOUSLY bad behavior on any website, it is our OBLIGATION to make it HERE. If I have offended any moderators or community members, please let me know, and I will happily make any due apologies.
    Gee, that's funny. Lou is the only owner/'promoter I've ever had a problem with
    and his HLD is the only place I've ever been banned from.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    This is the absolute DUMBEST way to try and prove nothing illegal happens in a stripclub that operates UNDERGROUND. Hello! Illegal shit happens and goes unreported ALL THE TIME, in all environments. And have you forgotten what industry we're in here??? In case you forgot, this is STRIPPERweb. How many STRIPPERS do you think are going to file a sexual harrassment or related case against their bosses or customers?? Even though we KNOW the shit goes on all night every night in stripclubs everywhere, strippers don't report shit because we know we'll be laughed right out of court.


    I 100% believe Alaska's statements and I am PISSED OFF that the previous thread about this place was deleted so girls can't find that info. That kind of info should NEVER be removed from this site - this is precisely the type of info we come here to exchange!!
    Wait a minute. I'm not defending or excusing Lou's behavior for a nano-second.
    I am strongly PRO-DANCER.
    All that being said, "sexual harassment" has some strictly defined LEGAL definitions and it is NOT clear that's what Lou did. Crude,vulgar, rude and inappropriate behavior ? ABSOLUTELY !
    "Sexual assault" ? Maybe and it's understandable why it would not be reported. A
    lot of sexual attacks are not reported BUT who says Lou attacked anyone ? Inappropriate behavior ? Sure but "sexual harassment" generally means setting up a coercive quid pro quo of a sexual nature by an EMPLOYER. Lou can argue that the dancers are "Independent Contractors" and that he's NOT an employer.
    Not that I agree but it is an argument.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OdysseusNJ View Post
    I've personally seen illegal stuff going on at his kink/swing parties and certainly saw plenty of semen. From what I've heard about these parties and what I know of Lou I expect these parties probably cross the line a bit more. But what I saw was nothing to get really worked up over and I'm glad no one got retarded and got Johnny Law involved - but the above logic seems to imply that if there was something illegal going on someone would have necesarily pressed charges and that's a bit silly.

    Also let's not give Alaska a hard time here, she's putting herself forward with some straight up info to help the other dancers and that is 100% what this site is about. Well that and pictures of kittahs.
    I'm sorry but that just doesn't wash. A "swing" party implies that EVERYONE there is a consenting adult. So what do you mean by "illegal stuff" ?

    Btw, I'm not here to give Alaska a hard time. I agree with her BUT I'm simply trying to sound a note of caution i.e. there is plenty of documented, witnessed
    stuff about Lou so there's no need to repeat rumor and hearsay. Alaska certainly
    had her own first-hand unpleasant experience with Lou. I wasn't there, neither were you. Nonetheless, I believe her because in my experience Lou can be extremely crude and inconsiderate and he's personally slandered me by posting half-truths and outright fabrications. He's done the same to Alaska and other dancers, here and elsewhere. He's done worse. He's posted what dancers do at PP's - A BIG No No. He's posted their real names. An even BIGGER No No. What more does anyone need to know about the guy ?

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    wow, I didnt mean to cause such a problem here...

    With that said, I will direct my girlfriend to this thread so she can read it and make a desicion for herself.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxblueeyesxxx View Post
    Side note: In the spirit of giving a fair review - while all the girls I have ever known to work for him have quit and spew venom based on the sound of his name - they (and I do too) will admit that there is DEFINITE earning potential. Some of these girls have made around 1K a night. But while all dancing come with a price (the degree varies from monetary to safety, esteem, sanity and pride) Lou has managed to make is dancer's live degrading in a whole new way.
    What a completely excellent post blueeyes, just wow....very well said in every aspect, and you're absolutely right, to have posts like yours deleted just bc somewhere in the thread there were unpleasantries coming from him, is a huge disservice to the sw community. Fortuntely you and I and others are still here to repost. This is not just Any Old SC USA where the info is constantly changing, I'm glad ppl are realizing that.



    The same thing happened to me, getting set up with a VIP by him with a particularly hostile lawyer guy who actually busted out with 2 flavored condoms, grape and coke as I recall....I was absolutely floored. He was incredibly handsy, forceful, and I managed to stave him away for 20 mins and got my $$. Months later, Lou actually called me up while I was at home asking me if I would accept a Valentine's Day card from him!!!! I rarely used the VIP room, only when a customer insisted and seemed trustworthy and willing to pay me $500 minimum and knew I wasn't going to be in there blowing him.


    I know his parties will continue to run and run for quite sometime, but I can only hope he pisses off the right girl with the power and connections to expose him and take him down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alaska View Post
    What a completely excellent post blueeyes, just wow....very well said in every aspect, and you're absolutely right, to have posts like yours deleted just bc somewhere in the thread there were unpleasantries coming from him, is a huge disservice to the sw community. Fortuntely you and I and others are still here to repost. This is not just Any Old SC USA where the info is constantly changing, I'm glad ppl are realizing that.
    Thank you Alaska, and I commend you as well. Lou (as much as I despise him) has managed to create an extremely successful business for himself. He has essentially created a strip club that evades NY SC laws (i.e. topless = booze, nude = no booze, etc.). He is charging house fees, where as most large LD and PP parties barely manage to get away with not paying the dancers, and certainly pick up slack for the lack of pay. He is definitely doing something (or many things) right. Well, at least RIGHT FOR HIS POCKETS..

    I hope that all of the dancers (many of whom I know and am close friends with) stay SAFE, and that it does not take something (GOD FORBID) HORRIBLE happening to one of them, to get the proper authorities to take action in regards to Lou.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    I'm sorry but that just doesn't wash. A "swing" party implies that EVERYONE there is a consenting adult. So what do you mean by "illegal stuff" ?
    Ugh. Plenty of illegal things are consensual and I never specified these illegal things were sexual assaults with an unwilling party. You totally skipped over the point of my post - that illegal things obviously go unreported - which was exactly the same as Bridgette's point, except I was being polite. I don't know why I bother. All the illegal stuff I saw was minor league BS, nothing to get worked up over and nothing that would come as a huge surprise. Nothing worth hashing out here. I was just indicating that illegal and reported do not always go hand in hand. Given what I saw at these kink parties I would not be surprised if the lawbreaking went further at the LD parties.

    Goodbye shitty thread I'm out of here.

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    Might I suggest that, as a way of making info available about this club and KEEPING it whether some jerkoff derails the thread or not, you girls go to the Clubs and Reviews section and copy/paste your info there. That way it should stay here indefinitely.

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    ....is one of the girls in the club photos masturbating?


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    Might I suggest that, as a way of making info available about this club and KEEPING it whether some jerkoff derails the thread or not, you girls go to the Clubs and Reviews section and copy/paste your info there. That way it should stay here indefinitely.
    That section is defunct and has been for some time. while you can eventually get somewhere, its a major pain in the ass.

    i just hope that the mods archive this thread and people can glean what they want from it.


    Update: My girlfriend went. The wouldnt hire her. She was told they didnt need black girls. I told her it was for the best.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

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    I know the clubs and reviews section has been fucked for a long time, but there's been instructions for getting in posted also. It's not that hard if directions are followed. Whatever, seems like this thread will stay this time. Let's hope.

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    Oy. Then this thread definitely needs to stay!

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    Default Re: Hot Lapdance club...(yes, thats the name) NYC ladies, tell me

    I'm glad for this thread, thanks for your support everyone....Akasha, damn. I'm sorry that happened to your friend---instead of just not hiring her, of course he prob had to be rude and crass about it.


    Good idea about clubs and reviews Bridgette--I'll try and do that later when I have more time.




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